Am I insane, out of touch or what?
I have been reading some of the blogs over the last few days, trying to think of a topic that would at least garner me so responses.
I came on here (this site) to hopefully find a woman who would be my partner. I feel totally out of place and i am not sure why.
I grew up, believing a relationship, no a marriage was about two people growing together, yet being individuals creating an intimate environment where both could be themselves without fear, rejoicing in the ability to share everything, supporting each other so that both grow individually and as a couple
There are some extraordinary people on this site. Why do people give up on that dream? Why settle for anything less than the whole package? Why date someone who is married if your goal is to be in a longterm relationship?
I have no problem with the idea of sowing the wild oats, for both genders, as long as that is what both want.
The idea of Friends with Benefits is a recipe for pain, but again its choice.
I guess my question is are we so sexualized that intimacy is sex and what someone will do for you, or are willing to perform on you is more important than anything else.
I thought in a relationship egos are put at the door, needs are met, people grow and explore in all ways........knowing that you are appreciated for who you are and that both know they are where they belong
Are there people who think as me....or should i just find a straight jacket 2 sizes to small, pop a few pills and let my mind wander aimlessly?
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