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Do Women Want Too Much? 154 Angesehen 09/10/09
I came across the following joke email that made me laugh but also got me wondering as to how much like us it really was? ************* The Husband Store A store that sells new husbands has opened in :City New York City , where a woman may go to choose a husband. Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates: You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building! So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads: Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs.. She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads: Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids. 'That's nice,' she thinks, 'but I want more.' So she continues upward. The third floor sign reads: Floor 3 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking. 'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads: Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help With Housework. 'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!' Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads: Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads: Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store. PLEASE NOTE: To avoid gender bias charges, the store's owner opened a New Wives store just across the street. The first floor has wives that love sex. The second floor has wives that love sex and have money and like beer. The third, fourth, fifth and sixth floors have never been visited. *************** So do we women really expect too much? Are we looking for the perfect man? Are we unreasonable in this? What about the men do they expect too much too? I really cant believe that it is this simplistic for men and how they choose their women?
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How your weight affects your choice in men? 562 Angesehen 06/01/09
Hi to all you lovley people, it feels like I have been away a long time and do have to say that I have missed you all. :) I have been reading recent blogs on body image and how this may or may not define you and it brought up something I wanted to throw out there. When I look at most of my previous relationships in an attempt to understand them, understand myself and maybe future ones as well, I have looked at the fact that I had a limited selection of men to choose from. What I mean here is that due to my being what I consider beyond ample size I feel that the amount of men that are available to choose from are far less than someone that may be of average size. Now I dont know if this is true or not, just something I feel. Even now, when I go out to a club the percentage of men that may be interested in a larger woman I would say are something like 1% certainly not more than 3%. That does not allow for much selection, so how I am I meant to find that man that is perfect for me? I wonder about my previous relationships and if I got into them because they were available, more so than because they were right? I do know that a couple of them were with men that liked BBW's but this was more due their own issues and insecurities and this would show up as fear of my wanting to or attempting to lose weight. At one point I decided to that I would not date while I was still big and would wait till I had lost my weight and had a better selection to choose from, but dont know how wise that is considering I have been like this for more than 30 years? Argggh! I am still in the process of understanding how my weight has defined my choice in men and if this is my personal issue or something that is real and out there? What do you think? Has your weight affected who you have chosen to partner with? Do you feel that you had enough options or have you had to pick the best from what was available rather than what you really wanted? If you were your ideal body weight would you be going out with men that are different to the type you may be going out with now?
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Just For A Laugh 158 Angesehen 08/19/09
Some of this is nearly English: Sentences in letters written to councils in the UK 1.. It's the dogs' mess that I find hard to swallow 2.. I want some repairs done to my cooker as it has Backfired and burnt my knob off. 3.. I wish to complain that my father burnt his ankle very badly when he put his foot in the hole in his back passage.. 4.. And their 18 year old son is continually banging his balls against my fence. 5.. I wish to report that tiles are missing from the outside toilet roof. I think it was bad wind the other day that blew them off. 6.. My lavatory seat is cracked, where do I stand? 7.. I am writing on behalf of my sink, which is coming away From the wall. 8.. Will you please send someone to mend the garden path. My wife tripped and fell on it yesterday and now she is pregnant. 9.. I request permission to remove my drawers in the kitchen. 10..50% of the walls are damp, 50% have crumbling plaster, and 50% are Plain filthy. 11..I am still having problems with smoke in my new drawers. 12..The toilet is blocked and we cannot bath the children until it is Cleared. 13..Will you please send a man to look at my water, it is a funny colour and Not fit to drink. 14..Our lavatory seat is broken in half and now is in three pieces. 15..I want to complain about the farmer across the road.. Every morning at 6am his cock wakes me up and it's now getting too much For me. 16..The man next door has a large erection in the back garden, which is Unsightly and dangerous. 17..Our kitchen floor is damp. We have two children and would like a third So please send someone round to do something about it. 18..I am a single woman living in a downstairs flat and would you please do something about the noise made by the man on top of me every night. 19..Please send a man with the right tool to finish the job and satisfy my wife. 20..I have had the clerk of works down on the floor six times but I still have no satisfaction. 21..This is to let you know that our lavatory seat is broke and we can't get BBC2. 22.. My bush is really overgrown round the front and my back passage has fungus growing in it. 23..He's got this huge tool that vibrates the whole house and I just can't take it anymore.
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No Free Week For Blogs??? 170 Angesehen 08/18/09
Hi all I just noticed that they have removed the free week earned for 10 comments on your blog???? I must be slow .. when did this happen? They have replaced it with getting a free month for a published article!! Now not too bad an idea if you can see what is written there in the articles, got to admit us ladies do like to read such stuff BUT you cant read them unless you are a member !!! Think its a bad move to lose the free week for the blogs, most of us that blog are women, and dont or will not pay for memberships anyway. Lose the women from the site and you have nothing!!!
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Why "No Thanks" Responses Available ?????? 208 Angesehen 07/26/09
OK there comes a time when what I have to ask What Are They Thinking???? Received a couple of winks recently (thank you) and went to respond to them when I found that that is NO WAY to respond unless with a "yes" type of response. Now this really pissed me off!!!!! I like to respond in some fashion to all winks, even if its to say "thanks but not thanks" and hate the silent no answer thing. Though now it appears that Large Friends dont give us the opportunity to have good manners unless we are saying we are interested or are paid members !!!! Also noticed that we still dont have spell check on the main message of the blog, but it is available for the blog title???? Do wonder if who ever is making these changes have given any thought at all about what the user here wants? Things that will make people want to come back to the site !!!!! I would love to create my own dating site but would miss the friends I have made here too much. Though still may do it anyway? Maybe a totally free BBW dating site???? Anyway to those that have sent me winks and I have not responded, thank you but I am sorry it just means that for whatever reason I dont think we are a match and can not tell you this through a wink. xx
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The right time to discuss being exclusive? 101 Angesehen 06/08/09
I tried to search this topic to see if it has been done before, but on these blogs thats nearly impossible to do. So here it is, sorry in advance if it has been covered already. When is the right time to discuss commitment or being exclusive with a man that you have been dating? I was talking about this with a male friend the other day and his answer was ... 6 months!! Now call me fast or stupid, not sure which one, maybe both, but that seemed to be a long time? Now maybe I have always been fast going in my relationships but I dont think I have ever been dating, seeing someone weekly, which had progressed into a physical relationship and then waited 6 months to discuss being exclusive. At what point in the relationship have you discussed this? Are women more keen to discuss this than men? Do men get scared off if this topic is brought up too early?
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How Important Is Great Sex In A Relationship? 464 Angesehen 06/07/09
Recently I have been thinking about men and the choices we make in picking our partners. Personally I seem to want it all, that perfect relationship that is full of communication, laughter, honesty, respect and great sex. What most of us are after ...right? Though I do wonder at how real this expectation is? Having a great sexual relationship is a big thing for me ..well I hope its big ..ha ha. I have had the relationship where I have had other elements that I have wanted in a partner but the sexual side has been satisfying though at the same time somewhat lacking. Of course I have also had the "take your breath away" relationnships where the lacking appeared outside the bedroom. If you have a partner that is great on all the other attributes but only rates as "good" though not "great" in the sexual attibutes ... is that good enough? What about that partner that is "great" sexually and turns your world upside down each time, but is only "good" in other areas? Which would you choose? Will taking either choice have you yearning for that thing that you dont have in the realtionships? How much of a compromise do we make here? Is it too much to expect to be able to have it all?
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Am I Being Prudish? 294 Angesehen 05/01/09
I really need your opinions and experiences on this dilemma that I find myself in. I have been seeing/dating a very nice man for a few weeks now. We have spent quite a bit of time together both on the phone and in person and I suppose are starting to become a bit more serious with each other. He is gentle, articulate, educated, witty, sensual, artistic, very attentive and cute in a bohemian sort of way. We got on well from the first day we spoke online and despite some differences I can not deny that we are good together. What else could I want right? In the early days of getting to know each other he told me that he smoked dope, but at the time I thought he meant occasional recreational use. It turns out that I assumed wrong. He smokes a little bit every day, and from what I can tell has been doing so for many years. Now I can say that he has never appeared stoned to me, even though I know he has smoked, just before and even while he was with me. He is responsible with his money, kids and full time work and does not appear any different even after he has had a smoke. Now it is not for me to say what is right for people, but I have been down that road and decided that it was not something I wanted or needed in my life. I have not smoked in over 20 years and have no intention of doing so again. I do have some friends that do smoke, and some that take other recreational drugs, but usually not when they are with me. Now I find myself in not knowing what to do here? Wondering if I am prudish in regards to this situation? I dont feel I can nor want to ask him to stop, but do feel concerned about progressing this relationship along. I have smeared the boundaries in allowing him to smoke while with me, at first not realising, as he smokes home made cigarettes, but even after I knew, just thinking this was one of those occasional times. Having had one long term relationship with a binge drinker who slowly changed as his drinking increased, I guess it really has me concerned. How should I tackle this when I talk to him about it? Can some people smoke long term without it really affecting them, mentally or emotionally? Should I take this as a sign of him not being able to cope with life? Is this relationship doomed or am I just being prudish?
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Why Offer Me Sex? 740 Angesehen 03/20/09

Hey to all you lovely peoole in blog land.? Wanted to throw out some thoughts on something I cant get my thinking around about some of the guys out there.?


Now I believe that a woman can get sex any time she wants, she holds the power in this, and if she in not all that fussy,?sex is available to her at her will.


Ok hope you agree and are with me so far?


So have to wonder why some men think that offering me sex will entice and interest me?? I think I am quite clear about this in my profile.


Even after I have?told them that I am not looking for this and have this available at hand if I wanted,?it still does not stop them.


It feels a bit like offering a person that lives on an island a trip to the beach.? lol??


Do they have nothing else to offer?? Do they lack personality?? Or do they just think?that I?am desperate for it?


What do you guys and girls think?? Is this a basic nature of the beast? lol?


Though in saying this are we women the opposite, do we offer?friendship, relationships and love, and discount the things that they cant get enough of?


P.S.? Watch how fast the "views" count moves because I have the word "sex" in the title ..... interesting. ? he he he

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So when is big just TOO BIG ? 491 Angesehen 02/27/09

Now I know that I can really appreciate and have a preference for certain sizing of particular body parts, but when is big just too big.

I have been speaking to a really hot looking man, articulate, witty and successul, that has been having trouble with finding women to stay with him.

Upon pushing him to clarify this as I could not see why this man was single and why women would not stick to like honey, he eventually disclosed his little problem. lol

Well this man has a certain organ that measures 12.5 inches or 31.8 cm !!! Omg, yes i asked him to prove it,seen the pics. How could I resist? LOL

He finds that women just run away from him and his search is for that woman that could take him without him holding back.

Now that made me wonder if this is even at all possible? Being challenged size wise the other way can be worked around by varying positons and angle, well in most cases, lol , but is there a way to be able to accomidate more when there is no where left to go.

I know i have an idea preference which is actually within what would be considered average, or maybe a bit above. lol, what about you girls, would you run from something like this, or run to it. he he he

Now I know what you may be thinking ..... and your right lol I would love to get to know him better but not ready to jump on the horse without knowing we are going to enjoy the ride. :)

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Why be a fake? 195 Angesehen 02/27/09

Hi to all you wonderful people in blogland, I have not been on much recently as i have been busy with life and been a very lucky girl and had quite a few dates.

Am a memeber on some other sites and perhaps because I was the new girl on the block, got quite a few responses, some that i have been rather interested in.

Ok so you all know the drill you talk get to know them and if you are lucky one day you meet. All good not too hard to think with and should be so simple. Right? ..... NOT lol

I am starting to lose count of the amount of men that have twisted the truth to suit the situation, told part of the truth, or half the picture.

One man I really liked said he had broke up with his ex about 5 months before, truth came out after we were dating for a couple of weeks and she called him to say she wanted him back (he went). Turns out is was only 1 month before.

Another said he was 5 ft 4, my height, which was not ideal but ok. We meet and he is not even as tall as me WITH his booster shoes on.

Then there is the one that says he has a little bot belly, ok, we met and he was rounder than one of those exercise balls you can sit on.

To top it off another one that was was taking it up big how he wants good conversationa and that connection with a person and he would take that above just having sex with someone he does not like or connect with. Great, we establish that there is a connection, and agree to meet. He then cancels on me last minute because he got an offer from a woman for sex, that he already admited to me that he did not even like.

Ok had my rant here, lol, but I do wonder why bother???

Granted we all want to show our best side. I do too. I have what i consider is a nice pic here for example, but i do tell the men that this is one of those special pics that shows me in my best light and that i look different in real life, and I also have pics that show me looking different too.

If we re really out here to meet someone that may become special, why do we need to push the truth , or lie? Surely the end result is not good if you are deceiving someone, how ever slight this may be?

I am sure that women are all too guilty of this as well, and I guess I wont always disclose everything about me straight off, but would and do if I was asked. Want some one who is into me for me and all that i really am. otherwise why bother?

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Second time around? 308 Angesehen 11/27/08
OK all you lovely bloggers really want your opinion here. I was dating a really nice man over 12 months ago for about 2 months, who at the time said that he did not want a relationship with me, so we ended and moved on. Stayed friends though. Now he wants to try again. He says that now he can trust me and open up to me, which is something he would not do before. I think of him as a friend now, though back then would have liked to try for more. So can we go back, can what is now looked upon as a friendship be made into something more? Has anyone been in this type of situation before? What happened, did it work out?
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The Why's of Men 129 Angesehen 02/23/09

1. WHY DO MEN BECOME SMARTER DURING SEX? (because they are plugged into a genius)


(they don't have enough time)

3. WHY DOES IT TAKE 1 MILLION SPERM TO FERTILIZE ONE EGG? (they don't stop to ask directions)

4. WHY DO MEN SNORE WHEN THEY LIE ON THEIR BACKS? (because their balls fall over their butt-hole and they vapour lock)

(You're laughing, aren't you?!?!)

5. WHY WERE MEN GIVEN LARGER BRAINS THAN DOGS? (so they won't hump women's legs at cocktails parties)

6. WHY DID GOD MAKE MEN BEFORE WOMEN?(you need a rough draft before you make a final copy)


(don't never happened)

( C'mon guys, we laugh at your blonde jokes!)


(because a vibrator can't mow the lawn)

Remember, if you haven't got a smile on your face and laughter in your heart...Then you are just an old sour fart!

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Is Dating An Investment? 221 Angesehen 01/15/09
I was having a chat with a friend from here last week and we got into a really deep conversation about relationships. He made one comment that I wanted to put here to get your thoughts on. He felt that women considered dating and relationships as an investment and expected a return or payout from the man. (tell me if I got this wrong xx) Do you consider the time you take to get to know someone or date someone as an investment? If you do, then do you expect a return for your investment? What type of return or payoff would that be?
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Sex and Double Standards 592 Angesehen 12/14/08

I was talking to a male friend the other night and he was telling me that he was seeing a woman on a casual basis for over a month now. He would see her regularly and enjoyed the intellectual, emotional and physical side of this relationship/friendship.

All good, till he said that he was still looking for a woman to have a relationship with as she was ?not his type of woman?.

Upon further questioning he told me that she had allowed him to pick her up at a bar and had slept with him the first night. Thus making her disqualified as suitable relationship material.

After I thumped him one, lol, we discussed this as I could not believe that he would think like this. Though he did agree that it was double standards, this is how he felt, that he did not want a relationship with someone he considered promiscuous.

Do we as women still face these double standards?

Men are not only allowed but encouraged to crow louder than a rooster in regards to their sexual conquests and have the freedom to express their sexual needs, while women are down graded and demoralized for doing the same.

On asking my friend when he would thought it was right for her to have got sexual with him, he could not answer anything definite, said when it felt right, maybe on the 2nd or 3rd date.

Does it make a woman promiscuous if she knows what she wants and sleeps with a man on the first date? Or can a woman who just holds out for the 3rd date, and then has sex, maintain her appearance of morality? What if she was doing this 2 or 3 times a month?

What would happen if woman used this as a judge of character on men, and disqualified all men that agreed to sleep with them as not suitable partner material?

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Sit On Santa;s Knee 233 Angesehen 12/14/08

OK so we are in the silly season with most of us rushing around like crazy getting ready for Santa to arrive.

Yesterday my six year old asked me what I wanted for Santa to bring me?

Well I had to stop and think what I really wanted just for me.

Its been quite a while since Santa came to visit me. I must have been a naughty girl. LOL

I really had to think what is it that I would ask from Santa that would just be for me, something that would make me happy.

So come on and sit on Santa's knee, and tell us what would you ask for this year, that is just for you to make you happy? :)

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Typical Behavior? 212 Angesehen 12/05/08
In recent times I have had it mentioned to me that being a natural red head and being "fiery" that I must have a bad temper. Seems its stereotyped like the "dumb blonde" (sorry) comments we have often heard. Now when faced with this sort of "expert" knowledge how does one defend oneself? I personally think I'm one of the most even tempered people I know. If I do get angry I will go quite till I have calmed down and then I will want to talk about it, calmly. I'm not one for screaming scathing fights, despite how good they say the make up sex is. LOL So do we really have preconceived ideas about other peoples behavior according to their physical appearance? What do you think? Is there a basis of truth to them?
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Are You A Genius? 249 Angesehen 12/06/08
Hi all, who likes a bit of a mental challenge? Hope you have fun with it. :) 24 h in a d=24 hours in a day 26 L of the A 7 w of the W 7 d of the W 12 S of the Z 66 B of the B 52 C in a P (WJs) 13 S in the USF 18 H on a GC 39 B of the OT 5 T on a F 90 D in a RA 3 BM (SHTR) 32 is the T in DF 15 P in a RT 3 W on a T 100 C in a D 11 P in a F (S) T 12 M in a Y 13 = UFS 8 T on a O 29 D in F in a LY 365 D in a Y 13 L in a BD 52 W in a Y 9 L of a C 60 M in a H 23 P of C in the HB 64 S on a CB 9 P in SA 6 B to an O in C 1000 Y in a M 27 B in the NT According to Mensa if you get 23 of these you are a genius. Only 2 Mensa members achieved full marks.
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7 Deadly Sins 271 Angesehen 11/13/08
OK now I know that you guys have NONE of these. LOL Though if you had to choose just one that you may suffer the most from, which one would it be ....and why? Pride Envy Gluttony Lust Wrath/Anger Greed Sloth
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Treat Them Mean Keep Them Keen? 331 Angesehen 11/05/08
How many times before had I heard this comment being used mainly by men referring to how they treat their women. The other day I heard a friend use this in regards to a women that he was interested in, and how he felt that she was treating him. Got me thinking if this sort of behavior really works? It brought forth a lot of questions. :) Do we all, men and women, like to have someone make it a challenge to get them? Usually in the game of love there is one person that is chasing and the other letting them try to catch them. If you like to do the chasing, do you no longer desire or find someone exciting once you feel you have got them? Honestly I find the idea so alien to me it seems like it playing games. If I like someone I want to let them know. What do you think? Have you had the "treat them mean keep them keen" treatment done to you, and did you like it? Is this playing games with someone? Is this about giving more attention to the one that is being "mean", or is this about some sort of power play?
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