I definitley am mostly attracted to the opposite! im white but have always been attracted to latino/hispanic/mixed race men older than me.
im very new here and im surprised at the amount of good looking men who are looking for,or dont mind a large lady! I hope i dont sound rude or judgemental but these days i thought 99.999% of males were out to get beautiful tropical looking girl,size zero,so its reassuring to know im wrong here!
No DarkDixie, you're not the only who's been attracted to not just black men. I've happily dated outside my race since I was 16 (it was the talk of the high school then) and more often enough it's seem to be mostly white men. My ex-husband was white and most of the ex-boyfriends I've had were either white or Hispanic. I don't know why, but it seems like where I live, the men of my own race (black) only seem to want women who are Halle Berry beautiful (and skinny) and/or want a woman so dumb if her brains were dynamite, she couldn't blow her nose.
Interesting. I am not exactly black (are pacific islanders black I ask?) and I am not exactly huge (6ft, 230pounds) and am attracted to ladies who are full bodied but have dated slender or petite ladies. Physical attraction at first sight is I guess what many experience but after getting to know someone, you often look beyond that....smaller woman tend to be the ones that ask me out though interestingly enough for me. COntinue this debate I say..
RUBY - I'm shorter, wider and paler - LOL and I like taller, broader and darker, or rather that's always been my preference; however, lately - I've been asked out primarily by younger, tall, thin, black males - so, hey - broaden my horizons, right? No complaints here.