I'm curious to see what people in general or what men consider to be a BBW. I mean is a BBW someone who has what you would call the baby fat rolls and a huge chest, or someone who has the extra padding all over. I'm just curious because I see woman who call themselves BBW but all they have are HUGE chests and alil roll here and there. Then there are BBW's like me,who I would really consider a BBW, we have the extra padding all over and not just lil baby fat rolls. So let's hear what ppl are thinking about this?
A bbw is just that. She may be large, but she shines with grace, femininity, love and class. I am a BBW and very proud of it. There are many men who love and appreciate that a woman who is confident in herself is beautiful now matter what her size. If you love you, someone else will too!
I know it has been some time since you posted this comment, but thought I would reply anyway. It is too bad that there are people who feel it is okay to do things like that. Hurtful things are NEVER okay.
In reading over this forum and seeing what people post, even here on these forums, how childish are we??? Did we not leave that in middle school or HS cheerleading camp? Okay, so I wasn't a cheerleader. None the less, these people are out there feeling it is acceptable.
I agree with most of you that it is in the eye of the beholder. I have heard that I am a thick woman, I have heard I am big, am fat, and I am obese. But, the thing to remember is that although I am always trying to better myself, I am HAPPY with who I am, no matter my size.
And also it is important to surround yourself with winners, winners in life. Those who encourge you, enspire you, love you. No matter our size, we have such an ability to give love and compassion. Beautiful!
Well when I hear the term BBW this what I consider, A woman who has a nice soft stomach I can just fall asleep on, soft chubby arms that I go crazy over, wide hips, big thighs and calves ( please do not confuse this statement with cankles lol!) but more importantly A true BBW is also has a heart of gold IMO.
This is the hardest question tht I have ever had to answer;what a BBW;I feel tht it is in the eye of the beholder;I once deated a woman who weighed 120 lbs and she said she was big.In my mind,she was quite skinny.I have always dated BBW and while the relationship or ships didnt work out,it had nothing to do with te woman being a BBW.I cant say a certain weight or size;its all in how your prsent yourself;I am 55 and black and thts m,y preference since I was 14 and I am sticking to it.For all the men who find somethig n not likable abt aBBW,you have no idea wht it is to be with a together BBW.
It has been my experience that when men say BBW they mean exactly that first consider in their minds BBW means: Bold Beautiful Woman not Big..........But for the most part with me "what you see is what you get!"
well, here i go..my first reply on here...well, i have my profile on a few other sites (like a lot of other people do) and on the 'normal' sites i get emails telling me to go to a fat farm, telling me to lay off the food, even suggesting i try a vegetarian diet....and i have even had some tell me to go to a bbw site-ALL the replies were by men. one man was over 350 and he told ME that i looked like a cow! sooo, now i am here-been here for quite a long time...just been too shy in posting.
Kearney, that's happened to me a lot. I take 30 to 45-minute walks 3 to 4 times a week, and I take my Ipod with me but don't crank up the volume so I can hear cars around me. The things people say about me when they think I can't hear them... I always think next time it happens I should just turn my head around and tell them I heard, just to see their faces. At 5'9 and a size 18, I'm certainly not small, but if those people knew how fit I am, they wouldn't make such comments.
I'm new here so please forgive me for being naieve. I guess I don't understand why it is so hard for a man to speak to a female of any size. When I was 16 my first job was at a local Hardee's. There was this one guy whom I thought was all that and the bag of chips he rode in on. I overheard him make the comment of "oh she's so pretty and i'd date her if she wasn't as big as she is." Hello? We do have ears!! You don't know how hard it is just to walk down the street when you hear these comments. I may not be the smartest crayon in the box, but for goodness sake, give it a rest already. I agree that everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but have a little common sense and learn to keep some comments under your breath. The next time you walk along your daily path, think of one thing. There is an awesome person and boy i'd like to meet that person. You never know who you might actually talk to and find the love of your life. Personally I love nc chocolate's outfit!
Cathii write: Well nc_chocolatebbw4u there is classy and there is trashy and i am sorry but your pic does nothing for you .. do u seriously go out looking like that? If u really had self respect you would change it.
I know i am gonna get slaughtered for this but it is not out of hatred or disrespect that i said it.
Dear Cathii...I can't believe you wrote this about another person publicly on the web. It woulda been another thing entirely to write her a personal note, telling her how your felt about her pics. Your note was clearly mean spririted and says a whole lot about how little compassion you have for a woman facing the same demons as you. Shame on you!!
What ever makes someone think they have the right to down grade another is beyond me. Definitely shows ones character.
I think nc looks rather beautiful and classy. I think us women need to stop being mean to each other. Sounds like a little green eyed monster?
I think a BBW can be someone who has a little extra padding or someone who has a lot of extra padding. Either way you are a BBW. It just means Big Beautiful and Female. Who the cap fits let them wear it...
SSBBW etc. is just a way for the connoisseur to target the ones they find most attractive. Don't be hung up on being labeled it just makes it easier to meet the right person.
I'm not sure. I think some men just look for pushovers bbw or not. I am also of the opinion that some men just like a girl with a fuller figure. Can't you say that you have preferences too? I know I do!
hi eveyone i am new to the site and i am a bbw or as i would say s&f (soft and fluffy) i don't knock any size if we all have same body type where would the excitement be. I just love to love and be loved.