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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Sep 15, 2008 22:24

OK ... so it was pointed out to me that I'm not all that good at asking the 'getting to know someone' kinds of questions. Can anyone help? What are some really good questions you ask or have been asked before? Hmmmm ... or maybe even what's the worst first chat/e-mail question you've ever heard? LOL Now, that could be interesting ...


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 28, 2008 10:46

Quoting hd2000: possibly the worst and funniest directed to me, "I`M DESPERATE, LETS GO, U`VE PULLED"

That IS kind of funny. :D lol. I'm guessing "pulled" is slang for winning the lottery or picking the right card?


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 21, 2008 14:34

I dont know but if you find the key let us all know. I had the one that want to know bascily if he could have sloppy seconds. Argggg way beyond nasty. So I dont think there is a good way. LOL


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 19, 2008 15:13

Quoting ozredhead62: Damn BIG BROTHER ....yes they took it ALL out. Grrrh So you want to know what he said? LOL I will try to say it ever so nicely. :) He asked me if I would be willing to strap on a particular devise and use it on HIM as a man would naturally do to a woman!!!!!! Lets see if it stays in this time. he he Hey One2One what did they take out of your??? xx

Good Lord! Why don't they just stay on AFF?? Anywho ... He asked if my friend's built in flotation devices [is that OK?] were as big as mine. The word I used prior has already made an appearance on this very same blog. So, naturally I assumed it was alright. I'm just saying .... Now, ask me which friend I had been chatting with ... Glittery kisses to U


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 19, 2008 01:47

Quoting one2one: Hmmm ... looks like you were censored too!?!

Damn BIG BROTHER ....yes they took it ALL out. Grrrh So you want to know what he said? LOL I will try to say it ever so nicely. :) He asked me if I would be willing to strap on a particular devise and use it on HIM as a man would naturally do to a woman!!!!!! Lets see if it stays in this time. he he Hey One2One what did they take out of your??? xx


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 18, 2008 18:51

Quoting ozredhead62: Well I like to just let the conversation flow and we seem to get to most questions within the first few chats. There are some I like to ask pretty early on though, like "Do you want to have/have more kids?" and "Would they be willing to relocate?" if they dont live close. For me its no use continuing if some of the basics dont match. The question that really threw me in the first 10 minutes of conversation was OMG! I had to ask him again to make sure I had heard right. LOL I had , so .... goodbye.

Hmmm ... looks like you were censored too!?!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 18, 2008 10:08

Does anyone here like it when someone greets you with a term of endearment on the very first IM or email? Say, "hello, sweetie"? Personally, I don't like this at all. It's a complete turn off. I'm not sure exactly why, except maybe that I feel those terms should be saved for a more intimate knowledge of someone. So, to answer your question, Caught: terms of endearment on the first contact are my cue to exit stage left. In addition, any reference to my breast size or sexual prowess (or his) are signs to hit the road! Good luck--True


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 18, 2008 02:37

Well I like to just let the conversation flow and we seem to get to most questions within the first few chats. There are some I like to ask pretty early on though, like "Do you want to have/have more kids?" and "Would they be willing to relocate?" if they dont live close. For me its no use continuing if some of the basics dont match. The question that really threw me in the first 10 minutes of conversation was OMG! I had to ask him again to make sure I had heard right. LOL I had , so .... goodbye.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 17, 2008 17:10

Thanks for your comments Island, Sparkles, Smoosh and Caughtoffguard ... that's exactly what I was thinking. At least in the beginning, there's no need to come on like a Mac truck (which I have a tendency for in RL anyway). And those 'boring' questions like "how was your weekend" can actually reveal a lot if answered with some detail. And Root ... you're right, those ARE the things I really want to know, and they aren't going to come in the first few chats. One of the worst things I've ever been asked in a chat was when I was just finishing chatting with a friend and popped back into a chat with a man who had just come online, thanked him for waiting, only to have him ask " p.s. You are so welcome, Caught. Hugs


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 17, 2008 03:16

Let me see, the worst chat/e-mail I've ever received was "Do you give head?" I know it's like inappropriate for here (and no, it wasn't on this site, some other site. I get bored. lol) And the worst chat, I guess was with some guy who wasn't really talking. He didn't even ask questions, I had to. What's your name? Where do you live, again? Do you have any pets? (I can talk miles and miles about my dogs! lol) What do you do? / School, work, both? We usually hit it off with those questions. It's better if he's as random as I am so there's endless nonsense and good conversations. :) I'd say don't over question each other. Just flow by one question at a time and use as much time on the question because you'll tear each other apart with so many questions. It'll feel like you're in an interview for a job.. and that's never a good feeling! LOL! I hope that helps or at least entertained you. :) Btw, thank you, again!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 16, 2008 17:22

One of the worse ways to start off chat ...so are your boobs as big as your smile? (can you say bye bye) I think there is not clear set way to get to know someone but I agree with the others in discussing real life and what one is doing whether it be doing housework, errands, taking kids to school, heading out the door to work or see family etc etc. There you will find ( or not ) the commond interest thread so you can decide to continue the conversation; keeping in mind - they can tell you whatever they want whether it is online/email or phone or even in person. Eventually - the actions will speak for themselves. Remember to keep some of the personal details to yourself - no point inviting the stalkers to show up at that family bbq - lol.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 16, 2008 08:28

Why is it about questions? Life is full of Questions. It is the answers you seek that matter. Is he trustworthy? Will he cheat? Can he love me? Are these butterflies for real? Can we live a happy fulfilling life together? Those are the true questions and none of them can be answered with words. I prefer to invite someone to be open, talk about what matters to them. Interviewing for a partner never works


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 16, 2008 07:56

I agree with Islandgal and also like to chat about what i did/ got up to at the weekend; visiting friends, family, going out to a gig or for a meal etc and hopefully they will react with news of their own lives...gives you a general idea of what interests and social life someone might have..... As for worst openers/chat ups..apart from my previous one of "so what are you looking for?", "what are you wearing right now?" & "just how BIG are your tits?", have me closing them down and straight for the block this member link!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 16, 2008 04:56

I like to try and talk about common interests .... food, music, movies etc and see how the conversation goes from there. I often find that guys are very quick to start on the "when was your last relationship, what are you looking for, whay aren't you married" which I don't find very easy to chat about when asked so early and directly (which is a bit of a conundrum because generally I orefer directness, lol) Not sure there's any one answer; you have to do what feels right for you. In terms of worst online question ..... there are a few but I guess "when did you last have sex" is up there with the worst!


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