Interracial dating comes with its own stigmatisms but why is it such a challenge to find white men who are interested in Black women?

i dont have a problem with dating outside my race...my happiness is whats matters

Hi Biggmann,

I personally don't watch Oprah but interracial dating is an individual decision. So for it to be said black women are least likely to do, is a more than likely lie. There are a lot of black women who are attracted to white men. It is my opinion that the same stereotyping you heard on the Oprah show is whats keeping white men from approaching black women.

Im a white male and find it very difficult to get black women to date me.I saw on Oprah the black women are the least likely to date outside their race.What's the answer? I really dont know

Curious about white men but idc for skin tone :/

Jasen,

Nice picture and profile. I wish you were 10 years older.

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I've gone out with a few black women, but for some reason, one was hung up on the fact that we were an 'odd couple', and another always seemed to be starting arguments just for the sake of arguing. Never understood that. I'd love to find one who would be amenable to spending time with me, though.

I don't know why people of any race think that there should be a barrier between dating or seeing someone of another ethnic background, but I guess in peoples minds they come up with reasons why. I personally think black women are very classy and I have noticed too that colored women seem to know how to and like to keep their nails longer and sexier than alot of the white girls I know around here.

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I've never found it to be stigmatizing in any significant way. Maybe it varies in different areas of the country.

I'd say in my life, half the girlfriends I've had have been women of color. Good luck, I don't think it should be super hard to find a white guy who finds black women appealling.

I'm a white man that LOVES black women! As such, I can tell you what I'd pretty much tell anybody:

if you aren't approached on the basis of your ethnicity, then that only means that person was filled with ignorant preconceptions. Basically, a lot of white guys are afraid that black women will fulfill their stereotypes of being obnoxious, self-willed idiots.

However, that stereotype, like pretty much all of them, only shows a select group of black women, and really, every black woman I've dated/slept with/been friends with was different than the next, but never wound up fulfilling that stereotype.

If somebody judges you based off looks or color, why would you care about them anyways?

I go to the Butterfly Lounge in costa mesa, CA because it's BBW night. I am always being approached by white men there. These are professional white men to. I go there to dance though. I don't know if I would date a man i met from the club.

I like black women.