I'll second "take if from Rockchick", she just... well nailed it. From what you worte you haven't "screwed" anything up, you've just giving to takers, part of life/learning... all that. Good thing is that you still give of yourself, and when you finally give to someone who takes as well as gives back you'll be one happy puppy.
Hi Sweetie. I think the big thing is just to be happy with yourself and comfortable BEING yourself. You should not have to feel like you should try or be something you are not. Its all just going to end up badly if you do that, and IF by some fluke it does work out, you will have to pretend for the rest of your life...not good.
I think you just need to try and relax, and let happen whats going to happen, and above all remember love takes time, be patient.
Hang in there...If you ever need someone to talk to I have more than enough shoulder for you and a willing ear. Not sure how you can contact me though as Im not a member, but I am a chataholic so am around if you look in the right places....
take it from rockchickbbw and just believ in yourself and be your self the guys are just as confused i know i was just overwhelmed but as grew older and realized were all just human and if thats not enough for the ppl your datin thats there fault not yours there the ones who have to deal with it not you
do what makes you comfortable and happy not what makes them happy youl be much better off
take care of you first
love will come to you much easier than you think
as always jeanot
I think that a woman as beautiful as you are should just be herself. If you believe in yourself. You will never do the wrong thing.
Also always remember that you are human and you will make mistakes. It how you deal with the mistakes that makes you a better person.
Well, one thing I have learned, in the past year, is that you have to love yourself to truely know yourself. Then self-confidence will follow. When you know your inner self then you will know when you found the one and know he deserves you. Believe that you are worthy of a good, honest relationship.