I was told recently by a complete stranger, that i was ugly. Now you must understand this is out of the blue.. while waiting to buy a book at a local store, and and i smile ( out of kindness) to a gentleman in front of me in line. He quickly ( and loudly) said... "Oh dont even bother. I am not even close to being interested in you.. in fact you are one of the ugliest girls i have ever seen" I didnt know how to react.... Am i really that ugly? Maybe i have seen myself So much... i am desensitized to it.... could someone please just tell me? I know i am not perfect... but am i that bad?
Omg I had this happend to me. My reaction was a laughed at him. I couldnt help it. I felt so bad after because the guy became embaressed and turned dark red. What made it worse was someone else near by heard what he had said and told him, "hey man, I think its her thats out of your league." It kind of turned the whole thing on him.
Many people are heartless and dont care. I know it hurts when things like that are thrown your way but really just smile and move foward knowing that you are beautiful.
how shallow you have a pretty smile beautiful eyes,besides you wouldnt want date a guy like that for one thing,just remember that maybe when a guy tries to approach one day and he doesnt fit your type that you will be as nice as that pretty smile and not be judgememtal or hurtful and karma will send you your prince charming
ps : just an average joe who thinks you are pretty
Hi honey! You are not ugly at all!!!! You are beautiful!
Just a few words i'm gonna tell you. Myabe it will help.
First of all as other people said in here "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" .... different people have different ideas about beauty.
You have amazing eyes and beautiful smile. And so nice hair - blond and shiny.
Next thing i'm gonna say and i don't do it because i think you need it, i'm only saying it to help - if you feel like hiding small imperfections of the face use makeup tricks. There are hundreds videos over the internet where you can learn from. Women do it everyday..... they make eyes look bigger or smaller, lips, nose, they even change shape of the face. And only with makeup.
Another thing. You can really apreciate someone's beauty by their personality. I mean ... people who i found stunning at first litteraly turned ugly in my eyes because of their behavior. And people who didn't seem too cute turned out beautiful in my eyes. :)) I once met one guy ...he was so ugly that he was funny. Kids on the beach were pointing fingers at him. Met him on a vacation. Girl!!! i ran away from home to meet him! He had such a great personality that i needed to see him again. Every time he comes on my mind it makes me smile. Hopefully i will meet him again someday.
I know it's easy to loose confidence. I have moments i really hate myself. I could talk for hours about how much i have lost in my life because of lack of confidence. Because i let others tell me how i am instead of looking in the mirror and in my heart. And i still do...But we gotta keep heads up. It is impossible for everyone to like the same things and people. Just think of it - if it was so, the world would have been a very boring place.
SMILE!!! You have a beautiful one! :)))
One weird thing: this is one of my most apreciated pictures i ever posted. It looks ok to many people ....in reality i was crying when this picture was taken. And my heart was broken in many tiny pieces.