I adore big guys but I wonder why so many try to play/act the "big sweet teddy bear" type?
Help me out here guys...There's nothing wrong with a sweet man, but there's an overwhelming number of overweight/large men who think that they are expected by women to be:
in the background/ submissive/ passive
I say, be yourself and don't try to play a role!
If you're lovable and naturally sweet, more power to you. But guys, don't feel that because you're of a larger stature that you have to hide under the "always-a-friend-nothing-more" stereotype.
Just be you :)
SMH i know im late to the party but you guys gotta be kiddin me..
Yes im a good guy.. well over the years ive mellowed...lol.. but im still the life of the party.. I know im an asshole to ppl who dont know me.. i have a smartass mouth and im sarcastic as hell..
I will not change to fufill a role... im jus over 600 lbs.. but i am still a good man.. any1 of them women would be lucky to be with me...BOOOOM
Im a cute old fat guy. so what? I can be an asshat too..I am naturally shy at 1st, but after that you cant shut me up.and hell if Im ugly. I aint brad pitt, but then again he aint me.ha!If your in the s.f.v. area of so cal hit me up! I love to party and carry on!
i believe we are put in that position to be the shoulder to cry on but the never the one to cry over after so much of being told "your a really nice guy but i dont like you that way" we just kinda fall into the routine of being the teddy bear in the background. from personal experience i always felt like the always a friend and nothing more but maintained my sense of self