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Veröffentlicht am Wed, May 17, 2006 07:08

I think I hinted before that I had met someone from the site and was seeing him. Unfortunatly it didn't work out. He's a good guy and I wish him all the luck and happiness in the world. I just found out once I got involved that I was really afraid. I feel bad because the minute an oportunity came to break up I bolted like a scared rabbit. Soon after I regreted the choice but there is no going back on it. I don't undderstand why I stayed in a bad relationship for three years but bailed on a decent one after three weeks. I guess I'll have to work out those things before I get serious about anyone else. I still really like him but he hasn't spoken to me for a week. I guess being freinds is out of the question and that's probably my biggest regret.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, May 19, 2006 07:30

Oh the stumbles on the road to love. I can so feel you on this. Communication is the key. It is hard to get over being rejected, particularly for no good reason. As such, I can understand the gentleman in question guarding his heart now. Hopefully, your willingness to self-disclose like this will give him pause. If not, as you said, wish him well and move on cause he is not up to the challenge of helping you get past this emotional hurdle. Next time, and there will most definitely be a next time given how smart and lovely you are, try speaking up when you start to panic. You will find that others can be responsive when we take responsibility and invite them to help us process. After all a relationship requires 2 people relating with each other and working though their baggage. I know the fear is that if you speak up they will disappear. Better now than once you are fully invested. As you have experienced, not speaking up can lead to the same result, but it is worst 'cause you are left with a lot of what ifs?


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