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Veröffentlicht am Wed, May 30, 2007 22:02

How many times have you seen a picture and only checked out the pictures? Have you taken the time to read out the person? Granted many do not answer truthfully, but for those of us who do, much of what we have said is a reflection on who we are and what we enjoy. So tell me, do you respond to a picture or to the words that you read in the persons profile?


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jun 19, 2007 22:10

OMG - Carmel - what a sweet story. I love that. Thanks for sharing it. When I was much much younger (like 20 years) I remember a fellow that I had known since high school (we were not bf/gf but just friends in highschool) who had become a Marine and came back to town and looked me up. We had a series of intense dates and dancing and rolling around before he had to report back to the base. I of course got all paranoid and insecure after a few days of not hearing from him (it would take a lot to get me to act like that now) anyway I finally wrote him off and felt embarrased. About a week later I recieved a letter from him and there was good reason for him not contacting me - the death of his roommate - but I could not get over that in his letter he spelled "know" as "no". Very immature of me - but then I was in my early 20's so in fact immature was in play. Anyhow my brother is just about finished with his PhD in education and he cannot spell his way out of a paper bag - and I am not so great at it myself - but my brother is an amazing writer. Spelling and punctuation do matter in the big scheme of the professional world but if used as a criteria for intellignece maybe not so much.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 18, 2007 00:25

Re: jjiggl write: What makes me interested in someone is their profile. Particularly, the part where they write about the kind of person that they want to meet. I am not attracted to the profiles that primarily state the standard, "likes cuddling, holding hands and taking long walks on the beach..." Those interests aren't very original and they don't really tell me much about him. (Doesn't everyone like cuddling and walking on the beach with someone special??) I cracked up when I read what sunkissedlynny wrote about her fetish for men who know how to use punctuation. My honey's profile lacked proper punctuation and the spelling was atrocious. But I liked the words and phrases that he used...that is when I finally deciphered what he was trying to say. Reading his profile gave me the impression that he was either very intense and serious OR that he was very sensitive and vulnerable. Either way, I was immediately attracted to his profile. In fact, his was the first profile that made me think, "I'd like to meet him". But do you think that I winked at him??? NO!! I was too afraid that he might not be interested in me because I was taller than him and was almost twice his weight. Within a week of reading his profile, I was pleasantly surprised when he winked at me. We are still together. And he is a tender hearted, expressive and loving man. He is much better at expressing himself through words and deed than he is at writing. That is more than good enough for me. Even though I was attracted to him because of what he wrote, I will admit that his pic also helped capture my attention. In his pic he exuded masculinity and confidence with just a touch of vulnerability. I just loved that.

You go girl!!


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 17, 2007 17:15

What makes me interested in someone is their profile. Particularly, the part where they write about the kind of person that they want to meet. I am not attracted to the profiles that primarily state the standard, "likes cuddling, holding hands and taking long walks on the beach..." Those interests aren't very original and they don't really tell me much about him. (Doesn't everyone like cuddling and walking on the beach with someone special??) I cracked up when I read what sunkissedlynny wrote about her fetish for men who know how to use punctuation. My honey's profile lacked proper punctuation and the spelling was atrocious. But I liked the words and phrases that he used...that is when I finally deciphered what he was trying to say. Reading his profile gave me the impression that he was either very intense and serious OR that he was very sensitive and vulnerable. Either way, I was immediately attracted to his profile. In fact, his was the first profile that made me think, "I'd like to meet him". But do you think that I winked at him??? NO!! I was too afraid that he might not be interested in me because I was taller than him and was almost twice his weight. Within a week of reading his profile, I was pleasantly surprised when he winked at me. We are still together. And he is a tender hearted, expressive and loving man. He is much better at expressing himself through words and deed than he is at writing. That is more than good enough for me. Even though I was attracted to him because of what he wrote, I will admit that his pic also helped capture my attention. In his pic he exuded masculinity and confidence with just a touch of vulnerability. I just loved that.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jun 16, 2007 13:24

Chemistry is important, so is a good brain in my book: so read what is shared. I am starting to develop a new fetish: love men who use punctuation! Anyone else, tried to muscle their way through sentences without any?


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jun 02, 2007 00:57

I think it depends on what folks are coming to this site for. If people are truly trying to find someone to spend their life with then I think they take the time to read the profile and go from there. If they are just trying to hook up and have sex I think they look at the picture and see if they are physically attracted to them. If so, they go from there. Now, I know that a lot of men don't read the profile because my profile says I am in a relationship and only interested in the blogs. Yet, I still get that wink and email saying 'Hey, can we hook up? My favorite email came from someone who flat out told me he wanted to F**k and we didn't have to tell my boyfriend; which would be better for him because he has a wife. So, I don't think he read my profile at all. (Just a guess)


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 01, 2007 12:31

even worse than that is the person who sticks in their high school picture when their 10th reunion is already a memory


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 31, 2007 03:45

I would have to say both.A picture can certainly add to your interest in a person I think thats just human nature.What you read from their own words can add greatly to your interest in them or overcome a not so flattering picture.I certainly think once you get past a certain stage in life looks are far less important then when we were young and not so smart !!


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