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hollaatyagurl
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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 29, 2011 23:10

I am in no way inferring that all men are evil. I would say that 95.5% are. Just kidding I do not have any exact figure. LOL! I do not know whether it is just me but most guys that I run into even if it is just to become friends are more than likely very self-centered. They want what they want when they want it. Sometimes it seems like they are impatient kindergarteners. Some guys are so very quick to take but not to give. So help me out tell me if I am just running into this unique problem or if it is a general across the board problem for women. Men can you tell us why this is so and where can we meet decent men for friendship...


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 13, 2011 17:31

I understand why you think men are evil....I see it all the time and it pisses me off. A lot of men treat women like a doormat and it's not right. I wasn't born here so I have a different way of thinking and acting whether it's on a date or simply hanging out. I open doors, pull out chairs and still believe in flowers for no reason...doing these things have gotten me odd reactions, but I won't change. Hate it or love it the choice is yours.

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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 30, 2011 16:16

Well speaking from experience, most of this issue is about power. Men and women know exactly how to act to get what they want and know the difference between right and wrong. Its all about what you want. Do you just want sex or a meaningful intimate relationship with someone. You can just be the breeding stock and the free sex, housekeeper and social secretary. This is considered a demeaning job and totally under appreciated, but it was the most important difficult and satisfying thing I ever did and I would do it again in a heartbeat.. The power was about self sacrifice for those you truly love. Its about quality and finding someone that is beautiful inside. What's missing in life is not about how you look, but what's in your heart. This doesn't mean become a troll living under a bridge and not taking care of yourself, but doing as much work on your heart as your makeup! Sex is about power and competing with unrealistic porn stars, so readily available. Then Feminism a has killed respect for women. It has caused the men to worry about opening doors because some women have huge attitudes, I say open the door for everyone and when someone helps you be gracious! Being more willing to put out more for less is not going to make you feel happy about yourself or your partner. This is just a downhill spiral and if you ask for less you get less. Many younger people I have talked to are not wanting to ever get married, so are we going to have most children out there with baby daddy and baby mamma and no parents. Then you have another generation with no idea what a happy intimate loving relationship is going out there modeling their parents and screwing it up even more! If Narcissim gets anymore rampant people wont know about loving someone else and doing for someone else without weighing and measuring everything and equating this to money and power ! There are both evil men and women out there and sometimes they even start out good with good intentions and then become evil. They are lured to the dark side losing touch with what really matters in life!


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, May 08, 2011 04:57

yes and the womens why is so biches ??


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, May 03, 2011 08:13

Not all men are cruel, evil and self centred. I believe it is human nature to easily forget the men who are halfway decent and only remember the B**tards. You also have to remember that there is an incredible amount of pressure on young men in today’s world to impress and make all the first moves. Many a young men will just stand at the bar and wistfully while away the evening wanting to approach woman but being far too shy (and more importantly, inexperienced) to do it, while his best mate (who is renown among the boys for being the number one "hump 'em and dump 'em" guy in the group) is out on the dance floor impressing all the ladies (after all, he is at it all the time so he has plenty of experience and confidence to boot!)

What I’m basically saying is, don’t dwell on men of the past and maybe try picking one of the really shy guys that gets incredibly nervous when you chat to him. You’ll find him in the kitchen at a party looking awkward or standing on his own in the club looking after everyone else’s drinks. That is were you will find the “good guys”.

P.S Waiting is not a good idea. I consider myself to be a decent enough chap but no way in hell would I wait to get married before having sex. We do not live in “ye olden days” and woman are no longer considered to be “spoiled” if they have sex out of wedlock. It was only ever enforced by the church to ensure that legitimate heirs to property could be identified and that if someone’s daughter was knocked up, then proper payment could be made (which we still have in the form of dowries). I’m not saying you should put out on the first date, but for the love of god don’t wait until your married, that’s just plain stupid.

 

 



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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 28, 2011 14:33

I feel sorry for any woman looking to find her "soulmate"on this site.However,it that's what your looking for,don't use the "S"word in your profile.Go on a date,after talking on the phone and emailing for awhile.See what happins. I would bet that most guys would rather have sex in a parking lot then go on a real date.It's sad.Getting to know someone over lunch or dinner is great.Let whatever happins, happin.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 17, 2011 15:34

Most men respond sexually before they can respond emotionally. Women respond emotionally before they can respond sexually. Men who cannot respond emotionally after they have responded sexually cannot relate to a woman in an exclusive relationship.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Apr 13, 2011 14:52

being alittle sensitive arent you???? not all men are pigs... you just have to learn how to pick-em!!!! tony

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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 10, 2011 21:10

I guess that it runs both ways--but I've always felt that guys were simple (as compared to women). I've never understood why a woman who "doesn't want you" will go out of her way to ruin (sabotage) any new relationship you get into AFTER she's told you that you aren't "WORTHY" of her attentions. Holla, not sure what kind of evil you've survived--but experience tells me to run like an MF from those types of folks--it never ends up well. I think they just enjoy tormenting others, ya know?


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Apr 09, 2011 11:20

men are hard to undsrstand some time. but you have to be patient.that is one thing they dont have.they wont to have thier way all the time.we have to go alone with theme some time and when they turn thier back we do what we wante you understand now.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 07, 2011 23:36

I quess the words I speak ring true. It is a generatinal thing of respect for the woman in waiting till married before "Biblically" getting to know your partner. I hate to say not wanting to wait it is not a totally exclusive a mens trait. About 10 years ago on a first date I had a woman get upset because I did not "ravish" her on the first date.We were getting Intimate ,cuddleing and kissing .However she got a bit upset that I did not want to shuck my clothes and sweatstain a few bed sheets. So I can say from relationships not waiting at least for me not wating for a relationship to fully develope, and to truely see whom your partner is was disterious.I speak from experiance .One bad marriage and several dating diasters.Sex was just the bait to get what they wanted. After she was done with me . I got tossed to the curb like 3 day old fish. So I say to Hollaatyagurl, and all of you other Fine ladies. Make em wait!!! If he truely loves you for you and respects you, he will stick around. Like female freind I worked with used to say. If you aint allready put a ring on my finger,you ain't getting under my hood or in my trunk!


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Apr 06, 2011 21:33

I agree with 99% of what you say. Much of the mentality today is "I want it now". 

 



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Apr 04, 2011 15:24

Trust me, you are not alone. I have had the same problem. It has made me want to give up, but I will tell you and you may not want to hear it...the only man out of the many I have dated, the one that treated me with utmost respect, and satisfied me in the bedroom most often was 63 years old..I also believe its a generational thing, with so many men just taking and not giving...I'm so sick of it! Just wanted you to know that I feel your pain.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 03, 2011 18:09

I have found that most men are just out to get and not to give. There are lots of things they want done for them but ask for reciprocation and that's totally out of the question!! God forbid they do something nice for you in return!?!? I have found that there are those diamonds in the rough. One in every 25 men want to please 100 times over! They would rather please you then be pleased themselves....But they are hard to find. Keep your head up, and that guy that is ready to treat you like a queen will come along. I know it!



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Apr 03, 2011 03:15

Hi Hollaatyagurl Do understand where you are coming from here because at one time I have felt the same. I used to wonder where all the good men where? Now I know that it was just a reflection of what was going on within ME. That I was attracting these types of me to me unconsciously. The following quote was the hardest for me to get, understand and resolve. Hope it helps you as well. :) "We do not attract what we want, but what we are." James Lane Allen Hugs Ozred


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Mar 31, 2011 06:48

hi I don't think so.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Mar 30, 2011 21:00

hollaatyagurl Since I hopefully am in 4.5% minority I hate to say It is probially a Generational thing. If you were born before 1970's Men were tought to wait.Dating ,and then long steady relationship before Sex was a cultural norm. However by the 70's waiting had fallen out of being a cultural norm .The Flowerpower (Hippie) norm of (Freelove)banging everything when and where you could was rapidly becoming popular. It now has evolved to I WANT IT NOW and I WONT WAIT!!!!!!!!!. One can Look at the Exponential rise of Divorce since the 1970's and I feel there is a Direct causal link to Promuscuity and (lack of waiting tilled married) to the Increased Divorce rate . I feel this is due to couples not really getting to know each other well other than just physcally. Not knowing what makes your partner upset or lack of can lead to a multitudes of problems later on in a relationship when the "newness" of the sex and the real nitty gritty of a relationship happens. Like if one partner wants to have a whole herd of kids and one partner wants none. Or one beleives in strict disapline of kids and the other allows free range.Hang in there. Maybe as women gained Equal rights from Womens Liberation they also have lost respect in most mens eyes .like tho old saying "Why buy the cow,when you can get the milk for free?" If one looks at the music of to day,I feel it is part of the problem. The reason is the popular culture Hip hop , Rap,Country and Rock all to one or another extent negatively odjectafy women, and degrade women today. So little "Bubba", "Tyrome", "Slash" all have had bad role models growing up and they havent been Properly trained on how to treat a Woman other than a peice of meat or chattle by the popculture. Just my 0.02cnts. I challenge you younger little selfish boys to prove me wrong.


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