I was wondering what yall think about this. I have a friend who is married but is in love with a married woman. Apparently he cares about his wife but the intimacy is not even there. Before I could shout the Counseling word he wasn't trying to go there. So my question is, can a man or a woman be married and in love with someone else? I think it's very possible but what do yall think?

I think it's totally possible to be married and in love with someone else. The problem lies with where the marriage is lacking. If they can't communicate what their needs are to each other, it's doomed from the start. Communication is SO cruciual in a marriage I think...but then again, what the heck do I know...I've never been married before??? Good luck to your friends.