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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 09, 2009 21:31

For all the men on LF ... what are the top ten things women just don't get or men wish woman understood about men? Ten is just a suggestions ...


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Oct 23, 2009 20:31

I agree with Thunderheart. I enjoy watching baseball and I get the same grief over it and I AM a woman. The small stuff just ain't worth fighting over and if you want your man happy and at home...please him but in return he should please you.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 18, 2009 15:04

Quoting: Originally posted by Thunderheart44
I would like for a woman to understand my love of sports,especially football.Not walk by and say how can you watch that stuff,isn't it enough that this is something I love and enjoy and you could be happy for me and accepting of my desire to sit back and enjoy a couple of hours of male bonding over a good game.Do I complain or demean you when you buy yet another pair of shoes to go with the 100 pairs already collecting dust in the closet. Ladies,all men notice a beautiful woman !! It doesn't mean we're going to dump you and run after her right then and there. If we have a disagreement don't bring up something from an argument we had years ago and expect me to remember it,and then get mad when I don't.It doesn't mean I don't care or that I'm not paying attention,it just means I'm getting old and have so many new things to try and remember. Woman need to understand that men are completely different animals compared to you.What makes us happy or sad might be different than what what affects you.It doesn't mean we're loathsome creatures,you have to allow us to be men. Ladies here's the one real ingredient for keeping a man happy and faithful,Men love oral,I know it's a shocker.But when the marriage papers are signed and the oral stops guess what ? Men start looking elsewhere for that particular fix.Now I know Azure and some other ladies will call me shallow and many other things as well,but you wanted to know about men, so here is a man telling you straight out what one of the secrets is to a successful relationship for men. Stop worrying so much about the small stuff !! If your making a big deal,and having arguments about toilet seats or socks on the floor or some hair in the sink then what happens when life deals out the real problems,that's when everything falls apart because you spent too much time worrying about the small insignificant things. These are all I can think of right now,I'll get back to you with some more later,it's late now and time to try and get some sleep.I'm up late worrying if I left the toilet seat up or down !!


There's an awful lot of truth in here, and I'm a big fan of an honest answer. Thanks, Thunder.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 15, 2009 04:18

I am so stuck on the toilet seat being left up. Not a real problem for me since the son can't even refill the toilet paper roll so you get used to it. Just as easy for me to flip it down as for him to flip up. Guess if there are more men in the household - the woman would have to remember to leave it up since majority rules ? ( hmmmm ) We are all presuming that we have dainty sized bottoms that would hit the water or get wedged. Sorry - off topic and toilet humour. Oh yeah - my point in answering. I agree with thunderheart - - what he said - actually sex/play in general is an important ingredient especially if it diminishes.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 13, 2009 15:47

All though that I can agree with Azure that we men can some times be not easy to please in senseable food choices.Some of us guys If left to our own devices would be happy with chichoronies, tatertots and a beer or a soda.All though I have to say my exwife ,when we were married did treat me like a god. She gave me burnt offerings at least once a week for supper.One thing that can get a guy in hot water with you gals is a simple statement like you meatballs are not as good as my moms.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 13, 2009 03:49

I would like for a woman to understand my love of sports,especially football.Not walk by and say how can you watch that stuff,isn't it enough that this is something I love and enjoy and you could be happy for me and accepting of my desire to sit back and enjoy a couple of hours of male bonding over a good game.Do I complain or demean you when you buy yet another pair of shoes to go with the 100 pairs already collecting dust in the closet. Ladies,all men notice a beautiful woman !! It doesn't mean we're going to dump you and run after her right then and there. If we have a disagreement don't bring up something from an argument we had years ago and expect me to remember it,and then get mad when I don't.It doesn't mean I don't care or that I'm not paying attention,it just means I'm getting old and have so many new things to try and remember. Woman need to understand that men are completely different animals compared to you.What makes us happy or sad might be different than what what affects you.It doesn't mean we're loathsome creatures,you have to allow us to be men. Ladies here's the one real ingredient for keeping a man happy and faithful,Men love oral sex,I know it's a shocker.But when the marriage papers are signed and the oral sex stops guess what ? Men start looking elsewhere for that particular fix.Now I know Azure and some other ladies will call me shallow and many other things as well,but you wanted to know about men, so here is a man telling you straight out what one of the secrets is to a successful relationship for men. Stop worrying so much about the small stuff !! If your making a big deal,and having arguments about toilet seats or socks on the floor or some hair in the sink then what happens when life deals out the real problems,that's when everything falls apart because you spent too much time worrying about the small insignificant things. These are all I can think of right now,I'll get back to you with some more later,it's late now and time to try and get some sleep.I'm up late worrying if I left the toilet seat up or down !!


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 13, 2009 03:34

Quoting: Originally posted by silv2001
This is what I think 1. Don't assume that all men are in cooperation with other men that you have known. 2. Don't assume that we are all close-mouthed and unwilling to talk. 3. Don't assume that just because we don't say anything that we want you to tell us how to think. 4. Don't assume that because we do something nice or special that we want sex. 5. Don't assume that badgering us will get an acceptable response of how we really feel. OMG ten? lol 6. Don't assume that we will eventually fall out of love or ever quit caring about you. there's six - sorry if this is too (assuming) lol *I'm 34 and never blogged until a cpl weeks ago this is awesome p.s. I'm open and chatty lol


oh yes Silv2001 assume = Ass out of U and Me Good to see you blogging and giving us more male view points. :)


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 13, 2009 03:28

Quoting: Originally posted by butterbll
I can say for me it is counter productive to having a rational discussion on some Weighty issue as soon I walk in the door and some one DEMANDING an answer right then and there. For me it is not a good idea . Esp when I say let me think about it for an hour and having someone getting in my face in response to my answer is 999.999,999,999,999.99999% shure to start a fight. I Personally had this happen to me many times by my wife(Now EX for 12 + years) at the time. When it involves spending money and the buget is razor thin. Please give me the benafit of few hours of time that I asked for to ponder the answer to the topic of what you wanted to disscuss. Like major purchases, if we really need a new (fill in the blank), or is it Really essintial or can the old one hold together for a few more months. Till the buget Improves or we can save for it a few months and then get it. I have Problems with being emotionally attacked esp when some on is right in my face and the refuse me the time to think that I had requested. Normally all I ask for is a hour. If you cant wait a hour I feel there has to be a problem else where . that is one of respect,and courtesy.


You make a fair point here Butterbll, usually women have given much thought to something already prior to bringing it up with their man, and can be impatient in getting a response sometimes. he he Though I do think that it also comes about from times where they have wanted to talk, and given the man time, only to be continually put off till later. Some men cant dicusss isues very well. I will remember this for future reference, though I do think I usually ask if it is a good time to talk. Well in my memory of things I do. grins


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 12, 2009 21:45

I can say for me it is counter productive to having a rational discussion on some Weighty issue as soon I walk in the door and some one DEMANDING an answer right then and there. For me it is not a good idea . Esp when I say let me think about it for an hour and having someone getting in my face in response to my answer is 999.999,999,999,999.99999% shure to start a fight. I Personally had this happen to me many times by my wife(Now EX for 12 + years) at the time. When it involves spending money and the buget is razor thin. Please give me the benafit of few hours of time that I asked for to ponder the answer to the topic of what you wanted to disscuss. Like major purchases, if we really need a new (fill in the blank), or is it Really essintial or can the old one hold together for a few more months. Till the buget Improves or we can save for it a few months and then get it. I have Problems with being emotionally attacked esp when some on is right in my face and the refuse me the time to think that I had requested. Normally all I ask for is a hour. If you cant wait a hour I feel there has to be a problem else where . that is one of respect,and courtesy.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 12, 2009 10:17

My thoughts on what men would like....(women too for that matter) 1)Some privacy/private time or time with friends. 2)Trust 3)Honesty 4)Some independence and some reliance on the partner. (we all need to be needed/wanted) 5)Sensible approach to shopping. ( I don't mean groceries) 6)Shared "agreed" responsibilty for chores/errands and kids Ie. discipline, schoolwork, manners, upbringing etc.) 7)Time manager - someone has to arrange appt's, shedules and get things done before the car breaks down, before you get charged for another missed Dr's appt, kids are late for school and you miss the plane and get notice of another late bill payment and late fee 8) Humourous, fun with a sense of playfulness 9) Chemistry/charm is important for you both to still have interest 10) Respect - you have to respect one another, their job, their values an their being.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 11, 2009 21:39

Quoting: Originally posted by silv2001
This is what I think 1. Don't assume that all men are in cooperation with other men that you have known. 2. Don't assume that we are all close-mouthed and unwilling to talk. 3. Don't assume that just because we don't say anything that we want you to tell us how to think. 4. Don't assume that because we do something nice or special that we want sex. 5. Don't assume that badgering us will get an acceptable response of how we really feel. OMG ten? lol 6. Don't assume that we will eventually fall out of love or ever quit caring about you. there's six - sorry if this is too (assuming) lol *I'm 34 and never blogged until a cpl weeks ago this is awesome p.s. I'm open and chatty lol


Wow, Silv, this was great! And we love open and chatty ... :). Welcome.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 11, 2009 21:09

Quoting: Originally posted by butterbll
Well since no one has replied yet Ill give several. When a guy say he is going fishing most of the ladies Give us guys greif about us going. We try to invite you along, yet you would complain about it being too( fill in the Blank).Yet you give us guys greif that we never do and thing together. For a guy to go fishing, some times it is not about catching fish. But but having time to not worry about things and think with no pressure. Two:Some of you ladies complain that us guys have Gun cabinents full of guns and when we go to shoot them. (Once every three months) We Guys ask you if you want to go . You tell us NO,yet you complain that together you don't do activities together. Three when us guys are are confronted by you ladies in our face as soon as we walking the door wanting to talk about something.If we say in a hour.Please give us the time to think about the stated topic. Us not wanting to talk about it is not a dissmissal of the discussion . But can be a time to reflect on how we guys feel on the subject.


Thanks, Butterbll ... you really made me think and I liked the points you made. Especially the one about giving men time to think through a question and decide what they want to say. With that in mind, I wonder if it also happens that sometimes women, who tend to be more verbal, feel compelled to fill the empty places in a conversation in a way that makes it more difficult to really communicate with men. Perhaps the added pressure of hearing more of our ideas and opinions in those silent spaces (because we feel uncomfortable when no one is talking), can be a little overwhelming and inadvertently create an inhospitable place for a comfortable conversation. It may also give the impression we don't really want to hear your opinions, even when that isn't the case at all. Thank you for helping me understand that better. :)


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 11, 2009 19:54

Quoting: Originally posted by smoosh
lol - can women answer these since men are beating down the door ? - have to love your positive spirit - hope you do get some replies since men are as close mouthed as we are open/chatty.


You can do anything you want, Smoosh. :) We are more chatty for sure, and I always like your comments.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 11, 2009 09:05

This is what I think 1. Don't assume that all men are in cooperation with other men that you have known. 2. Don't assume that we are all close-mouthed and unwilling to talk. 3. Don't assume that just because we don't say anything that we want you to tell us how to think. 4. Don't assume that because we do something nice or special that we want sex. 5. Don't assume that badgering us will get an acceptable response of how we really feel. OMG ten? lol 6. Don't assume that we will eventually fall out of love or ever quit caring about you. there's six - sorry if this is too (assuming) lol *I'm 34 and never blogged until a cpl weeks ago this is awesome p.s. I'm open and chatty lol


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 10, 2009 16:37

Well since no one has replied yet Ill give several. When a guy say he is going fishing most of the ladies Give us guys greif about us going. We try to invite you along, yet you would complain about it being too( fill in the Blank).Yet you give us guys greif that we never do and thing together. For a guy to go fishing, some times it is not about catching fish. But but having time to not worry about things and think with no pressure. Two:Some of you ladies complain that us guys have Gun cabinents full of guns and when we go to shoot them. (Once every three months) We Guys ask you if you want to go . You tell us NO,yet you complain that together you don't do activities together. Three when us guys are are confronted by you ladies in our face as soon as we walking the door wanting to talk about something.If we say in a hour.Please give us the time to think about the stated topic. Us not wanting to talk about it is not a dissmissal of the discussion . But can be a time to reflect on how we guys feel on the subject.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 10, 2009 15:04

Good post One2one, I want to hear the answers to this one too :)


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 10, 2009 13:41

lol - can women answer these since men are beating down the door ? - have to love your positive spirit - hope you do get some replies since men are as close mouthed as we are open/chatty.


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