Some people come on the site just to get a butty call or free pic of body parts. How about getting to know someone and really finding out about each other? Are there any true people out there searching for love?
Dimples I do agree with you... Women are getting just as bad. If women are less desperate and put their standards higher, men would be forced to treat women with more respect and act as true gentlemen should. You can debate this and not all men and women falls into the same category - (was the chicken or the egg first debate). But I do stand with the opinion of women has made it too easy for men, so they don't need to man up and can go around booty calling and not taking responsibility of the true meaning of the word "man". Each to its own, but go to a "I just want sex" site - there seriously is LOADS out there!
And seriously.....if we want to be a booty call, I guess we all would be on a more "nsa" site and you can go to a bar/club/pub and get some action if you want it, not online with all the effort of "putting yourself out there" by putting up a profile and stating that you want to meet someone special, etc, etc.
I go out and can have action, but I'm not interested in just that. I haven't met someone special in the "real" world recently, hence opening up the options of getting onto online dating - guess that's most of us that's looking for "more" 's story, so could the men get with the program or move on and stop wasting our time??!!
We're not all desperete and idiots to be your soft, sexy and kinky fun, some of us want that And more!!
I am new on this site ready to be approved, I would like to connect with a woman that has a good character and integrity, If you are interested to meet a good man then text or call me I will be waiting in great anticipation to connect with you. Ed
I am looking for something serious, probably more than I originally thought. Met a great guy on here......but I guess he wasnt as into me and I am into him. Chatting with a few, but I am surprised at the amount of not only booty calls but scammers. Nothing wrong with a booty call, just now where I am at in my life right now..
I agree with you I have lost count the amount of times I have been asked for pics of body parts or just to have sex no strings I feel like screaming and saying hello I am a human I have feelings I am not a toy or what there making me out to be! I just want to find someone who likes me for me not what I look like or can and can't do not just for sex I want the love and full works! xxx Its hard to find though and I am affraid of letting anyone close in case once they get what they want there gone!
I hear ya...I'm not into being a booty call, I want to meet/date & see what happens...and I'm pretty sure I make that clear in my profile.
So many times it seems that the other person is just there for online fantasy & never intends to meet, or like you said only wants pics & more pics (and oddly enough their profile doesn't have a single picture!). Or, they do want to meet, but are just after a booty call.
And you know what? There's absolutely nothing wrong with ANY of that. I just wish they'd be upfront about it in their profiles, because it's just not what *I* am looking for, or am willing to accommodate...so why are these guys bothering to waste their time on me, is what I'd like to know.
It could be worse, you could have no one asking. I'm tired of the *its complicated* and older men online, absolutely nothing offline..And then there are the homewrecking women who spoil things when you do find a man you like..on or offline..Am I serious about meeting someone? Yes, I am..but I just might have to move/relocate to do so, things *way* too quiet socially where I am..
i agree fully i have only found men wanting that i aint into that i am a independent woman that wants to be happy for once i wish men could have a lil care for that sometimes but women are getting just as bad anymore