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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 23, 2006 05:51

I chat to people on the internet, they say am funny and am nice lookin and seem like a nice person but as soon as they know am a size 18/20 (which by the way I dont think is particularly big) but society has put me in the "Large" bracket, they're not interested. Not very good for your confidence cos I know am a beautiful person and have a lot to offer someone who loves me like I could love them. Right I'll get off my soapbox now - i've said what I think. You gorgeous men out there, there is a STAR here just waiting to be picked from heaven. Believe me, you wont be dissapointed. Why should I lose weight just to flippin well fit in!!!! Pink loves ya Big kisses to you all xxxxxxx


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 13, 2007 18:31

I have gone through many stages of my size, much larger and somewhat smaller. I have never had a problem dating because the men I seek are kind hearted and care more for who I am rather than what size I wear. I am an awesome person, and like you say I won't lose weight to "fit in". I've had friends do that, get a guy while they are thin, then put the weight back on and more. I can't imagine wondering what will happen when the "real me" emerges. I do know that at first glance the blond Barbie is going to win, but for a real man it's my heart, and yours, that matters. I know he is out there, for every one of us, we just have to keep searching.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 13, 2007 18:31

I have gone through many stages of my size, much larger and somewhat smaller. I have never had a problem dating because the men I seek are kind hearted and care more for who I am rather than what size I wear. I am an awesome person, and like you say I won't lose weight to "fit in". I've had friends do that, get a guy while they are thin, then put the weight back on and more. I can't imagine wondering what will happen when the "real me" emerges. I do know that at first glance the blond Barbie is going to win, but for a real man it's my heart, and yours, that matters. I know he is out there, for every one of us, we just have to keep searching.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 13, 2007 15:48

i'm a size 18 as well and according to the public.. yeah we're large peoples. i guess it's a little harder for me to accept my size because i gained 60 lbs in this past year. so it's really hard for me to accept that not only does the world definitely consider me large, but the makers of clothing consider me EXTRA EXTRA large. i look back at when i was 60 lbs lighter and even then i was a Large and teenagers would still make comments to their friends about my size thinking i couldnt hear. this seems unrelated to your post, i apologize. but maybe we can talk, because i have no friends my size or larger and i'd really like to meet some. maybe it's a curse of the orange curtain [evil orange county] and maybe my age group? [i'm 21] this is my first response on anything cus i'm new and i'd just like to say HI and both men and women feel free to say Hi because i love meeting new people <3 xoxo


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Dec 24, 2006 18:12

Hi Pink I would like to be your friend.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 30, 2006 17:03

hi pink! wow, i think you are awesom! i'm sick of having to conform to what the media deems "perect" or beautiful. the Lord made you perfect already.. it doesnt matter what size you are. people who dont relize that are just ignorant. stay the way you are and be happy!


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 30, 2006 14:46

I hear ya nd I don't think18/20 to be really big


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 30, 2006 14:38

I hear ya. My ex was a size 18/20 and I don't think thats really big.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 30, 2006 14:38

I hear ya. My ex was a size 18/20 and I don't think thats really big.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 29, 2006 11:18

hi pink & fluffy 18/20 is nothing i'm a 26 & would love to be your size! if people can't except you for what you are, then they are not worthy of receiving your company anyway! a real man/woman looks within & finds the beauty there! all the others shouldn't even be honoured with a second of your precious life! i was slim once but i'm a much nicer person now! & more people get to use the mirror now!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jul 28, 2006 17:40

Yep size hasnt really ever mattered either... in fact I'd have to say im almost guilty of not likeing skinny twiggies. hehe


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 23, 2006 12:08

Lets see- What makes you happy? Thats the bottom line. You can't be a good person or a good anything if you are not happy. And when it comes down to it in life- know one really cares how we feel as people or how anyone feels!! That but think about it!! I do know that you can be fat and fit. I have been there and felt great even though I was heavy i could hang in there with the rest of them.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 23, 2006 07:11

I know how you feel, as long as you are happy the way you are then anyone who thinks differently should P*** off. You look great the way you are, be proud of the way you are and flaunt it lady. Its about time us large people fought back and gave some stick to the anorexic skeletons. Stay just the gorgeous way you are !


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jul 21, 2006 14:26

pinkandfluffy, I know exactly how you feel. I have always been very chubby, especially growing up. People always look down on you when you are "less than perfect" and I think it really sucks! I started to hate myself when I was a teenager and went on a crash diet and got down to 120 pounds. But guess what - it didn't change anything. I was the very SAME person and people - even strangers - treated me exactly the same. Of course, after a crash diet of such proportions, the weight always comes back. Its in the genes. I finally decided that I would not worry so much about what society thinks of me and just live my life the way I choose. It is the best choice I ever made - and you are right - people do NOT know what they are missing. Not everyone is meant to be small. When I joined the military I was in the best physical shape of my life - running 2 miles in under 16 minuets, etc. and guess what - I was still a size 18. My butt is HUGE - again - genetics. Anything short of cosmetic surgery is not going to help this chubby bunny and I think that that is too risky to bother with. Instead of a thin body you could die. I would much rather live chubby than die to be thin. And yes, being a chubby girl has its heartbreak, - guys running when they meet you cuz your "big". Whatever. they are not worth it. In the long run, everyone gets lumpy and bumpy. Just take a look around at the 50+ group. Those thin pretties won't be that way 4 ever and those guys that disregard you now won't look so hot in 20 years. Just always remember that beauty will FADE, but a personality can only improve like fine aged wine. Hang in there, we're gonna be OK : )


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 15, 2006 09:58

well Pink, I do recal reading somewhere that Marilyn Monroe was an 18 and she was a 10 of her day. Too bad you're on the other side of the pond lol


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 28, 2006 02:52

hey pinkandfluffy i kno an understand wat ur goin through, u joke wiv em be witty cute humerous an they think ur sumone else until they see ur pic an think u were gonna b sum model or sumthin,lol. just think of it this way whooeva dnt bother wiv u is just missing out on wat could b the best thing eva 2 happen 2them. THIER LOSS LARGEFRIENDS GAIN x


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 25, 2006 07:02

couldn't agree more pink! size has never been an issue with me.


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