Has anyone ever had feelings for someone while they were in a relationship/married? If so what did you do to overcome it.

I've been having some problems controlling myself when it comes to a few people I'm close to and I'm not sure how to get them out of my head. Don't get me wrong I love my husband... but I can't help it....

That happened to me, but my husband was not paying attention to what I told him I needed. I loved him but I acted on mine because I had that void that needed to be filled, I kept it under wraps until one day, and argument my husband started is now ending in divorce. I'm very happy now, I just hate that the person that makes me happy is a woman!!!!!

Fantasy is a way to escape from what is going on around us. What's going on around you that makes you escape (mentally) from time to time?

If you love your husband, by all means keep those thoughts in your head only. When you think of the others, change that thought to how much you love and respect your husband.