Hey everyone, I'm 24 and find that most of the BBW's that I meet and am attracted to are between 10 and 20 years older than me. So I wanted to know why are older women hesitant to talk to a younger man?

I usually don't like younger guys unless they have dark hair and eyes

man i've been through this, and ill never figure it out. i've dated women that were 40 yrs old we had a blast but its always the same "what will my family or friends think?" i get it, i do but it never bothered me:)

Hi I am Richard single white male and im from lockport ny but i live in Niagara Falls NY. I am looking for a big beautiful women , age does not matter to me.You must like to go walking , country music , picnics ,dinner out ,i love football (Bills) and hockey ( sabres).I like playing pool ,watch WWE, and play assorted video games.I would like to have someone that has a good persontilty does not get upset easly. Likes to cuddle , women....
I love to laugh and joke around .I would like a woman who knows how to cook it is a turn on to me. do you like giving an reciving massages with lotions and oils .a working woman would be a plus but at least a type of income would help .I make it on my own with my dissabilty income but belive in sharing expences .
Well if this sounds good an or want to know any more feel free to ask. Oh I am looking for someone who is honest ,not a game player,has comuncation,also all I can say is please don't judge the book by the cover till you read it from the inside or you will miss out on what is says from the heart.....

SingingWillow Hi would you like a massage from a young Therapist I am near Clear Lake.

aww... i didn't mean it in any bad way... what i was getting at, is that in my view and narrow mind, love can transcend all barriers, age included

don't fret... love can happen any time (i hope)

It's always the young ones that say age is just a number. lol

age is just a number

i would date anyone who was interested in me and that i felt a connection to, no matter if they are 18, 28 or 38

don't buy into the stereotypes and boundaries society wants you to, do what you feel is right

Well it is plan and simple... Older woman feel intimidated when approaching younger men... You know the whole "dang there are a lot of younger woman here why would he talk to me..." I know that a lot of older woman do like younger men, but not that many younger men like older woman...!! Especially BBW...!!! I personally do like younger men? I guess the whole time we are waiting for the boy to turn in to a man, but in reality we want their mind to grow not their bodies? Yes a younger man can go on for hours? but can he keep up mentally??? So you see like everything out there, there are pros and cons....

awww, now I feel all loved and warm and fuzzy.


Incidentally, being a gold member, if anyone does want to chat, just drop me a wink. Assuming the site doesn;t lose them (which has happened) I always reply.

Not at all....sounds about perfect to me :)

Oh, is Dee giving out apps too? I want one of those also

Why aren't there more of you living in SoCal? OK here's the deal...everyone get a ticket we all meet in Vegas and figure out if age really does matter.....lol

Really why aren't there more of you in SoCal. Come on...all us guys are waiting for you!

28, 38 ... mmm.. would that be a problem?... lol

If you have any extras, can you toss a few my way, Freysh?

Where can I get a copy of the application?

Funny, I have been hit on by a couple guys in their early to mid-twenties (23 & 25). Not that it's a bad thing, but I find that we don't have alot in common... I like rock music (guess it's classic rock now!) and both guys were like "David Lee Roth, who is that?" That is just not acceptable, especially since I would take DLR old, bald,and toothless.... :)

Age truly is just a number - it is depressing how few people take these words under their belt.

I don't really count years younger or older. In chatting, the age difference is usually apparent, whether younger or older. If I cannot relate to someone about certain life experiences then they are to young or to old for me. I tend to lose interest in the under 25 age group, quickly, because of this.

I seem to always find the ones on disability as well. Young and old. LOL!! I personally don't care for older men so I do go for younger ones. I have found, though, in my own experience, that the ones that are stable seem to have wives or girlfriends and are just looking to play around or single and just looking for someone to poke.