There are many ways in which to voice one's opinion(s), one's perspective without resorting to insults.  Obviously I have the ability to read.....  There is the possibility that I may have misread your post; however it was down from the site.  Perhaps a bit of revision has taken place and you corrected it to read the way you wanted it to?  Hit some sort of nerve which was not my intention at all.  I simply voiced my opinion, and ended it with a nicety.  And I will again, good luck with your search.

Qadesh

As I appreicate your enthusiam I whole heartedly disagree that women of size are submissive!  I for one am not; however that does not mean that there are not women of size that are not submissive.  With that being said, good luck on your search.  I miss AZ.

Qadesh