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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Oct 02, 2005 17:22

ok before i offend u firstly u are way pretty!

secondly i think he may actually be a bbw admirer in the closet! he probably doesn't wanna admit to himself or any1 else that he finds us curvettes attractive!

also has anyone ever noticed when you stare in the mirror or at a pic of urself u look more unattractive by the second?

and my last comment is people like him are put in this world to......try our patience......make us look at ourselves and ask am i who i want to be?...... and make us p~ss ourselves thinking uglyness is a matter of sight and i will be above all else more beautiful than a slime bag like u can ever be!!!!!!!

hugs hunny

cuddly x x x



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 30, 2005 17:41

Oh. My. God.

What an effing jerk. I think I would have kicked him in the jewels, all the while still smiling........

Seriously, you are an adorable girl with a bright, warm, welcoming smile. Don't let people like that get you down, and don't believe what one idiot says. Believe Us, here in the forums!

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 28, 2005 10:58

The only thing "ugly" was his attitude. And unfortunately, you can't judge that kind of ugly until they open their mouths. Too bad they don't make attitude adjustment pills. He needs one. You are definately not ugly! Don't let this guy get to your head and fill it with what isn't true!



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 28, 2005 09:32

No!!!! you are not ugly at all!!! you are beautiful,and have a lovely smile...but the guy who said that to you...is an ugly ugly person!!!



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 28, 2005 06:47


gEnAvEe write:
i totally agree!! u are soo not ugly at all... that guy was a total jerk off!! don't even waste your time thinking about what he said... i've asked myself that same question... am i ugly??



Oh stop being silly, of course you're not ugly.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 28, 2005 03:09

Sometimes all it takes is ONE negative comment to make us wonder, yet all the positive comments you may get seem to go out the window, especially from the people that matter in your life .... strange huh

  


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 28, 2005 02:52

It always surprises me how much peoples comments can affect us....i mean really...these are people who we'll probably never see again...and although their comments may sting for a bit...you know the person you are.



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 27, 2005 21:15

i totally agree!! u are soo not ugly at all... that guy was a total jerk off!! don't even waste your time thinking about what he said... i've asked myself that same question... am i ugly??

  
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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 27, 2005 14:53

definitely not the "U" word n fact more like the "P" word (pretty), obvoiusly this was someone strugglng with the ugliness of his own personality



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 27, 2005 09:12

OMG honey!!!!!....i can't believe someone said that to you...it's the meanest thing i've ever heard...OMG!

People like that should never reproduce...he should have his balls chopped off and thrown in the fire.

Honey you're so gorgeous!...don't waste time thinking about what he said to you...i feel like i wanna give you a big hug :)



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Sep 26, 2005 19:27

newgirl,

That guy was nuts - you are NOT ugly!

He was just a jerk, and he is an ugly person for trying to make you feel about yourself.

Only people that lack personality and/or self-esteem would say such a thing.

Stay strong and positive!
W.



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 25, 2005 12:44


newgirl8282 write:
I was told recently by a complete stranger, that i was ugly. Now you must understand this is out of the blue.. while waiting to buy a book at a local store, and and i smile ( out of kindness) to a gentleman in front of me in line. He quickly ( and loudly) said... "Oh dont even bother. I am not even close to being interested in you.. in fact you are one of the ugliest girls i have ever seen" I didnt know how to react.... Am i really that ugly? Maybe i have seen myself So much... i am desensitized to it.... could someone please just tell me? I know i am not perfect... but am i that bad?



Wow I don't know what this guys problem was he is probably just one of those people who instantly rules out someone with a little weight.

I happen think you are quite attractive and you'd definitely catch my eye if I saw you on the streets or someplace. If you're ugly then I must be crazy because I'm thinking bring on the ugly girls ... hahahahaha.

Bye cutie and I hope you feel better and don't let some idiot's comments go to your head.

Rodney aka bbanditx79



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 25, 2005 07:11

NewGirl,

You were too kind by calling that jerk a gentleman...anyway, you are not ugly, not by a long shot. Don't give that idiot rent-free space in your head. You are pretty. And probably one of the few people on this planet who has the gumption and good heart to smile at a total stranger. That is the most beautiful thing in the world. A genuine smile is a signal that a person is kind and open enough to give and receive good things. NEVER LET ANYONE STEAL THAT BEAUTY FROM YOU!

See, the power of cruel people like that is, if that you're going through an insecure moment, and who isn't, at times...the negative comments will echo in your brain until they become a tidal wave. You might even start believing them. Haven't we all been there? It takes about twenty good comments or favorable events to cancel out a negative one.

Forget about that fool! Please go around smiling and expecting good things. I always say "Good Morning," "Good Afternoon," etc. I give a compliment. I even talk to strangers in elevators, I hold doors, carry packages for elderly people and I give up my seat on the bus when big strapping men don't...things that any decent person should do.

It feels really great to make someone's day. Keep reaching out and giving kindness. It will come back to you.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 24, 2005 19:32

You are definitely not ugly, you don't have anything to worry about.

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 24, 2005 16:50

what a POS. I hate people like that. they have their heads so far up their own colons they think that everything is about them.
Also, he was dead wrong. You wouldnt even come near the 'ugly' rating. I think youre cute, and you have a nice warm and friendly look about you. note, you smile at people regardless, and he treats random people with undeserved abuse- rest assured that youre obviously a much better and more worthwile human being than he is.



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 24, 2005 01:29

Don't worry about what that guy said, he probably had his beer glasses on and didn't even realize! Lol

I bet he was actually trying to get some attention on himself since no one else will give him any.

No honey, you're not ugly soon you'll be telling the guys who are banging down your door to get a number and wait in line!

  


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 24, 2005 00:44

newgirl, you are such a cutie. Dont let the ugliness of one mean guy crush your spirit. I sometimes find people project their own issues on others and you just have to walk away. Just know that you are a doll.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 23, 2005 23:11

You?? Ugly?? Not in the least!! He was only inflicting on you how he feels about himself.

Don't let idiots like him make you doubt your beauty or make you change your "pretty" demeanor. Keep on smiling at strangers when you feel like it and spread your joy onto others.



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 23, 2005 18:38

god.......to be able to set stupid people on fire by a glance alone.......

You are a lovely young lady.....whoever made that comment was the ugly one....

Keep smiling...and don't put up with any crap......next time email me and I'll come kick his a$$!!!!!



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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 23, 2005 17:24

newgirl, you have absolutely nothing to worry about :) you could have guys beating your door down if you wanted haha... take care!



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