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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 22, 2005 22:09

I was told recently by a complete stranger, that i was ugly. Now you must understand this is out of the blue.. while waiting to buy a book at a local store, and and i smile ( out of kindness) to a gentleman in front of me in line. He quickly ( and loudly) said... "Oh dont even bother. I am not even close to being interested in you.. in fact you are one of the ugliest girls i have ever seen" I didnt know how to react.... Am i really that ugly? Maybe i have seen myself So much... i am desensitized to it.... could someone please just tell me? I know i am not perfect... but am i that bad?

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Apr 09, 2014 06:08

how shallow you have a pretty smile beautiful eyes,besides you wouldnt want date a guy like that for one thing,just remember that maybe when a guy tries to approach one day and he doesnt fit your type that you will be as nice as that pretty smile and not be judgememtal or hurtful and karma will send you your prince charming 

 

 

ps : just an average joe who thinks you are pretty 

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 03, 2014 22:59

No question, you're cute.  You have a lovely smile, nice eyes, and hair a huge portion of the population would kill for. 



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Mar 19, 2014 21:24

Dont ever let anyone question your beauty. Im a very honest person and your hot. Rock it. Next time be prepared for such said jerks. Ppl today are just stupid. 



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Feb 26, 2014 09:30

Please don't listen to him.. he is...ur beautiful. .x



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 13, 2014 14:10

You're not ugly at all! That man just had no taste in seeing REAL beauty!



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Nov 25, 2013 14:40

he is blind or an a-hole....let go of that experience!



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Nov 09, 2013 06:25

NO! Your not ugly at all! Ignore that man!



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jul 11, 2013 07:39

Sweety, your pretty and i like your smile

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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 07, 2013 03:43

£%#? No



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 27, 2013 21:36

no worry sister you are beautiful!! Xo

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Nov 14, 2012 11:35

Hi honey! You are not ugly at all!!!!  You are beautiful!
Just a few words i'm gonna tell you. Myabe it will help. 
First of all as other people said in here "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" .... different people have different ideas about beauty.
You have amazing eyes and beautiful smile. And so nice hair - blond and shiny. 
Next thing i'm gonna say and i don't do it because i think you need it, i'm only saying it to help - if you feel like hiding small imperfections of the face use makeup tricks. There are hundreds videos over the internet where you can learn from. Women do it everyday..... they make eyes look bigger or smaller, lips, nose, they even change shape of the face. And only with makeup.
Another thing. You can really apreciate someone's beauty by their personality. I mean ... people who i found stunning at first litteraly turned ugly in my eyes because of their behavior. And people who didn't seem too cute turned out beautiful in my eyes. :)) I once met one guy ...he was so ugly that he was funny. Kids on the beach were pointing fingers at him. Met him on a vacation.  Girl!!! i ran away from home to meet him! He had such a great personality that i needed to see him again. Every time he comes on my mind it makes me smile. Hopefully i will meet him again someday.
I know it's easy to loose confidence. I have moments i really hate myself. I could talk for hours about how much i have lost in my life because of lack of confidence. Because i let others tell me how i am instead of looking in the mirror and in my heart. And i still do...But we gotta keep heads up. It is impossible for everyone to like the same things and people. Just think of it - if it was so, the world would have been a very boring place. 
SMILE!!! You have a beautiful one! :)))

One weird thing: this is one of my most apreciated pictures i ever posted. It looks ok to many people ....in reality i was crying when this picture was taken. And my heart was broken in many tiny pieces.

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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 29, 2012 09:41

You are NOT ugly! 
The person that said that to you is a jerk.



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Oct 18, 2012 09:30

anyman that says that to you is a fool.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 23, 2011 04:16

hell no u r not i said not ugly at all



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Apr 27, 2011 03:56

This might sound cliche, but I think whether or not you're 'ugly' is determined by how you act, feel and think--especially about yourself.
Preferences in physical appearances differ from person to person, so while someone might be gorgeous to some, to others (s)he might just not be their cup of tea.
In highschool, I hear all sorts of girls nitpick about their bodies, calling themselves fat or ugly. I look at these girls and I just see these lovely, budding women who need to feel more comfortable with who they are. But then I see the girls who spread the rumors and feel the need to put others down, be it about their body or something else. I don't find this sort of person attractive at all.
Above all else, it's who you are that really boils you down into something beautiful. Confidence and a belief in yourself can go a long way. Sure it may be hard (lord, I know it's hard) but it's true what they say in most cases; confidence is sexy. Even if you're not the most confident person in the world, it's your quirks and flaws that are going to make people love you.
Simply on the outside, I think you're lovely.
On the inside... well that's just for you to decide.



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Apr 16, 2011 14:25

Nah that fool was just some clown whose got an ego problem. In reality your fine like wine and he was a fool and a tool.

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 14, 2011 20:24

Girl please take a look again because you are very cute. Some people just have to be that way to make themselves feel better about themselves. Keep smiling because you have one of those "make ya feel better" when you smile.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 15, 2011 19:59

Honestly, I would go out with you.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 01, 2011 20:48

No you are not ugly.