Interracial Dating Cultures and Education

  • View author's info Author posted on Jul 16, 2005 at 09:29


    I find myself very attracted to my opposite ... i'm white/latina at 5'1" and 99lbs ... but i am very attracted to tall and big black men. do opposites attract? does anyone else feel the same?
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  • View author's info posted on May 08, 2012 at 21:09


    i love white men
  • View author's info posted on Aug 09, 2011 at 11:30


    I definitley am mostly attracted to the opposite! im white but have always been attracted to latino/hispanic/mixed race men older than me.
    im very new here and im surprised at the amount of good looking men who are looking for,or dont mind a large lady! I hope i dont sound rude or judgemental but these days i thought 99.999% of males were out to get beautiful tropical looking girl,size zero,so its reassuring to know im wrong here!
  • View author's info posted on Dec 20, 2009 at 13:00


    No DarkDixie, you're not the only who's been attracted to not just black men. I've happily dated outside my race since I was 16 (it was the talk of the high school then) and more often enough it's seem to be mostly white men. My ex-husband was white and most of the ex-boyfriends I've had were either white or Hispanic. I don't know why, but it seems like where I live, the men of my own race (black) only seem to want women who are Halle Berry beautiful (and skinny) and/or want a woman so dumb if her brains were dynamite, she couldn't blow her nose.

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  • View author's info posted on Jul 10, 2009 at 06:51


    Well for me it has always been a tall black muscular guy with a bald head and its def opposites attract as i am jewish lol x
  • View author's info posted on Jun 01, 2006 at 12:47


    I feel that opposites can attract... as a black woman, I find caucasian men attractive too. I especially like them big broad and tall. Does anyone watch the TV show 'less than perfect'?, I think I am in love with the 'Carl' character! :)

    Having said this, I don't really have a colour preferance for my ideal guy.
  • View author's info posted on Jan 20, 2006 at 11:16


    reighne write:
    *laugh* Freysh,

    *hug* I happen to like those "boring white bread middle class Englishmen", but then I'm different enough to more than make up for it. :D

    Sadly it seems that many people, at least here in Texas, like to stick with what they know. So here, that means the blonde (natural or bottle who can tell?), blue-eyed ones. It almost makes me want to go out and dye my hair blonde just to see if it makes a difference! Heh. :) No love for the Asian ch1cks... what's up with that? :)

    Rei

    P.S. Love ya Freysh! We'll find you a nice black man one of these days. :) Heck... I have some friends here in Texas I could introduce you to! :D


    Au contraire my dear. I LOVE Asian women! I think they're drop dead gorgeous, but unfortunately the attraction isn't mutual. Oh well...
  • View author's info posted on Oct 13, 2005 at 10:29


    *laugh* Freysh,

    *hug* I happen to like those "boring white bread middle class Englishmen", but then I'm different enough to more than make up for it. :D

    Sadly it seems that many people, at least here in Texas, like to stick with what they know. So here, that means the blonde (natural or bottle who can tell?), blue-eyed ones. It almost makes me want to go out and dye my hair blonde just to see if it makes a difference! Heh. :) No love for the Asian ch1cks... what's up with that? :)

    Rei

    P.S. Love ya Freysh! We'll find you a nice hunkahunka black man one of these days. :) Heck... I have some friends here in Texas I could introduce you to! :D
  • View author's info posted on Sep 23, 2005 at 10:32


    I have been asking myself for year if maybe I was crazy. I find myself attracted to men who are not black, mostly white. I guess I am not the only one who likes the opposite.
  • View author's info posted on Sep 08, 2005 at 05:06


    Interesting. I am not exactly black (are pacific islanders black I ask?) and I am not exactly huge (6ft, 230pounds) and am attracted to ladies who are full bodied but have dated slender or petite ladies. Physical attraction at first sight is I guess what many experience but after getting to know someone, you often look beyond that....smaller woman tend to be the ones that ask me out though interestingly enough for me. COntinue this debate I say..
  • View author's info posted on Aug 22, 2005 at 07:46


    I have always been attracted to my total opposite......Slender black men.
  • View author's info posted on Jul 22, 2005 at 02:41



    ruby91915 write:
    I find myself very attracted to my opposite ... i'm white/latina at 5'1" and 99lbs ... but i am very attracted to tall and big black men. do opposites attract? does anyone else feel the same?


    Well it's nice to see some little petite female actually like us larger/bhm guys ... hahaha ... we can't seem to get much love anywhere ... hahaha ...

    As to your question I sort of dig the whole opposites attract thing too, but I won't just limit myself either to those opposite of me.

    PS.... You say you like big guys, but your profile has you looking for males with a "petite" body type ... hahahaha ... probably just a misplaced check-mark ... I guess, but you probably want to update that.

    Rodney aka
  • View author's info posted on Jul 21, 2005 at 06:45


    RUBY - I'm shorter, wider and paler - LOL and I like taller, broader and darker, or rather that's always been my preference; however, lately - I've been asked out primarily by younger, tall, thin, black males - so, hey - broaden my horizons, right? No complaints here.
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