This is a very old post but I'll answer it anyhow. I have no problem with a man being smaller than me. In fact, I think it's really sexy for a man smaller man to be confident enough to take on a bigger woman.
But just like there are men who like thin women and men who like big women, there are women who want big and/or tall men and women who like lean and/or shorter men.
I would recommend that you post in your profile your desire. This may help a woman that may otherwise be shy to approach you have the confidence to send you an email or a wink!
The man I've liked/had a crush on for almost a year now is smaller weight wise than me, but not much taller than me. He's in the arts field, but is not a local-basically, even though he knows who I am, I think the romantic feelings are more on my side. The man I met before I met him is taller, but I broke up with him because of his deceptiveness. I'm different than a lot of women, height or lack of it isn't one of my must haves. Its personality I go for. I only went out on a date once last year-and no it wasn;t the man in the arts. That I would have enjoyed. But yes, I like smaller or thinner men, after all isn't that part of what the opposites attract thing is about?