I'm too big for the general population and too small for most people looking for BBWs.  Is anyone looking for someone who is just right?  I am 5ft6 and 230pounds, I live in Sydney Australia, any thoughts about this?  Other's in the same situation?

you look awesome

Of coarse there is hope. The right guy is out there. I have found that guys who like a little more cushion, but also live active lives would enjoy being with a girl of your body type. I hope you are encouraged! Just keep doing what you need to do for yourself and he will come along.