My first date is just making a dinner and chill at home. Then watch movies trying to get to know each other or going out to eat some where then coming home getting to know one another.

Hi, I am a 53 year old single/divorced intelligent woman. If you are currently dating someone, then please move to the next profile. It's not fair to me and it's not fair to the other woman. I believe in dating one person at a time. Ok, now with that said...I am originally from England, but have lived in the U.S.A off and on for over 28 years. My children are grown. One still in the same state, the other is overseas. I am interested in meeting a single and available man to date and get to know. I prefer men who have a slower pace!!!! :) I am NOT interested in a "texting" or "sexting" relationship....It's silliness and immature. There is apparently an area on this site that allows you to search the sex personals...and that is where you need to go with your pursuit..if that type of relationship is what you are looking for??.....If, however, you agree with me?....and are serious....then read on... :) I am a spiritual woman with Christian values. Having the same values would be a plus. I am not a bible thumper but I do attend Church weekly. I am not interested in one night stands, so please don't even go there. I'm a little old fashioned when it comes to romance. I like when a man opens my door and pulls my chair and brings me flowers just because, (personally picked is even better). I am more interested in building a lasting relationship that's based on mutual respect, trust, honesty, kindling chemistry and fun. To be honest, I'm 53 and tired of meeting men that are in to themselves and who are narcicistic. If you have a tendancy to be this way, then please move on to the next profile. I don't have time for silliness! Music?...I enjoy Chris Tomlin...Darius Rucker, Sarah McLaughlin, Anita Baker, bands like...Average White Band, Santana..Classic Rock...and R&B, but, I really enjoy smooth Jazz. I can't listen to rap, or headbangin' hard rock. A little country music is ok. I like to attend concerts and show's and I enjoy comedy too....love to laugh..