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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Nov 03, 2005 06:44

Hello everyone,ladyadrine hello and yes your right we are cudlly and warm,I to like the other BHM's have a diflcult time find women who realy do like big men,I have talked to a few women who may have just broken up with a guy and they may have threatened them and look to me since i'm so big and talk to me hopeing my size will chase off the ex,and some will be blatent about it.Then you have the women who say they do but when I try talking to them their attention is else where,like at the smaller guy across the room.and of course there's the ones who think,Mmmm,this big must be realy lonely so i'll talk to him and see what I can get out of him,a user.but thanks lady,any time you want to talk I would feel honered to,myaddy is no1magillaataoldotcomand you can talk anytime. hey I'm Eddie B.



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 31, 2005 19:00

Dont feel bad I am a woman who likes big men but it seems to me that the Big men in New York dont like big woman. I like a big man because there is a whole lot more to love and hold on too than a skinny bean pole.I wish you lots of luck
Dont feel bad I am a woman who likes big men but it seems to me that the Big men in New York dont like big woman. I like a big man because there is a whole lot more to love and hold on too than a skinny bean pole.I wish you lots of luck

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 26, 2005 14:38

I'm not sure about this whole "being in their shadow" argument. I've certainly never heard or heard of a man voice that kind of concern.
I'm not sure about this whole "being in their shadow" argument. I've certainly never heard or heard of a man voice that kind of concern.



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 26, 2005 13:16

I certainly agree, the two girls weren't exactly looking for companionship. Metaphorically speaking, they were probably insecure themselves and needed some "real he-man" on their arm in the hopes that they would look good because of being in his shadow. They might've been very shallow and you don't need that. Of course, the same thing goes for men who only want to be with skinny Barbie Doll type women. It would be nice if everyone looked at eachother as individuals who might add to their lives instead of seeking visual and sociatial enhansment. This might be a good time to throw-in the saying that true Love is blind.........
I certainly agree, the two girls weren't exactly looking for companionship. Metaphorically speaking, they were probably insecure themselves and needed some "real he-man" on their arm in the hopes that they would look good because of being in his shadow. They might've been very shallow and you don't need that. Of course, the same thing goes for men who only want to be with skinny Barbie Doll type women. It would be nice if everyone looked at eachother as individuals who might add to their lives instead of seeking visual and sociatial enhansment. This might be a good time to throw-in the saying that true Love is blind.........



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 26, 2005 11:50

Just be thankful those two gals showed their true colors now rather than later.
Just be thankful those two gals showed their true colors now rather than later.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 26, 2005 11:34

OMG, I think you great! I love tall, big men to death. I have a really hard time being attracted to a guy under 6 ft. and less than 230lbs. It has nothing to do with me being "plus size" since I have always crushed on big guys even when I weighed 120lbs. Keep it up, you are great and seem to have a solid personality.
OMG, I think you great! I love tall, big men to death. I have a really hard time being attracted to a guy under 6 ft. and less than 230lbs. It has nothing to do with me being "plus size" since I have always crushed on big guys even when I weighed 120lbs. Keep it up, you are great and seem to have a solid personality.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Oct 25, 2005 13:46

i also have meet a lady online (on y) and we talked for months finally when we meet she didnt like me because i am 5 8 and 285 ....but the thing was she was a bbw and she was afraid to meet me that i wouldnt like her...here it turned out she didnt like me even tho she was a bbw well it is her losss....i am a nice guy i will find someone.and so all of you will good luck.....edinshamokin be smart you can get in touch after my ad runs out
i also have meet a lady online and we talked for months finally when we meet she didnt like me because i am 5 8 and 285 ....but the thing was she was a bbw and she was afraid to meet me that i wouldnt like her...here it turned out she didnt like me even tho she was a bbw well it is her losss....i am a nice guy i will find someone.and so all of you will good luck.....edinshamokin be smart you can get in touch after my ad runs out



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 24, 2005 14:17

Gordy, I feel you on this one.
I've been in your shoes on more than one occasion. I've read many of the post on this thread, and find many more people in acceptance of those in our position in this particular forum. I'm not saying this in a bad way, what I do mean is that in this fellowship that we share we sympathize with our own plight and find not only compassion, but even better attraction in those that bear our gifts so to speak, but elsewhere prejudices may prevail and many more might not side with the views of this forum. I've chosen not to kid myself, and am reminded to do so on a somewhat regular bases by those who would be so ignorant as to put up barriers to protect themselves from people such as myself. Those ignorant enough to perceive that I am no more than the sum of my height, girth and or weight. Because for me to have any kind of substance would be unheard of now wouldn't it? Then there are those who have brushed of any remnants of this cloak of ignorance, have made clear the paths that they may hear, cleared away all layers of smoke that they may see, and in many cases this is what they find. (Not gender bias.) Someone who can fill there hearts with laughter, one who lends an ear when that is what is needed most, an arm to hold and shoulder to cry on if needed, one who is gentile and kind yet a monumental mountain of strength when need be. This person may command a room when they open there mouth to speak, yet only need speak in a mer whisper. At this point I can hand you the coloring book and crayons, because this picture is only limited by your own imagination. My point is that ignorance is not bliss, it is blinding yet we will come across it daily, but let us not forget those who have never been blinded or chose not to be blind any longer and rejoice that yes, they do exist. The feedback from these lovely ladys alone brings comfort to my heart. We just need to be a little more patiant perhaps, thats all, but then.......this is only my opinion.
Gordy, I feel you on this one.
I've been in your shoes on more than one occasion. I've read many of the post on this thread, and find many more people in acceptance of those in our position in this particular forum. I'm not saying this in a bad way, what I do mean is that in this fellowship that we share we sympathize with our own plight and find not only compassion, but even better attraction in those that bear our gifts so to speak, but elsewhere prejudices may prevail and many more might not side with the views of this forum. I've chosen not to kid myself, and am reminded to do so on a somewhat regular bases by those who would be so ignorant as to put up barriers to protect themselves from people such as myself. Those ignorant enough to perceive that I am no more than the sum of my height, girth and or weight. Because for me to have any kind of substance would be unheard of now wouldn't it? Then there are those who have brushed of any remnants of this cloak of ignorance, have made clear the paths that they may hear, cleared away all layers of smoke that they may see, and in many cases this is what they find. (Not gender bias.) Someone who can fill there hearts with laughter, one who lends an ear when that is what is needed most, an arm to hold and shoulder to cry on if needed, one who is gentile and kind yet a monumental mountain of strength when need be. This person may command a room when they open there mouth to speak, yet only need speak in a mer whisper. At this point I can hand you the coloring book and crayons, because this picture is only limited by your own imagination. My point is that ignorance is not bliss, it is blinding yet we will come across it daily, but let us not forget those who have never been blinded or chose not to be blind any longer and rejoice that yes, they do exist. The feedback from these lovely ladys alone brings comfort to my heart. We just need to be a little more patiant perhaps, thats all, but then.......this is only my opinion.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 21, 2005 09:22

I myself prefer a bigger man to a small one. I like something I can huggle up with and not feel skinny lil ribs poking me. Nothing like the feeling of being held by a big old teddy bear.
I myself prefer a bigger man to a small one. I like something I can huggle up with and not feel skinny lil ribs poking me. Nothing like the feeling of being held by a big old teddy bear.

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 19, 2005 09:20

I think you're nice looking. :)
I think you're nice looking. :)



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 19, 2005 05:02

I think you're a sweetie....
I think you're a sweetie....

  


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Oct 18, 2005 14:39

Well Gordie I dont know if its too late to reply to your question..but in my opinion ..size shouldnt matter...heart and character should...for either s*x...but it does seem to matter to some people..I dont understand it ..I never will ..maybe for the younger kids..but by the time you hit your forties..anything can happen health wise..and just life itself..can change and will change people's appearances..I would imagine that is why so many people get divorced or seperate at that age..it happened to me..I always thought it was a guy thing..obviously I was wrong..just be yourself..be sweet...someone will appreciate that ..trust me on that one...I would..its a hard thing to find ...I think it is a valid discussion point ..thanks for sharing...dressedtokill



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 14, 2005 11:43


mrhomerbeeel write:
Hi Gordy, defiantly know where you are coming from. im 6,1 over 300 but dont look or act it. havnt had any one comment on not seeing me because im big.I just tell it like it is to avoid that. did have one lady was dissapointed that i showed up after work to go to breakfast in my sweats. oh well her loss I am not to fond of the high maintenance girs or have a problem with everything. maybe thats why she got a divorce in the first place. good luck in the future and hang in there.





I am just curious.... what does your wife think about you going out with other women for breakfast? It is your choice to cheat or not.... I personally do NOT condone it. I think this woman was disappointed because you didn't think she was worth enough for you to even bother to wear a pair of decent pants instead of sweats. She is not necessarily high maintenance based on this ..... she just has taste!



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 14, 2005 10:09


mrhomerbeeel write:
Hi Gordy, defiantly know where you are coming from. im 6,1 over 300 but dont look or act it. havnt had any one comment on not seeing me because im big.I just tell it like it is to avoid that. did have one lady was dissapointed that i showed up after work to go to breakfast in my sweats. oh well her loss I am not to fond of the high maintenance girs or have a problem with everything. maybe thats why she got a divorce in the first place. good luck in the future and hang in there.




Firstly, I agree with Trixie... it has to do with the married part, but secondly... I'm a firm believer in first impressions. You NEVER get a second chance at first impressions. I figure it goes downhill after that.

I don't consider myself high maintainance, but I do like to look nice and present myself well.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 14, 2005 05:42

Homer, Maybe it wasn't the sweats but the fact that you are married that turned her off. Just a thought.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 14, 2005 01:43

Hi Gordy, defiantly know where you are coming from. im 6,1 over 300 but dont look or act it. havnt had any one comment on not seeing me because im big.I just tell it like it is to avoid that. did have one lady was dissapointed that i showed up after work to go to breakfast in my sweats. oh well her loss I am not to fond of the high maintenance girs or have a problem with everything. maybe thats why she got a divorce in the first place. good luck in the future and hang in there.



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Oct 13, 2005 03:33

Being bisexual would make it a lot easier to get a date.



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 12, 2005 11:23


Theophrastus write:
To be fair, I think Gordy would have to strike out with a few more women before he tried that option Chublove


Theo, for once, I'd agree with you.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 12, 2005 03:46

thanks for the support Chublove but I'm 100% straight.

Good luck in finding your guy!



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Oct 12, 2005 02:33

To be fair, I think Gordy would have to strike out with a few more women before he tried that option Chublove

  


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