ok so I know you've been dying to hear from me on this topic so here it is.I being a man feel so slighted about this self love,the reasons are the women have all the tools reqired for some real satisfaction.Just look at Amuse's pic of her favorite gadget,Honey b. has her rabbit,and wylde has every contraption known to womenkind.And those contraptions are endless for women,but for us men their isnt much for real stimulation.So for us guys it's all about our imagination,because thats about all we have for our own self pleasure,that and 2 strong hands which leaves something to be desired.One very feminine petite hand would be much better by the way.So do I take matters into my own hand,you better believe it,guess i need to invent a male toy that would do the job !!
ok so I know you've been dying to hear from me on this topic so here it is.I being a man feel so slighted about this self love,the reasons are the women have all the tools reqired for some real satisfaction.Just look at Amuse's pic of her favorite gadget,Honey b. has her rabbit,and wylde has every contraption known to womenkind.And those contraptions are endless for women,but for us men their isnt much for real stimulation.So for us guys it's all about our imagination,because thats about all we have for our own self pleasure,that and 2 strong hands which leaves something to be desired.One very feminine petite hand would be much better by the way.So do I take matters into my own hand,you better believe it,guess i need to invent a male toy that would do the job !!
I've used a fleshlight on a lover before. It's not sticky and awkward to use like other hand held 'tools' and feels ALMOST as good as the real thing. Alternating with or*l makes him feel like he is going from the north end to the south end in two seconds. ... well, that's what I was told. LOL
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Petersh55 write: With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
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Petersh55 write: With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
I've used a fleshlight on a lover before. It's not sticky and awkward to use like other hand held 'tools' and feels ALMOST as good as the real thing. Alternating with or*l makes him feel like he is going from the north end to the south end in two seconds. ... well, that's what I was told. LOL
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
Petersh55 write: With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
The imagination is a powerful tool, no doubt about that!!! Mmmm, I like what you imagine too...*wink*...LOL
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Petersh55 write: With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
The imagination is a powerful tool, no doubt about that!!! Mmmm, I like what you imagine too...*wink*...LOL
In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser
With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
With reference to Wyldechild`s views and enquiry about the Art of giving self Pleasure , I must say that the only things I use are my trusty right hand and my imagination . The first is self explanatory , while for the second I just close my eyes and see a Beautiful Big Woman in my mind and imagine all the nice thing that we do to each other , Hmmm Yess
butterbll write: I will have to admit many , many moons ago , I had to take matters in to my own hands. at the time my Wife (now Ex thankfully)was pregnant.to say that she could not keep anything down was a slight understatement. morning sickness for over 5 months. was not a pretty picture esp. when you get yagged on all the time .kind of spoils the mood.
he he he, matters into your own "hands", eh? Hey, that's a good thing!!!
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butterbll write: I will have to admit many , many moons ago , I had to take matters in to my own hands. at the time my Wife (now Ex thankfully)was pregnant.to say that she could not keep anything down was a slight understatement. morning sickness for over 5 months. was not a pretty picture esp. when you get yagged on all the time .kind of spoils the mood.
he he he, matters into your own "hands", eh? Hey, that's a good thing!!!
I will have to admit many , many moons ago , I had to take matters in to my own hands. at the time my Wife (now Ex thankfully)was pregnant.to say that she could not keep anything down was a slight understatement. morning sickness for over 5 months. was not a pretty picture esp. when you get yagged on all the time .kind of spoils the mood.
I will have to admit many , many moons ago , I had to take matters in to my own hands. at the time my Wife (now Ex thankfully)was pregnant.to say that she could not keep anything down was a slight understatement. morning sickness for over 5 months. was not a pretty picture esp. when you get yagged on all the time .kind of spoils the mood.
Songs2v14 write: I sure do learn a lot on this sight and if I have any questions, I definitely know where to go. I do find it interesting that none of the men have answered. But I can't say much, I'm a little chicken myself.
LOL...yes, same here!!! It's cool, learning something new.
And yeah!!! What's up with all the men? Ah, Hellll-ooooo. I know a couple will probably answer when they meander by but sheesh, what about the rest of them, eh?...bok, bok, bok
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Songs2v14 write: I sure do learn a lot on this sight and if I have any questions, I definitely know where to go. I do find it interesting that none of the men have answered. But I can't say much, I'm a little chicken myself.
LOL...yes, same here!!! It's cool, learning something new.
And yeah!!! What's up with all the men? Ah, Hellll-ooooo. I know a couple will probably answer when they meander by but sheesh, what about the rest of them, eh?...bok, bok, bok
I sure do learn a lot on this sight and if I have any questions, I definitely know where to go. I do find it interesting that none of the men have answered. But I can't say much, I'm a little chicken myself.
I sure do learn a lot on this sight and if I have any questions, I definitely know where to go. I do find it interesting that none of the men have answered. But I can't say much, I'm a little chicken myself.
honeybiscuit write: Well, on pentration - I have different kinds of O's. A sweet kind of ramping up kind that has nothing to do with penetration but is all about the cl*t. But, I gotta say I really love a full body gspot O - which for me requires when starting cold about 10 to 20 minutes of caressing and cooing followed by shallow penetration - still does not require a man - but is even more fun if you have a partner that gets it. h yeah and that whole story about the mind being the most erotic organ - well that cold start 10 to 20 minute "warm-up" can very easily be reduced to nothing - I mean seconds - if my mind has already been engaged.
As to the D/s discussion, yeah, that may be another thread. I know what you are saying...but think that is a whole nother conversation.
ROFL!!!!! The eroticism of the mind. My mind definitely has to engaged along with the body. I remember many a time being completely lost in the "moment" and then one of the kids would knock at the door and voila, all was for naught. Damn kids...LOL.
Your descriptions are right on. Having a partner that gets it makes all the difference in the world. Even if they don't right off the bat, as long they are willing and able to learn, that works. Nothing like being almost there and your partner thinks they should be creative or has no clue what's going on and poof, bye bye to the big O...LOL
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honeybiscuit write: Well, on pentration - I have different kinds of O's. A sweet kind of ramping up kind that has nothing to do with penetration but is all about the cl*t. But, I gotta say I really love a full body gspot O - which for me requires when starting cold about 10 to 20 minutes of caressing and cooing followed by shallow penetration - still does not require a man - but is even more fun if you have a partner that gets it. h yeah and that whole story about the mind being the most erotic organ - well that cold start 10 to 20 minute "warm-up" can very easily be reduced to nothing - I mean seconds - if my mind has already been engaged.
As to the D/s discussion, yeah, that may be another thread. I know what you are saying...but think that is a whole nother conversation.
ROFL!!!!! The eroticism of the mind. My mind definitely has to engaged along with the body. I remember many a time being completely lost in the "moment" and then one of the kids would knock at the door and voila, all was for naught. Damn kids...LOL.
Your descriptions are right on. Having a partner that gets it makes all the difference in the world. Even if they don't right off the bat, as long they are willing and able to learn, that works. Nothing like being almost there and your partner thinks they should be creative or has no clue what's going on and poof, bye bye to the big O...LOL
Re:wyldechild write: I think many men don't realize that vaginal penetration is really not the way to a female orgasm. So for many, they find out via friends, reading, experimenting, etc. I am glad to see that people are responding. Even if they just read and find something that interests them, that is good too!!!
Well, on pentration - I have different kinds of O's. A sweet kind of ramping up kind that has nothing to do with penetration but is all about the cl*t. But, I gotta say I really love a full body gspot O - which for me requires when starting cold about 10 to 20 minutes of caressing and cooing followed by shallow penetration - still does not require a man - but is even more fun if you have a partner that gets it. h yeah and that whole story about the mind being the most erotic organ - well that cold start 10 to 20 minute "warm-up" can very easily be reduced to nothing - I mean seconds - if my mind has already been engaged.
As to the D/s discussion, yeah, that may be another thread. I know what you are saying...but think that is a whole nother conversation.
Re:wyldechild write: I think many men don't realize that vaginal penetration is really not the way to a female orgasm. So for many, they find out via friends, reading, experimenting, etc. I am glad to see that people are responding. Even if they just read and find something that interests them, that is good too!!!
Well, on pentration - I have different kinds of O's. A sweet kind of ramping up kind that has nothing to do with penetration but is all about the cl*t. But, I gotta say I really love a full body gspot O - which for me requires when starting cold about 10 to 20 minutes of caressing and cooing followed by shallow penetration - still does not require a man - but is even more fun if you have a partner that gets it. h yeah and that whole story about the mind being the most erotic organ - well that cold start 10 to 20 minute "warm-up" can very easily be reduced to nothing - I mean seconds - if my mind has already been engaged.
As to the D/s discussion, yeah, that may be another thread. I know what you are saying...but think that is a whole nother conversation.
smoosh write: Self pleasure - I'm all for it - I can count on me when I want it slow or want it fast. Only toy that I have is a bullet but I need/want something more realistic - have to go shopping at the Stag Shop. No clamps for me either (guess I'm a wuss )but I'm up for a good paddling whether I'm bad or good but I certainly can't do that myself. Self pleasure is always 2nd to a pleasing partner. Just can't duplicate that feeling and touch.
He he he, that is true, we are the best at knowing what we like, that's for sure. But the touch and feel of another can't be beat, combine the two together and let the sparks fly!!!
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smoosh write: Self pleasure - I'm all for it - I can count on me when I want it slow or want it fast. Only toy that I have is a bullet but I need/want something more realistic - have to go shopping at the Stag Shop. No clamps for me either (guess I'm a wuss )but I'm up for a good paddling whether I'm bad or good but I certainly can't do that myself. Self pleasure is always 2nd to a pleasing partner. Just can't duplicate that feeling and touch.
He he he, that is true, we are the best at knowing what we like, that's for sure. But the touch and feel of another can't be beat, combine the two together and let the sparks fly!!!
kewannap write: Well...I don't understand why people think that it is such a no no to masturbate. I personally see nothing wrong with it at all. As far as devices, I have all kinds of vibes... large, medium, small, g-spot, cl*t hummer, bullets... I also use my vibrating dildo "Mr. Happy" :) He was my first and holds a very special place... ummm... in my heart... yeah.. that's where hehe. I have worn out more toys than I care to think about and I must be the #1 buyer of batteries! You know it is bad when your own kids (grown) buy you value pack batteries for your birthday or Christmas!
As to when.... every chance I get! I too carry a small vibe in my purse and have been known to pull it out while driving down the highway. I have often thought about getting a bumper sticker made that reads, "If this van's a humming, I must be cumming!"
My oldest daughter's toy is called Mr. Happy...LOL. I never named any of mine, maybe I ought to. Then I can have a name to scream when in the throes of passion...hee hee hee
ROFL!!!! I LOVE your bumper sticker idea!!!
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kewannap write: Well...I don't understand why people think that it is such a no no to masturbate. I personally see nothing wrong with it at all. As far as devices, I have all kinds of vibes... large, medium, small, g-spot, cl*t hummer, bullets... I also use my vibrating dildo "Mr. Happy" :) He was my first and holds a very special place... ummm... in my heart... yeah.. that's where hehe. I have worn out more toys than I care to think about and I must be the #1 buyer of batteries! You know it is bad when your own kids (grown) buy you value pack batteries for your birthday or Christmas!
As to when.... every chance I get! I too carry a small vibe in my purse and have been known to pull it out while driving down the highway. I have often thought about getting a bumper sticker made that reads, "If this van's a humming, I must be cumming!"
My oldest daughter's toy is called Mr. Happy...LOL. I never named any of mine, maybe I ought to. Then I can have a name to scream when in the throes of passion...hee hee hee
honeybiscuit write: Everyone is chickening out. Lol. Well I already made my confession in the other thread. I do have one of those little vibrating finger doohickeys and it is a wonderful little device to add to to the toybox and travels oh so well.
Ah, looks like some had to make it through the censors first. I forget that some can post immediately and others it takes a few hours or longer before their posts appear.
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honeybiscuit write: Everyone is chickening out. Lol. Well I already made my confession in the other thread. I do have one of those little vibrating finger doohickeys and it is a wonderful little device to add to to the toybox and travels oh so well.
Ah, looks like some had to make it through the censors first. I forget that some can post immediately and others it takes a few hours or longer before their posts appear.
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