I just think that world has forgotten that personality goes further than looks. Who would you rather get trapped in a lift with a good looking thin person or someone who has a good personality. To me good looking is someone I feel a connection with. Shame on people out there in the world who don't want to date you coz we are larger.
Well lil, I'll just say that you have to love yourself first girlfriend. Once you feel confident about your outer & inner beauty you'll attract people who see it too. Most men find that inner confidence very attractive. You'd never want a man who wanted to change you anyway...would you? Hold your head high darlin'. You're a beautiful woman!
you look fine just like you are . lose weight if you need to because of Health Reason but please just be Happy and love yourself for who you are . Life to short to worry what people think just be Happy
Unfortunately guys don't tell me that anymore. But I remember a while back going to this club in New York that was specifically for large people and fans, I was a size 18/20 and EVERY single man I danced with told me I was cute BUT I just wasn't fat enough. I WAS IN HEAVEN. hee hee hee. Also very ticked. Like you said, I was TOO fat for the "normal" dating sites and too small for the fat dating sites. ARE there really any men out there that will like us for WHO we are and not what we look like????????? grrrrrrr
Now, I think I'm too big for the fat lovers. sigh.