Hey y'all, its been a while... I just wanted to let you know that besides my men friends here like Butter and Tiny, there are real men in the real world! I have actually been dating a man that is not ashamed to be seen with me in public, or be standoffish about having any type of public displays of affection. I must say that It is extreemly gratifying to actually have this happen to me! Although I do not seek acceptance from anyone (except while I was in High School, which was way long ago) If they don't like watching me, the thick and juicy chick (the American meaning of the term), make out with my boyfriend...screw them! It is a huge turn on and I for one love knowing that he likes me enough to just have me on his mind and not what others are thinking. However, I am proud of any man that feels the same way! Can I get a Yee Haw from my other large and lovely sistahs that have found this? How about a yee haw from some real men out there?
Hey y'all, its been a while... I just wanted to let you know that besides my men friends here like Butter and Tiny, there are real men in the real world! I have actually been dating a man that is not ashamed to be seen with me in public, or be standoffish about having any type of public displays of affection. I must say that It is extreemly gratifying to actually have this happen to me! Although I do not seek acceptance from anyone (except while I was in High School, which was way long ago) If they don't like watching me, the thick and juicy chick (the American meaning of the term), make out with my boyfriend...screw them! It is a huge turn on and I for one love knowing that he likes me enough to just have me on his mind and not what others are thinking. However, I am proud of any man that feels the same way! Can I get a Yee Haw from my other large and lovely sistahs that have found this? How about a yee haw from some real men out there?
Well I have to say is... If a guy does not have the Stones to not care what other thinks of his partner he aint a man. I'll put it in Pop culture for all to understand. What the matter you a "Girlie" man? Men, take Pride in you woman no matter what she looks like. Guys wake up looks aint everthing. For she you girfreind may be the "Perfect Godess" on the out side. However if on the inside she has Bitter Bile and gall flowing from her. IF she speaks venomous words . Fellers, she aint worth having around . Cull her from your life . Ide rather have a woman whom has aheart of gold on the inside and is "plain" than have one is Smoking Hot" on the out side yet on the insides has a heart full of festering Meanness . Babycakes63 If you ever move back to Texas Id'e be honored to be seen out in public with you !
Well I have to say is... If a guy does not have the Stones to not care what other thinks of his partner he aint a man. I'll put it in Pop culture for all to understand. What the matter you a "Girlie" man? Men, take Pride in you woman no matter what she looks like. Guys wake up looks aint everthing. For she you girfreind may be the "Perfect Godess" on the out side. However if on the inside she has Bitter Bile and gall flowing from her. IF she speaks venomous words . Fellers, she aint worth having around . Cull her from your life . Ide rather have a woman whom has aheart of gold on the inside and is "plain" than have one is Smoking Hot" on the out side yet on the insides has a heart full of festering Meanness . Babycakes63 If you ever move back to Texas Id'e be honored to be seen out in public with you !
Amen Nerdy! From your mouth to every man's ears! Oh, I no longer feel this way. If a man cannot be himself with me, I wonder why they want to be with me in the first place, then its to the curb they go and i'm on to the next. The men I am seeing now are quite comfortable enough in their own skin for me to enjoy every minute we are together. You will definately find a great girl soon if you keep talking like this! LOL, Elaine
Amen Nerdy! From your mouth to every man's ears! Oh, I no longer feel this way. If a man cannot be himself with me, I wonder why they want to be with me in the first place, then its to the curb they go and i'm on to the next. The men I am seeing now are quite comfortable enough in their own skin for me to enjoy every minute we are together. You will definately find a great girl soon if you keep talking like this! LOL, Elaine
That really sucks that this type of blog has to be written at all. Nobody should ever feel ashamed because of how they look. I've gone out with beautiful thin women, not so beautiful thin women, beautiful athletic women, not so beautiful athletic women, beautiful plus-sized women, not so..........you get the picture. Anyone I date is going to feel like she's the most important woman in the world and will get my undivided attention. The way I see it, every woman (no matter what she looks like) has a life and things to do. Yet she's sacrificing SOMETHING in order to spend time with me. She's giving up pieces of her life she'll never get back just for me. That's not something anyone should take for granted.
That really sucks that this type of blog has to be written at all. Nobody should ever feel ashamed because of how they look. I've gone out with beautiful thin women, not so beautiful thin women, beautiful athletic women, not so beautiful athletic women, beautiful plus-sized women, not so..........you get the picture. Anyone I date is going to feel like she's the most important woman in the world and will get my undivided attention. The way I see it, every woman (no matter what she looks like) has a life and things to do. Yet she's sacrificing SOMETHING in order to spend time with me. She's giving up pieces of her life she'll never get back just for me. That's not something anyone should take for granted.
I can understand that. I hope he learns well. I know from expierence that it can be a challenge. I wish you the best and now, until the next time we can communicate, do me one little favor. Head over to the cd player, put in Jeff Healey's song 'Angel Eyes", lay back and close your eyes and imagine me there with you singing my heart out just for an audience of 1- you.
Quoting: Originally posted by Babycakes63 Well Tiny, that sounds like a vacation is in order! LOL...but somehow the new BF doesn't like the idea. I will have to teach this one my interpretation of casual relationship. Love, E
Quoting: Originally posted by Babycakes63 Well Tiny, that sounds like a vacation is in order! LOL...but somehow the new BF doesn't like the idea. I will have to teach this one my interpretation of casual relationship. Love, E
I can understand that. I hope he learns well. I know from expierence that it can be a challenge. I wish you the best and now, until the next time we can communicate, do me one little favor. Head over to the cd player, put in Jeff Healey's song 'Angel Eyes", lay back and close your eyes and imagine me there with you singing my heart out just for an audience of 1- you.
Well Tiny, that sounds like a vacation is in order! LOL...but somehow the new BF doesn't like the idea. I will have to teach this one my interpretation of casual relationship. Love, E
Well Tiny, that sounds like a vacation is in order! LOL...but somehow the new BF doesn't like the idea. I will have to teach this one my interpretation of casual relationship. Love, E
Elaine, I have truck and can travel quick. Plus I have a lot of vacation time, so..... Love ya too Tiny..
Quoting: Originally posted by Babycakes63 My two favorite guys here ladies! These two men Rock! Not only do they know how to make a woman feel... like, well like Goddesses, they are sure to improve any womans life. The only reason that I haven't snatched them both up is the distance thang. LOL Butter, Tiny, I hope that y'all don't mind me using you as examples! Oh, and you know me... they both have photos! BONUS points. Love, Elaine
Quoting: Originally posted by Babycakes63 My two favorite guys here ladies! These two men Rock! Not only do they know how to make a woman feel... like, well like Goddesses, they are sure to improve any womans life. The only reason that I haven't snatched them both up is the distance thang. LOL Butter, Tiny, I hope that y'all don't mind me using you as examples! Oh, and you know me... they both have photos! BONUS points. Love, Elaine
Elaine, I have truck and can travel quick. Plus I have a lot of vacation time, so..... Love ya too Tiny..
My two favorite guys here ladies! These two men Rock! Not only do they know how to make a woman feel... like, well like Goddesses, they are sure to improve any womans life. The only reason that I haven't snatched them both up is the distance thang. LOL Butter, Tiny, I hope that y'all don't mind me using you as examples! Oh, and you know me... they both have photos! BONUS points. Love, Elaine
My two favorite guys here ladies! These two men Rock! Not only do they know how to make a woman feel... like, well like Goddesses, they are sure to improve any womans life. The only reason that I haven't snatched them both up is the distance thang. LOL Butter, Tiny, I hope that y'all don't mind me using you as examples! Oh, and you know me... they both have photos! BONUS points. Love, Elaine
Hi there Elaine and I'm happy that you've found someone. I wish for you all the best and as my previous blog states, I'll be leaving her soon. I'm honored too to have you as a friend Elaine. Take care!! Tiny.
Hi there Elaine and I'm happy that you've found someone. I wish for you all the best and as my previous blog states, I'll be leaving her soon. I'm honored too to have you as a friend Elaine. Take care!! Tiny.
Gosh Butter could get used to that title, no wonder I cant find a man over here, got to train them to call me goddess. lol
Thank you ever so much you do know how to make a girl feel good. Hugs Oz
Quoting: Originally posted by butterbll Hey,Oz you be on a Pedistal ! I would not try to hide you under the bed . Because you a Fine Austrailian Goddess!!! Besides, Ive got much junk under the bed.lol
Quoting: Originally posted by butterbll Hey,Oz you be on a Pedistal ! I would not try to hide you under the bed . Because you a Fine Austrailian Goddess!!! Besides, Ive got much junk under the bed.lol
Gosh Butter could get used to that title, no wonder I cant find a man over here, got to train them to call me goddess. lol
Thank you ever so much you do know how to make a girl feel good. Hugs Oz
Thank you Cloud! Amen to that. It goes for women to Fellas! Don't want to leave y'all out either! I don't really think it matters who you are with... male or female, if you really like someone, show it! I don't mean grab them and start doing things to get yourselves in trouble...although that is for another blog! Heh Heh Heh, Affection is.. communication! It lets me know that you really like me and want to show it. Have a problem with that? NEXT!!! Elaine
Thank you Cloud! Amen to that. It goes for women to Fellas! Don't want to leave y'all out either! I don't really think it matters who you are with... male or female, if you really like someone, show it! I don't mean grab them and start doing things to get yourselves in trouble...although that is for another blog! Heh Heh Heh, Affection is.. communication! It lets me know that you really like me and want to show it. Have a problem with that? NEXT!!! Elaine
Congratulations Babycakes - really happy for you! And yes, to any other ladies reading this, keep believing - there are lots of men out there that are proud to be seen with a larger women and openly demonstrate their affection. Any man who wants to hide you away is not worth knowing.......
Congratulations Babycakes - really happy for you! And yes, to any other ladies reading this, keep believing - there are lots of men out there that are proud to be seen with a larger women and openly demonstrate their affection. Any man who wants to hide you away is not worth knowing.......
Oz, good to hear from you. It is a wonderful thing, thank you. I am sorry to hear about that relationship. I bet that man kicked himself many times after figuring out what he lost. Love, Elaine
Oz, good to hear from you. It is a wonderful thing, thank you. I am sorry to hear about that relationship. I bet that man kicked himself many times after figuring out what he lost. Love, Elaine
Hey,Oz you be on a Pedistal ! I would not try to hide you under the bed . Because you a Fine Austrailian Goddess!!! Besides, Ive got much junk under the bed.lol
Hey,Oz you be on a Pedistal ! I would not try to hide you under the bed . Because you a Fine Austrailian Goddess!!! Besides, Ive got much junk under the bed.lol
Hey Elaine so good to hear that you have met someone and are happy.
I do think that the men that do have an issue with this are not mature and need to grow up.
I was once dating a man for 18 months, who told all his friends about me, told me I was great and even asked me to move in with him. I then found out that he lied to me about a friends weekend away saying it was just the boys, when infiact the other men had brought there partners along. When I pushed him he told me that he was embarressed about my weight and did not want to bring me along !!!! Well you can guess what I told him. lol
Do still wonder if we had lived together where he would have hidden me when his mates came to visit? I dont fit under the bed. lol
Hey Elaine so good to hear that you have met someone and are happy.
I do think that the men that do have an issue with this are not mature and need to grow up.
I was once dating a man for 18 months, who told all his friends about me, told me I was great and even asked me to move in with him. I then found out that he lied to me about a friends weekend away saying it was just the boys, when infiact the other men had brought there partners along. When I pushed him he told me that he was embarressed about my weight and did not want to bring me along !!!! Well you can guess what I told him. lol
Do still wonder if we had lived together where he would have hidden me when his mates came to visit? I dont fit under the bed. lol
Elaine ,I am glad you have found someone who treats you with the respect and dignity that you deserve. Now IF I can get a a woman to feel the same way about a guy with a Pony beer keg abs I'de be happy.
Elaine ,I am glad you have found someone who treats you with the respect and dignity that you deserve. Now IF I can get a a woman to feel the same way about a guy with a Pony beer keg abs I'de be happy.
