I can't believe it we have been married for 2 years now. I found my Phil right here. We were both open to try though we did not meet each other's criteria, I am 5'9" and he is 5'4". I am a christian and he is jewish and I am African Amrican and he's not. We found a common bond in the fact that we both wanted truly a soulmate for life. Leave options open. You never know.