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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Aug 01, 2010 10:27

I've seen the responses to several blogs including my own and I know that the truth will be told about all things.  That is a good thing and it helps to know that there are people who are willing to be honest.

When I meet people, I am very honest.  Sometimes, perhaps a little too blunt.  I am not afraid to tell them that I am a large girl.  I have been since I was 7.  I'm not lazy.  I'm trying to lose weight but its a long ...hard... painful process. 

I've met several...odd...characters and while I want to meet people, i'm starting to think I was born several decades late for my own personal values and wants.

This blog isn't meant to upset anyone and I'm sorry if it does.  I'm just trying to figure out a few things and thought that my new found friends at LF could help.

Does it make me a bad person to get defensive when people start judging because of my weight?  Is it stupid to be a bigger person and want someone that is actually relatively normal?  I actually had one guy tell me that I shouldn't be "picky" because of my weight.  Why can't I?



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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Aug 22, 2010 14:55

What I have learned in life is this, you have to be true to yourself because the choices that you make will reflect on you. So IF you are "picky", then so be it. You have to live with your decision. As for being picky, I am willing to wager that the man that told you that you should not be picky because you are plus sized was probably someone who did not reach the standards of what is expected in an adult, read someone who was not taking responsibility in taking care of himself. (At least, those were the kind of men who used to call me picky, way back in the day when I was single). Regardless of who call you picky, keep in mind that you have to live with your decisions. Being with someone just because they have a pulse is a waste of time.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Aug 03, 2010 10:56

Be "selective" or picky - it's your right just as it is for anyone else - do not "settle" or "compromise" unless you want to. I have had other women tell me I am "picky" which is in part due to my size, age and I just guess in fact that she knows I'm looking for a partner. I don't consider employed, honest, friendly, communicative, family oriented etc. as being "picky". I consider those elements as essential traits of my future partner. Someone is out there for you - you just have to wade thru the available choices and don't limit yourself to the internet.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Aug 03, 2010 08:29

White Rose You have the right to choose who you want in your life. Anyone who believes you don't believes in some form that they are better then you. I wouldn't spend a second worrying about what he has to say. Before anyone notches the bed post, they need to notch the soul. I think he missed the mark, and you are better served for it. Robert


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Aug 02, 2010 22:22

Whitetexasrose, in response to why can't you be picky?BE picky. you have the right to be. I feel, If any girl said this to me I'de get offended as well. Just because of ones size ,it does not mean that one has to act like an alleycat. Classy has no time limit. No it does not make you a bad person because of your size.Ones body is merely the vessel in wich your True self is housed. so one could be 99 pounds and be a rotten person inside, or they could be 600 pounds and still be a rotten person as well. So Stick to you morals,and values. So what if you are not Politicaly Correct.I feel that Instead of being Pretty Clueless of what you want,like Larry the cable guy says "Get'er Done!" Happy Hunting!


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Look you need to have confidence in yourself as a good oerson 1st. The creep that told you not to be picky is an idiot. From what little I can see in your pics you are really cute and you sound like a very good hearted person. Be yourself and love yourself and that will show others your true beauty... I have been big since birth and fighting the weight, now at 50 even at 300lbs I have more women that complement me and hit o n me than ever before because i treat everyone with respect and I have fun with and stay real with everyone I know... hang in there and do not settle... Wanting some one "normal" should not be your primary criteria. you need to find some kind like you and filled with love for you for who you are! He should crave to be with you and hold you and kiss you... I love all women but am always the most attracted with a women with substance and curves and something to grap and hold and pull against me... skinney girls are very over-rated... those bones really hurt, even big guys like me... hang in there and dont be afraid to let the inner you show thru...


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