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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Oct 25, 2009 17:55

I had a date recently and we got interesting discussion on the effect of pheromones in sexual attraction. Why are we sometimes instantly sexually attacted to someone, even though they may not be what one considers good looking or even right for you? Do phermones play a part in what we now call chemistry between two people that is out of our control, more a chemistry type of thing. I know that certain scents can turn me on and lucky the man that is wearing them lol, I used to have a perfume that I would wear that would get me excited and feel more desirable. Now this may sound nuts but it did, sadly it is not been made anymore. :( Can dating be just a thing of finding that person with enough good qulities and the right body odour? :)


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jan 17, 2010 03:50

Quoting naught_bbw:

When I was with my ex, I enjoyed all the scents of him. Then, over time, something changed. He developed type 2 diabetes and then had his wisdom teeth pulled, and his scent was never the same. He began to smell like my father. His scent had changed and with it, my feelings changed. I tried working with him to change the scents back but by then, the damage was done. Of course, the scent change wasn't the only problem. But, once I lost the scent-hypnosis which enabled me to turn a blind eye to other problems, I lost the desire to be with him. Scents play a HUGE role in the relationships I form. If a man smells "off" or uses deodorants, soaps, shampoos, or colognes which trigger a negative response, I find myself walking away from him. So, I believe my olfactory system is an integral part of the sexual/love experience.


Thank you for sharing this, I find it very interesting as I did not consider that the scent could or would change.  Do wonder if this has a lot to do with why couples grow apart and what if anything you can do to stop any change from occurring. 

 

As a woman heading into the change of life I do wonder if that will change my scent?  Lets hope the my new scent attracts sexy, smart, wealthy and caring men.  Wish I could order some of that online. lol



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 02, 2010 16:11

When I was with my ex, I enjoyed all the scents of him. Then, over time, something changed. He developed type 2 diabetes and then had his wisdom teeth pulled, and his scent was never the same. He began to smell like my father. His scent had changed and with it, my feelings changed. I tried working with him to change the scents back but by then, the damage was done. Of course, the scent change wasn't the only problem. But, once I lost the scent-hypnosis which enabled me to turn a blind eye to other problems, I lost the desire to be with him. Scents play a HUGE role in the relationships I form. If a man smells "off" or uses deodorants, soaps, shampoos, or colognes which trigger a negative response, I find myself walking away from him. So, I believe my olfactory system is an integral part of the sexual/love experience.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Nov 19, 2009 14:09

Quoting aimeefla:

A very interesting topic. At work, over the past two weeks, a guy has been flirting with me. Now my company has an office in the same building, we don't work for the same company. That being said, it would still be fodder for the gossip mill. Anyway, my real point is that after being close to him, on line waiting to order lunch, I noticed that I became rather warm suddenly. He did not touch me, he only smiled and was standing next to me. I though, well maybe the heat from the kitchen caught me. So I ignored it. The next time we were in the same place at the same time the same thing happened. I felt a warming from my waist upward to my neck, then face. This time I stayed away from the kitchen area. Not this has happened three times, I don't know what or if he's feeling anything, but I sure am. I've not acted on this, but he seems rather interested. I found out that he lives in the next town. I'm at a loss as to what comes next. I'm going to let him lead in this because he said something odd to me when we were talking about pictures that I had taken at the zoo. He said that he did not get involved with anticipation as it tends to lead to disappointment. ( I'm paraphrasing ) I take this to mean that he's been let down more than once, as we all have. I believe that if I stop anticipating I stop the energy coming my way and that I don't want. So I will continue to anticipate. IF he and I ever spend time together, away from work, I'll have to talk to him about it. Right now, the warm glow is nice.... Thanks Oz for talking about this, very timely for me. Nat Black, not sure about armpits - but licking hands, fingers, belly, chest sounds too. not to sure about the hair factor, it tends to get in the way not to mention the deodorant is not a good taste...


Wow Nat well got to say that I am thrilled that this is happening to you and thanks for sharing it with us.¿ I feel there is nothing better to let you know that you are alive as a woman than that feeling of being aware of someone in the way that you mention.

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Now I dont know if your are having this happen because of phermones or just due to attractoin though I am thinking that it is one and the same rolled up together.¿ It is rather interesting that you feel this sensation when you are close enough to touch him and quite possibly close enough for you to register his scent.¿

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He does sound like he may be scared of getting hurt again but I would not let that stop you, he probably only needs to know that you have more of an interest than to be just friends. Go for it Nat you have nothing to lose and lots to gain.

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I had a recent date that I found that I found interesting and attractive, though was not aware just how much till at the point of leaving I was at a counter and he was standing behind me.¿ I became very aware of him being there and had this urge to sort of lean back into him. lol¿ I think he had gotten into my personal space and though we were not touching I could just feel him.¿ If that makes sense?¿ lol

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Personally I think I will just go for the old fashioned kiss to get all the senses involved, smell, taste and feel.¿ Though does make me laugh thinking about all of us going around doing a sniff test!¿ lol Think I better leave it there before I get too disgusting.¿ :O

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Hey Nat would love you to keep us updated on this and wish you all the best of luck.¿ :)



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Nov 17, 2009 20:20

A very interesting topic. At work, over the past two weeks, a guy has been flirting with me. Now my company has an office in the same building, we don't work for the same company. That being said, it would still be fodder for the gossip mill. Anyway, my real point is that after being close to him, on line waiting to order lunch, I noticed that I became rather warm suddenly. He did not touch me, he only smiled and was standing next to me. I though, well maybe the heat from the kitchen caught me. So I ignored it. The next time we were in the same place at the same time the same thing happened. I felt a warming from my waist upward to my neck, then face. This time I stayed away from the kitchen area. Not this has happened three times, I don't know what or if he's feeling anything, but I sure am. I've not acted on this, but he seems rather interested. I found out that he lives in the next town. I'm at a loss as to what comes next. I'm going to let him lead in this because he said something odd to me when we were talking about pictures that I had taken at the zoo. He said that he did not get involved with anticipation as it tends to lead to disappointment. ( I'm paraphrasing ) I take this to mean that he's been let down more than once, as we all have. I believe that if I stop anticipating I stop the energy coming my way and that I don't want. So I will continue to anticipate. IF he and I ever spend time together, away from work, I'll have to talk to him about it. Right now, the warm glow is nice.... Thanks Oz for talking about this, very timely for me. Nat Black, not sure about armpits - but licking hands, fingers, belly, chest sounds too. not to sure about the hair factor, it tends to get in the way not to mention the deodorant is not a good taste...


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Nov 13, 2009 15:35

Quoting BlackF06:

Hej!

I heard Dr Karl talk about this sometime ago.

Perhaps many of the divorces are due to chemical intolerance of the other partner. Many people seem to meet awash with body odour suppressents which camoflage a persons "real" smell and taste.

Yes taste.

If you cannot lick your partners body or armpit in the morning before they have a shower and enjoy the taste then how are you going to be able to put up with their odours for any length of time???

Yes it sounds disgusting but try it.

Of course the food we eat and what we drink can also impact on our smell ...

cheers

The Black One


Hi there The Black One thanks for your comment. Did have to say the thought of licking a man arm pit is a bit off putting. Is there no where else that I can lick that would give me the same result?? lol Now I will have to put licking on my selection criteria, might make for interesting conversation. grins :)


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Hej!

I heard Dr Karl talk about this sometime ago.

Perhaps many of the divorces are due to chemical intolerance of the other partner. Many people seem to meet awash with body odour suppressents which camoflage a persons "real" smell and taste.

Yes taste.

If you cannot lick your partners body or armpit in the morning before they have a shower and enjoy the taste then how are you going to be able to put up with their odours for any length of time???

Yes it sounds disgusting but try it.

Of course the food we eat and what we drink can also impact on our smell ...

cheers

The Black One



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Oct 31, 2009 20:50

Thanks for the comments guys, i do believe ther must be something in it all, not all on its own, but a deciding factor ... too hard to explain why there is attraction for one above another when all other things are similar. :) Now how can I bottle this stuff?? grins


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Oct 29, 2009 04:22

I truly believe we can be attracted by looks,smells,charm - je ne sais quoi and know it is not in our best interest and not someone we would normally be attracted to. Good old common sense , friends/family etc. can rescue us from these relationships that most likely don't have staying power. I think a lot depends on your personal state of mind at the time as it makes your other senses weaker but who knows what's responsible for the other percentile. I know when I was first separated that I was eager for almost any attention and part of that was the fact that I was naive. Time was a healer and a definite stage that only I could go through (sounds like those teenage years) in order to gain my own experience. Actions and words combined are what attracts me past the initial conversation/looks/meeting game. This is of course goes for people I consider friends. (family is whole other ball of wax - family forever despite whether you would choose them as friends)


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Oct 27, 2009 20:44

Actually a while back I saw on a (Nova?) tv show the subject of smell and the role in attraction that it can play in the sucess in a picking a sucesssful breeding partner.In the study several troups of chimps were observed . the sent and DNA profiles of many chimps were gathered and the study showed that scent plays a big component in the sucess and viability of partners in primates. so since we are a primate also I have to say It does play a component in the attraction of a partner. Visual displays and other display cues can attract a potential partner in chimps so It is not a streach that it holds true as well in humans. actually some of the oldests recorded cosmetecs were containers of oils infused with spices for use as a pufume.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Oct 25, 2009 22:50

Oz.¿ I don't know if this helps, but I recently met someone (on a meet and greet having coffee) and I must say that I felt an instant attraction and yes he did smell good!¿ I did kiss him goodnight which I rarely do on these types of meeting with¿someone.¿ It was a soft slow deep kiss as well.¿ He had my knees turn into rubber and It was extremely hard to pull away.¿ Each time we meet, it gets harder...¿ I think phermones do have a lot to do with attraction.¿ I believe that the sense of smell is one of the most brain triggering senses that we have!¿ It triggers memories better than any other sense.¿ Scientifically proven.¿ I hope that helps.. if not thanks for letting me share.¿ Elaine



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