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Posted on Wed, Jul 06, 2005 10:04

Hey everyone, I'm 24 and find that most of the BBW's that I meet and am attracted to are between 10 and 20 years older than me. So I wanted to know why are older women hesitant to talk to a younger man?



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Posted on Tue, Feb 10, 2009 18:43

man i've been through this, and ill never figure it out. i've dated women that were 40 yrs old we had a blast but its always the same "what will my family or friends think?" i get it, i do but it never bothered me:)

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Posted on Mon, Jan 05, 2009 13:25

Hi I am Richard single white male and im from lockport ny but i live in Niagara Falls NY. I am looking for a big beautiful women , age does not matter to me.You must like to go walking , country music , picnics ,dinner out ,i love football (Bills) and hockey ( sabres).I like playing pool ,watch WWE, and play assorted video games.I would like to have someone that has a good persontilty does not get upset easly. Likes to cuddle , women....
I love to laugh and joke around .I would like a woman who knows how to cook it is a turn on to me. do you like giving an reciving massages with lotions and oils .a working woman would be a plus but at least a type of income would help .I make it on my own with my dissabilty income but belive in sharing expences .
Well if this sounds good an or want to know any more feel free to ask. Oh I am looking for someone who is honest ,not a game player,has comuncation,also all I can say is please don't judge the book by the cover till you read it from the inside or you will miss out on what is says from the heart.....



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Posted on Tue, Sep 27, 2005 21:54

SingingWillow Hi would you like a massage from a young Therapist I am near Clear Lake.



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 16:16


musicnut46 write:

mrniceguy2005 write:
age is just a number

i would date anyone who was interested in me and that i felt a connection to, no matter if they are 18, 28 or 38

don't buy into the stereotypes and boundaries society wants you to, do what you feel is right



It's always the young ones that say age is just a number. lol



aww... i didn't mean it in any bad way... what i was getting at, is that in my view and narrow mind, love can transcend all barriers, age included

don't fret... love can happen any time (i hope)



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Posted on Mon, Sep 26, 2005 09:28

age is just a number

i would date anyone who was interested in me and that i felt a connection to, no matter if they are 18, 28 or 38

don't buy into the stereotypes and boundaries society wants you to, do what you feel is right



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Posted on Mon, Sep 12, 2005 22:30

Well it is plan and simple... Older woman feel intimidated when approaching younger men... You know the whole "dang there are a lot of younger woman here why would he talk to me..." I know that a lot of older woman do like younger men, but not that many younger men like older woman...!! Especially BBW...!!! I personally do like younger men? I guess the whole time we are waiting for the boy to turn in to a man, but in reality we want their mind to grow not their bodies? Yes a younger man can go on for hours? but can he keep up mentally??? So you see like everything out there, there are pros and cons....

  
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Posted on Tue, Sep 06, 2005 00:55


Dee738 write:
If you have any extras, can you toss a few my way, Freysh?



28, 38 ... mmm.. would that be a problem?... lol



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Posted on Mon, Aug 22, 2005 13:32

Age truly is just a number - it is depressing how few people take these words under their belt.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 22, 2005 08:09

I don't really count years younger or older. In chatting, the age difference is usually apparent, whether younger or older. If I cannot relate to someone about certain life experiences then they are to young or to old for me. I tend to lose interest in the under 25 age group, quickly, because of this.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 01, 2005 21:55

Young guys, old guys, I think each situation has to be taken individually. Some younger guys and some older guys aren't what I'm looking for. Then again, I do meet some interesting guys and want to get to know them better!

I think it all depends on the individual guy and how he and I get along. I don't go by ages, although I really don't want to date someone young enough to be my child, after that, I don't really look into the age thing all that much.

And my dad is in his mid 90's so I don't have to worry about dating someone his age! LOL

Good luck to everyone in finding your perfect match-no matter what the age!



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Posted on Mon, Aug 01, 2005 14:09

"hi have always been a lover of big beautiful women , i would love to have one of any race to be my girl friend and hopefully my wife.
I'm 34, ssbhm brown hair, green eyes with glasses. I'm disabled & Diabetic enjoy movies, going out, long walks, cuddling with that special someone.
if your the big black or white beautiful women that looks at the inner person

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Posted on Mon, Aug 01, 2005 12:44

The idea of dating someone younger is kinda weird to me.I would however give it a try. I guess for anyone it would depend on if the person was sincere and honest.



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Posted on Mon, Aug 01, 2005 11:37

Oh-hum, looks like i'm stuck at that funny age at he minute, too old to be a toyboy, too young to be a true OLDER-MAN. (offers to prove otherwise are welcome, lol ..)
As I always say, your only as old as the woman you feel, or in most of your cases the man..

  


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Posted on Mon, Aug 01, 2005 10:38

Younger? Hmmm, after my divorce I did the younger guy thing...it was AWESOME. I was in it for one thing. So was he. But it was worth it. Mancandy. Now? Someone I can have fun with, who is settled in his life and having me in it would just make things better, that'd be nice!
But honestly? My dad is a cool dad, young looking, dates lots of young gals...SO FOR ME? I just cant look at an older guy and be attracted without thinking "hope this guy isnt old enought to be my father!" LOL

Of course there are always exceptions.
Any good looking older man, good job, nice house, been there done that, looking for a serious relationship...ok, I'd give THAT guy a chance - HEHEHEHEHEHE

  


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Posted on Tue, Jul 12, 2005 15:05

Well personally I love younger men. I find that they are much more fun to be around, and like they say age is just a number. I have dated guys that were as young as 19. Im 40 they don't seem to have a problem with it and neither do I. Don't get me wrong there are some very hot older men but most just seem to remind me of my dad. I feel more comfortable with younger men, possibly because I don't act like a normal 40yr old. I like to go out and have fun not just sit home or go for a Sunday drive. I'm not saying thats what all older men like to do, but most are too mature for my liking.

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Posted on Mon, Jul 11, 2005 14:46

I never thought I'd date someone younger - - but what's that old cliche - - never say never........well I have - and yes I would again, and again - LMAO (that is if my "one and only" doesn't hurry and come along)......

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 18:00

Well I think it just comes down to personal perference.

  


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Posted on Sun, Jul 10, 2005 13:19

I for one have never been with anyone younger. I have always been in relationships with older men. I guess its because the women don't think you will be mature enough for them, which is a shame because they may be missing out on a good thing.



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Posted on Sat, Jul 09, 2005 17:54

I have no problem dating younger guys at all. Guess it's situation specific. You might have to work a little harder though to convince them that you're not just looking for a meal ticket.
p.s. If you expanded your age range by a couple more years (& lived a LOT closer) you could hug my pillow anytime. :-)



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