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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Mar 11, 2007 13:28

WOW! I just read this post online elsewhere and was rather shocked! Someone asked why people seemed to ignore posts/profiles by BBW's and this was a thin womans response: Fat people ARE lazy because if they weren't they'd be moving around and wouldn't be fat. Fat people ARE slow unless some of them invented anti gravity. It takes more energy to move around those pounds (very simple physics) and they don't have that energy because they don't move around in the first place. Fat IS unhealthy, and there are THOUSANDS of medical studies that prove that. Fat people DO lack self discipline because if they didn't they would freakin' diet and wouldn't be fat! I have yet to meet a fat person that doesn't possess all of these traits. Someone responded stating "I have an eating disorder due to Dystheimic Disorder (a form of depression) which started before I was overweight, it is not something I can control...Some people CANNOT control it...would you tell an anorexic or bulemic that it was all their fault? it's the same thing!!!" To which this woman responded: Just as alcoholic can't control his drinking? And then goes into rehab. So are you doing anything to get help for your problem? Do you exercise? Do you diet? Comments? I'd love to respond with numerous replies from y'all!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Oct 06, 2007 08:52

I think that shinny woman needs to eat a tub of ice cream or something and chill out. She'd be more relaxed if she were 300#. Her comments about health aren't necessarily true either. My medical numbers have been great for years (good genetics?). She seems very stessed and unhealthy mentally and physically. Let her eat cake! On second thought, maybe cake's too good for her.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 01, 2007 17:30

Good Golly Miss Molly! SIX toddlers?? On PURPOSE?? My sincerest RESPECT to you AND your 50 pounds. Only a mom can know what its like to have SIX.....ahem.... SIX...kids. i have only three, and I'm just shy of jumping off the 10th floor at work! Kudos to YOU! I don't know HOW you do it!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 01, 2007 17:22

She truly must be a miserable person inside to say that. And she obviously doesn't think much about herself. Just watch the movie Phat Girls. It's a great message and one that I hope can live in reality as well (find THE one).


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 27, 2007 17:52

Ummm, I'm fat. That's why I'm on this site in the first place--to maybe find someone who can love me, in spite of my size! So many people out there are TRULY shallow. And, to "Patricianum": What ever you were referring to by saying "too bad your mom didn't believe in abortion"... Ummm, well that WAS a jab against ignorance, right? Soo, let me ask the big one: WHO's ignorance? I'm assuming those who cannot be "tolerant of others'? So, Check Yourself, girlie....


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Sep 27, 2007 12:26

This woman has a prejudice against fat people. Most of America 70% is fat or obese, so get with the program! Fat people are not lazy and do move. Many skinny people like fat one too, so this girl is surely in the minority.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 26, 2007 18:17

Peter, The only reason you haven't seen that on the news is that I paid them off. Oh, and they got my weight wrong. Amy


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 26, 2007 15:58

Hmm . . Wish I had the study to hand, but I'll have to give you an informal synopsis. A researcher from the Mayo clinics who has been studying obesity since the 1960s was curious about how obesity worked and came up with a novel way to study it. What if he made naturally thin people obese. How would their bodies react? He did a study in which inmates were required to gain weight and maintain that weight for a given period of time. They were then allowed to go back to what felt like normal eating habits and their food intake was closely monitored, as were any number of indicators in a blood panel. Left on their own, the inmates lost weight without feeling hungry or exhibiting any chemical markers associated with a body reacting by going into starvation mode. What this researcher pointed out, and what is important, is that fat people do not react this way when their caloric intake is reduced. They exhibit a number of physiological responses similar to those of someone who is starving. Whoever this thin woman was, she was uninformed. Aside from this study, numerous twin studies have shown a clear link between obesity and genetics. Yes, environment and a variety of personality traits can change the way in which a person handles the tendency to be obese, but willpower and laziness? That is so not hot. And, right on, PaintBrenda! Although, my workout is working out(side) and while long distance running will never be my forte, I can catch and throw a 150lb sheep. Let's challenge miss thin-thang to do that.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 26, 2007 15:32

Hi Wanda, It truly is amazing how misinformed people are about fat people! In the future, please direct her to my little blog in cyberspace for an alternative perspective-- check it out yourself, if you like...


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 29, 2007 23:20

I agree. We are move giving caring senitive and loving. And who says Fat people can't move. I got new for you. I am a nurse and if an emergency goes down this child can move and I am in the gym also. So that skinny person needs to open her mind and learn what life is about.

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jul 19, 2007 05:45

Yes , There are quite a few negatives about Fat People but What about hearing about a few of the positives . Fat people tend to be a lot more Layed back , Easy going ,and Happy-go-Lucky on the whole , They tend to be more tolerant,and sympathetic to the weaknesses and failings of others , and they tend to be better mannered ,and better behaved than most of their Slim neighbours . You often hear about all the chaos caused by badly behaved Average size people but can anyone recall an Incident where a 290lbs Woman went on a rampage through the streets of a Town , stripped off her clothes , climbed a tree and started singing Happy Days are here again ? I very much doubt it . I Rest my Case your honour .


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jul 18, 2007 04:17

Patricianum write: YOU ARE TRULY AN IGNORANT PERSON TO BAD YOUR MOTHER DIDN'T BELIEVE IN ABORTION!!!

Was she on about me ???? Sheesh I sure hope not....... No Matter, she just doesnt see my point of view..... and for honeybiscuit, TY <3 I do tend to say it as I see it..... some see it as wrong , others see it as funny, all at matters is how YOU see it for yourself. As to the original post, yes there is a lot of bad feelings from folks at are "Thin" but not all of them are bad Thankfully, let them get to know ye.... Anyhooooooooo... time to go get fed..... Hugz and Cuddlz for em at would like them ;~)


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Apr 24, 2007 21:40

cute bb buttons - cracking myself up.

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Apr 24, 2007 21:30

Love your comment and phrasing.."Hugz and Cuddlez to all them at know that what the other folks say dont matter a bitty, as long as you know inside, at yer just as cute as a button"


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Apr 24, 2007 11:39

YOU ARE TRULY AN IGNORANT PERSON TO BAD YOUR MOTHER DIDN'T BELIEVE IN ABORTION!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Apr 16, 2007 06:27

Will you all please STOP teasing me with these nice treats.... Doughnuts, Cream filled rolls....( Droooooooools.... ) My doc has me eating properly and drinking a LOT of water to try and get control of my 22 stone /140 Kg .... AND he is bigger than me .... so A have a chance at least .... as for others ideas of what is right .... WHY is it that at the end of a night out , my friend who is average, is pestering a lass at he has been attempting to chat up all night, but its me and my big fat and funny attitude that has her number ???? YES ... there are a lot of folks out there that are just plain ignorant and rude, but with the way they have been brought up, what do you expect.... Hugz and Cuddlez to all them at know that what the other folks say dont matter a bitty, as long as you know inside, at yer just as cute as a button Peace out fae a Daft Cuddly Scotsman

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Apr 07, 2007 04:06

i am a big girl, i am very attractive, i have been a plus size model and worked in the fashion industry for years until i gave it up to have children. i am a size 18 in uk sizes...and weigh about 170 - 185lbs i guess...dont know, never bother weighing myself. i used to weight 300lbs and be a size 28 uk size. I have been big all my life. But now i am fit and healthy and active, but still essentially plus size. Being overly large and obsessed with food is a very sad place to be. i have been there. my life has significantly changed for the better since i lost weight. simply, i feel physically more comfortable. I am bi sexual, and i am only attracted to large women, nothing under a size 16 appeals to me, and i am loving fuller figures up and above 300lbs, so...i dont have issue with the aesthetics of weight...i see beauty in curves. however, it is unhealthy to be overly large, it does compromise your ability to live life completely freely in terms of physical activity. It seems to create emotional stress on many levels and a lack of self esteem and confidence in appearance. it is all very well to object to what the women was saying...but i was lazy, i overate, i was depressed fair enough, but it wasnt an excuse. i had to change my life, i had to move my body, i had to stop comforting myself with food. being overly large is an unnatural state of being for a human being in its pure form. i think that laying down fat is normal for women, and is something that happens in cycles....and as i say....i dont object. but the pyshcology of being overly weighty, the greed and the over indulgence, its not a good thing to make light of not all fat people are lazy, but the majority are pretty much so....fat is a scientific thing....too much in, not enough out.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 27, 2007 10:06

OK I can finally reply to this I finished my ice cream and cookies ok ok lets not forget the pizza.....OH wait I'm to tired right now, I'll be back later after my nap......

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 27, 2007 10:02

I know exactly how you feel when it comes to comments like these from others on different web sites. I use to belong to a public message Bord that was until the day I posted a message asking how they felt about over weight people. I honestly couldn't believe the replies I got I mean yea ok I expected the usual morons to hear there ugly heads and spew the usual anti fat person stuff. But my god it was just amazing how all of a sudden my personal health became such a huge issue for them. When honestly all along they were just useing as a smoke screen. To cover up the real fact they just didn't find over weight people attractive. And as I refused to agree that all over weight people are inherently unhealthy. They then downgraded the treatment I got to calling me meat ball and saying that I must be addicted to food and in denial of it like any other addict. One even said that obese people must be retarded to let themselves get that way. It was just horrible the complete ignorance in the end I got banned for speaking up for over weight people. Funny tho they left the nasty ignorant comments there. And oh yea I some how was suposidatly looking for self valadation and exceptance from them because I dident like myself LMAO.. I guess they realy found it that impossible that a bbw can actualy be happy with them selves and just want to explain that to people to maybe help cut down the ingorance.. Ps.. sorry for the long post just wanted to share that experance to let people know there not alone when it comes to stuff like that..


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 26, 2007 15:01

i wouldnt be surprised if she is a smoker...because in my last vocational school (abroad) i had quite a few class mates who behaved pretty nasty about the fact that i do like chocolate and have a few pounds too much and also talked about healthyness, etc. and what did they do in every school break??? smoking one cigarette after another, so much about being healthy...


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