LokiRook, my wife is totally unresponsive.... she is missing whatever bricks hold any sexual interest. I have met other women and they go wild.... so I have found that it is the wife lacking .... not me. That happens... is that so hard to understand... or are you also missing some bricks
Not all women or men retain any interest in intimacy as they age. Some are even born with less desire than others. I suspect that some are missing a part of the brain that can appreciate quality intimacy. To such people....all the romance, passion in the world is a blank.... much like a color blind person can't see colors, neither can these people see the pleasure in intimacy. It is not a factor of one spouse not being able to arouse and satisfy the other. It is a factor of the one not being able to appreciate the attempts at arousal and passion by th other.