First, let me echo other comments by saying I think you're really cute.
Second, your experience makes me wonder, why is it that the a**holes of the world feel obligated/allowed to make fun of big people?
I can't tell you how many times I've been walking down the street and some jerk has called out "Hey, Porky!" or muttered "Jeez, you take up the whole sidewalk" or whatever.
What perplexes me the most are the ones who shout something along the lines of "Hey! You're fat!!"
What exactly is the purpose of such comments? Do they think I don't KNOW I'm fat? What makes my size their business, when I haven't even looked at them, let alone tried to talk to them? And what's so wrong with our society that people derive such utter glee from making these horrible statements?
secondly i think he may actually be a bbw admirer in the closet! he probably doesn't wanna admit to himself or any1 else that he finds us curvettes attractive!
also has anyone ever noticed when you stare in the mirror or at a pic of urself u look more unattractive by the second?
and my last comment is people like him are put in this world to......try our patience......make us look at ourselves and ask am i who i want to be?...... and make us p~ss ourselves thinking uglyness is a matter of sight and i will be above all else more beautiful than a slime bag like u can ever be!!!!!!!
The only thing "ugly" was his attitude. And unfortunately, you can't judge that kind of ugly until they open their mouths. Too bad they don't make attitude adjustment pills. He needs one. You are definately not ugly! Don't let this guy get to your head and fill it with what isn't true!
gEnAvEe write: i totally agree!! u are soo not ugly at all... that guy was a total jerk off!! don't even waste your time thinking about what he said... i've asked myself that same question... am i ugly??
Sometimes all it takes is ONE negative comment to make us wonder, yet all the positive comments you may get seem to go out the window, especially from the people that matter in your life .... strange huh
It always surprises me how much peoples comments can affect us....i mean really...these are people who we'll probably never see again...and although their comments may sting for a bit...you know the person you are.
newgirl8282 write: I was told recently by a complete stranger, that i was ugly. Now you must understand this is out of the blue.. while waiting to buy a book at a local store, and and i smile ( out of kindness) to a gentleman in front of me in line. He quickly ( and loudly) said... "Oh dont even bother. I am not even close to being interested in you.. in fact you are one of the ugliest girls i have ever seen" I didnt know how to react.... Am i really that ugly? Maybe i have seen myself So much... i am desensitized to it.... could someone please just tell me? I know i am not perfect... but am i that bad?
Wow I don't know what this guys problem was he is probably just one of those people who instantly rules out someone with a little weight.
I happen think you are quite attractive and you'd definitely catch my eye if I saw you on the streets or someplace. If you're ugly then I must be crazy because I'm thinking bring on the ugly girls ... hahahahaha.
Bye cutie and I hope you feel better and don't let some idiot's comments go to your head.
You were too kind by calling that jerk a gentleman...anyway, you are not ugly, not by a long shot. Don't give that idiot rent-free space in your head. You are pretty. And probably one of the few people on this planet who has the gumption and good heart to smile at a total stranger. That is the most beautiful thing in the world. A genuine smile is a signal that a person is kind and open enough to give and receive good things. NEVER LET ANYONE STEAL THAT BEAUTY FROM YOU!
See, the power of cruel people like that is, if that you're going through an insecure moment, and who isn't, at times...the negative comments will echo in your brain until they become a tidal wave. You might even start believing them. Haven't we all been there? It takes about twenty good comments or favorable events to cancel out a negative one.
Forget about that fool! Please go around smiling and expecting good things. I always say "Good Morning," "Good Afternoon," etc. I give a compliment. I even talk to strangers in elevators, I hold doors, carry packages for elderly people and I give up my seat on the bus when big strapping men don't...things that any decent person should do.
It feels really great to make someone's day. Keep reaching out and giving kindness. It will come back to you.
what a POS. I hate people like that. they have their heads so far up their own colons they think that everything is about them.
Also, he was dead wrong. You wouldnt even come near the 'ugly' rating. I think youre cute, and you have a nice warm and friendly look about you. note, you smile at people regardless, and he treats random people with undeserved abuse- rest assured that youre obviously a much better and more worthwile human being than he is.
newgirl, you are such a cutie. Dont let the ugliness of one mean guy crush your spirit. I sometimes find people project their own issues on others and you just have to walk away. Just know that you are a doll.