I'm too big for the general population and too small for most people looking for BBWs. Is anyone looking for someone who is just right? I am 5ft6 and 230pounds, I live in Sydney Australia, any thoughts about this? Other's in the same situation?
Where is the actual person in all this is my question.
Sure, I like a curvy woman but every woman is a person just like every man. we need to stop thinking in terms of weight or size or what ever.
if my dream woman happens to be big or small or in the middle, who cares? she would be my dream woman due to her personality cause thats the one I will be speaking to and going out with and live my life with.
A curvy body is just a bonus if that happens but not something I absolutley have to have. It would be redicilous to think any other way when it comes to a person with feelings and dreams just like my self.
We all (men and women) want to be seen as who we are on the inside and not the outside that all magazines and media trying hard to make us belive to earn money on our insecurity.
Dont belive the hype and be your self and you WILL meet a man who see you for who you are and not for your weight, size, bosom or butt.
hey guys,guess I'll preach to the choir. recently lost some weight for health reasons,5'6 was 270 lovely lbs currently 205 lbs, I keep telling myself that I'm still fat & lovely,but it seems that I'm not fat enough for the SA community.
Of coarse there is hope. The right guy is out there. I have found that guys who like a little more cushion, but also live active lives would enjoy being with a girl of your body type. I hope you are encouraged! Just keep doing what you need to do for yourself and he will come along.