Why is it that some men (and women) don't bother calling you when they decide not to show up.... or why do they not bother calling to let you know they are still interested? When you do finally get ahold of them, they give you some "excuse" and tell you they are still interested. But come on people... haven't you ever heard that ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS?

Listen guys (I'll speak to them since I'm a woman).... if you don't learn anything else in life.... please learn this.... women NEED to hear from you. It doesn't take but a minute to drop an email or an IM message to tell her that you are busy or what's going on. We understand that. What we don't understand or like is being kept in the dark. So if you are truly interested in a woman..... KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER or you might lose her!

whew... I feel much better now!

Ahhhh so sorry you've been sick. Hope you're feeling better. We need to talk... I have so much to catch you up on. Men....

Hey sweetie... I have been sick for the past few days. This post is a result of several conversations in the chatroom lately.

Hey Kew, Haven't heard from you lately. How's everything going?? Is this topic the result of situations in your life now?

No matter what, you're right! Sad thing for me is, it seems the nice guys are the ones that don't call me back. The ones I'm not interested in won't leave me alone. lol

Thank you ladies.... I just thought it needed to be said.

Ok here is a handy little trick that I use once in awhile when I need to call my friends but don't really want to talk to them for what ever reason. Maybe it isn't to cool but it is better than nothing. Call when you know they aren't home. Leave a message let them know you are interested and thinkging about them but busy or what ever. I am sure I will get blasted but hey what ever.

Applause... whistles...loud cheers!!!

Well said Kew