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Posted on Feb 16, 2008 at 05:23 AM

Give this heart to everyone you don't want to lose. Nisi32132

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Posted on Feb 18, 2008 at 05:36 AM

Quoting: Originally posted by canuckcountess Great question! If I've just met someone once or twice and don't want to meet again or take things any further, I prefer to be Canadian [translate: polite] and will say "I don't feel I am suited to you and thank you for the nice time. Best of luck in your search for that certain someone!" I feel this doesn't leave anything open for discussion and even if I thought they were less than truthful with me, or that it is them who is not suited to me, I like to leave egos intact and remain polite but firm. I hope everyone will be brave and open to 'telling it like it is' but I do find some will as you say, fade into the woodwork. Too bad as we each have an opportunity to be kind to one another, don't you agree? Cheers! fran

Yes, I totally agree with you Fran, Yes, being honest and if you just can't bring yourself to say that, then tell the person that a past relationship has asked to have a second chance. I usually feel this is not a fib, as the relationship is between myself and my honestly. Hugs Nat

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Posted on Feb 16, 2008 at 10:24 PM

Great question! If I've just met someone once or twice and don't want to meet again or take things any further, I prefer to be Canadian [translate: polite] and will say "I don't feel I am suited to you and thank you for the nice time. Best of luck in your search for that certain someone!" I feel this doesn't leave anything open for discussion and even if I thought they were less than truthful with me, or that it is them who is not suited to me, I like to leave egos intact and remain polite but firm. I hope everyone will be brave and open to 'telling it like it is' but I do find some will as you say, fade into the woodwork. Too bad as we each have an opportunity to be kind to one another, don't you agree? Cheers! fran

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