I'm with all you guys...
I'm 28, have a graduate degree, great job, great place, fun, funny, laid back...all the good things but it seems if you don't come in a nice tiny package you never even get a second glance! I know if I was a size 6 I would be dating like crazy....bah
OOOOOH, please don't rush... because you'll end up with "marrying down" and be miserable. Dig yourself for a a while and make sure you're happy with who that is before you introduce any other variables. LOL
Don't rush things. Mistakes are made that way. I agree with those that are saying your to young and for you to have fun... Looking can be half the fun. Heck I'm having fun checking out this site and seeing what everyone says on the post. Dating can be fun if you relax. He will come in your life (or he might be their already and you just don't know it)when you lease expect it.
soxy write: Hun at 21, dont run before u can walk, 21 is the start to you becomming an adult,and IF you are lucky and one of the minority u will find that special person then, but believe me by the time u hit yr 30's u will be a different woman, then 40's same thing, the 20's is the time u discover life, yourself and learn to have fun, dont ask it to be over yet, enjoy dating, enjoy meeting people! Remember you only live once! huggles Vonnie xx
best advice i've seen so far on this site....hear hear
Hun at 21, dont run before u can walk, 21 is the start to you becomming an adult,and IF you are lucky and one of the minority u will find that special person then, but believe me by the time u hit yr 30's u will be a different woman, then 40's same thing, the 20's is the time u discover life, yourself and learn to have fun, dont ask it to be over yet, enjoy dating, enjoy meeting people! Remember you only live once!
huggles
Vonnie xx
If at 21 you are discouraged, what happens when you are my age? I am 54, was married 20 years to an alcoholic, cheating, wife-beater! As the saying goes: "Better to be happily alone, then miserable with someone!" Hate to tell you, but, "There is NO perfect relationship, and what you see is not always what you get!" So, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and, enjoy "YOU!" The right man will notice, and, the "search" will be over!.
Hugs,
sweetsforyou, (Mary)
beh, im not so sure about marriage, but someone who i can share my life with would be good. i recently got crashed and burned by a guy and its no fun, but im like, well ok that hurt, lets learn and move on....any takers ;) :p
i would say be very carefull before you go and get married i have been there twice ,, silly me and both have failed and i thought the 2nd one was for keeps but he turned ouit to be a nightmare , in saying that we had 10 years together and not all where bad ,, so i am back to looking for my prince and i must admit being friends and getting to know everything about each other is the best road to take ,
I did put this joke on another thread, but I thought it suited this post well ;)
Once upon a time, a girl asked a guy "Will you marry me?"
The guy said, "NO!"
And the girl lived happily ever after and went shopping, dancing,
camping, drank martinis, always had a clean house, never had to cook,
had sex with whomever she pleased and fa_rted whenever she wanted.
I hate to break it to you but finding your soulmate may take a while! Or, maybe you just lay back and let him find you! Sometimes when were looking for something/someone we find nothing/no one. Lastly, you don't wanna marry just any ole body because then you'd been settling. No one should want to settle...I know I don't!
I hate to break it to you but finding your soulmate may take a while! Or, maybe you just lay back and let him find you! Sometimes when were looking for something/someone we find nothing/no one. Lastly, you don't wanna marry just any ole body because then you'd been settling. No one should want to settle...I know I don't!
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