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Veröffentlicht am Wed, May 03, 2006 21:11

Okay let me see if I can articulate what I've been thinking of. So I've been reading blogs of the women on the site and they feel the need to catagorize the type of man who would come to a big girl site. Since I only know a little bit about a few of the guys around here I can't really say a whole lot. Probably some of the guys are jerks. You know all the guys that like skinny women are perfect and none of them are jerks...(btw that last statement was dripping with sarcasm) Okay so here comes the vent. In todays "if only you were thinner" society...It's really nice that there are men and even women that don't think that way. I can't begin to tell you how nice it's been since I got here. I'm finally not carrying a cyberplague. :) Not only that but if anyone takes the time to read the blogs and overlooks the whining parts...there are some really interesting and funny people here and it's nice to be part of that community.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 25, 2007 16:20

Re: aksonov write: (I'm curious as to whether we believe that sexual attractions can grow out of intellecutal and emotional attractions, or whether they're on completely separate tracks.)

Very nicely put. For me sexual attraction growing out of intellectual and emotional attraction is exactly what happens. Perhaps its some kind of self-protection mechanism in me, but I don't feel sexual attraction for men that I do not know very well. I have to know and really admire someone both intellectually and emotionally for that attraction to grow.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 25, 2007 15:26

Re: Nisi32132 write: How did you find LF? Nisi32132

I just happened to stumble upon LF. I was searching the internet for BBW support groups and came across this site. I didn't know BBW singles sites existed. I had not been on anyother singles sites so I wasn't knowledgeable of what was out there.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Nov 25, 2007 12:39

Well, it seems that this is an on going topic here. Where are all the Good one hiding? Just because the internet is a great place to find someone, you still have to be "all over the internet" to have your profile found. Just being on one website is not enough. Work the numbers, be all over the place. Think about the odd here. There are millions on the net looking each day. IF they find this website it's because they learned to do a search for something specific rather than a general search. Did you search for "large Friends"? or large singles? How did you find LF? Nisi32132


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 08, 2006 18:02

Hi StarE Night, You know what? there are many guys out here (like me) who not attracted to bean poles. We like to be with ladies we can feel, on more levels than one. Now, my problem is that I'm a little shy about "hitting" on women (but I warm up very quickly!!). So we all have our hangups. the goal is to try and hang them up sopmewhere and enjoy life anytime you can.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, May 04, 2006 07:45

I am so with you StarEnight. I am one for maxims. My current is: "People seem not to see that their opinion of the world is also a confession of their character." Ralph Waldo Emerson The nice thing about blogs is that it gives us a chance to check in on our mental headspace. Would that more folks took advantage of this opportunity for reflection. I like you read the words of others and appreciate the humanness of it, but I also feel much compassion for the pain and down right puzzled at why folks feel so powerless. And why infect this wonderful space with thoughts of the small minded. Don't get it twisted, I do not feel I have the right to censure, and am certainly happy to lend a little support to someone who is dealing with momentary drama. I have even been known to vent myself. I wonder however, how we can encourage each other to see that all that blah blah about fat is not about us, but rather a reflection of the social development yet to be done; work that will be easier if we come from a positive mental tip I certainly don't have all the answers, but I am glad I am not the only one asking the questions


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