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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jan 26, 2009 08:25

I've read here and other places that larger women are better in bed!! Ladies, why do you think that perception exists?? Is it founded or is it an urban legend?? Gentlemen, are larger women really better in bed? I'd like to hear the point of view of your gender on that. Afterall you're the ones with the data for comparaison. lol


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Oct 01, 2009 04:38

Adding my two cents. It is that skinny women are usually takers. It's all about them. often it's plastic. With real woman there is a passion, an openness. When we have gotten past the words and the clothing. Revealed ourselves for who we really are. Had some one ellse scrutininze our bodies and desire us. That's where larger women blossom. you give what was asked and then so much more. There is so much more I want to say but should not.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Feb 25, 2009 06:30

Me personally i like thick females myself. Petite women always hold me back but the big girls dont..... LOL

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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 16, 2009 18:16

Well at least i think they are besides it is proven that while having sex with a large woman, more of the hormone that is causing the pleasure feeling is freed. i am dutch so couldn't come up with the english word i meant although it is at the tip of my tongue lol.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Feb 07, 2009 10:40

i wish i had a woman .... but big woman are very sexy they are sweet an soft to love plus they know how to love there man


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Feb 06, 2009 06:48

Quoting Beintalon:

YAY! My two cents! I love giving my two cents... must be a Leo thing... Anyway... On the basis of generality I would have to agree with ozredhead62! Now that's on the basis of generality. What do I mean? Ohh goodie... more chance to talk! Here goes... Have you ever been with someone and their more like a pillow in bed then a person? They just don't really seem to care if your getting yours and just lay there ( or roboticly thrust... case dependent)? Yea.. I was with a woman like that... not the super skinny walking skeletons you see plastered all over every flat surface for rent or sale... but certainly not abundant in anything but her fulfilling her own interests. She was like... well I mean... she sucked. It was horrible and not really pleasurable or enjoyable at all! Now on the flip side of that I've had other experiences where my partner was a little on the fluffy side. (Loves me 'da fluffies!) She was just amazing! Outstanding and memorable! AND NOT JUST IN BED! Now.. I don't think it's so much size related as it is experience related. As ozredhead62 mentioned, Fluffy women have learned to turn their attention outwards. Now if it be from the need to be accepted for who and what they are or because they're all ready comfortable with who and what they are it all boils down to two major reasons... from my standpoint anyway. One: They KNOW from previous EXPERIENCE what it's like to be judged for appearance only. To be thought of as less then perfect just because their appearance doesn't fit with the normal 'I can slip through floor board cracks' definition of beauty. Bah! Two: Because of reason #1 (one) they are more receptive to OTHERS needs/wants/desires. They themselves have learned to look beyond the physical and into deeper and actually meaningful recesses of the human soul. I myself know I hate being discriminated against for whatever reason...(usually because I'm white living in a largely hispanic, spanish speaking population) So why would I want to subject someone else to that kind of hurt? Same applies here... They know what it's like being thought of in a negative form. Why would they do so to another person? To sum it up... Yes.. I too believe fluffy women are better in bed. But not for any physical aspects of ability and experience... But because of their usually elevated mental acuity and stronger moral compass gained from their own trials and tribulations.


Hey there Beintalon from one Leo to another.¿

¿

Yes I know, it is a Leo thing, but these lovely people here are so forgiving, they have put up with my cents and more for a long time now. he he

¿

Have to say if you are going to give us your two cents worth in this manner, then I think we need to rob a bank to make sure you are all cashed up.¿ LOL

¿

Nicely put, good to have you here and sharing your views, keep them coming.



Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Feb 04, 2009 07:23

Truefriendinme

I understand what you are saying but it doesn't explain the perception that fluffy women are the best in bed.¿ Why do you think that is??



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 03, 2009 22:32

Beintalon ... where have you been hiding?!¿ I'm still LOL over 'I can slip through floor board cracks' defenition of beauty ... Thanks! :D



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 03, 2009 22:07

Petale: Nope! I'll keep my answer the same. I belive that by the time I am in bed with someone, that I have already developed a strong sense of trust with him. I'm not one to jump into the sack unless I can trust someone with me--all of me, including my heart. So, ultimately, what we look like naked won't matter. Good luck--True


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 03, 2009 10:00

Beintalon, you say "she sucked" in bed like that's a bad thing......?? LOLOL


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 03, 2009 08:57

Truefriendinme.

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I agree, it's about heart and soul.¿ But isn't our heart and soul, in a way, shaped because of our body, because of our perception of ourselves,¿and how other people see and judge¿us.¿ Isn't it shaped by the rejections of our appearance.¿ I think it influences the building of personality and attitude...

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It does become a question of size, because size shapes who we are inside and outside.¿



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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 03, 2009 08:53

Ladies we've found a man that can write, express complex thoughts and talk about emotions.¿ Quick, grab him and tie him up so he won't escape... hehehehehe

¿

Benintalon

¿

You are right it's not a question of size, but attitude.¿ I also believe that fluffy women (as you say and I kind of like it) because they are judge on appearance tend to be more open when someone doesn't.¿ Finding someone who won't judge you because he likes you the way you look is¿like finding a spot where you feel safe to express everything within.

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I also believe that because we are not usually men's first choice, it makes us more enthousiastic when we do.¿ Kind of like putting in practice things we've fantasized about and as we don't know how long it will last, we get the most out of it.¿

¿

Finally, again because of our appearance, we spend more time being nice, intelligent, developping our personality more then taking care of our cellulite.¿ What's the point in trying to fix a lost cause. hehehehehe

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Keep on writing dear!!



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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 02, 2009 21:41

I agree with Island. Size isn't important in bed.(Get your heads out of the gutters, people! I meant BODY size! lol!) It's what's in the heart and mind that counts. --True


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Feb 02, 2009 20:24

YAY! My two cents! I love giving my two cents... must be a Leo thing... Anyway... On the basis of generality I would have to agree with ozredhead62! Now that's on the basis of generality. What do I mean? Ohh goodie... more chance to talk! Here goes... Have you ever been with someone and their more like a pillow in bed then a person? They just don't really seem to care if your getting yours and just lay there ( or roboticly thrust... case dependent)? Yea.. I was with a woman like that... not the super skinny walking skeletons you see plastered all over every flat surface for rent or sale... but certainly not abundant in anything but her fulfilling her own interests. She was like... well I mean... she sucked. It was horrible and not really pleasurable or enjoyable at all! Now on the flip side of that I've had other experiences where my partner was a little on the fluffy side. (Loves me 'da fluffies!) She was just amazing! Outstanding and memorable! AND NOT JUST IN BED! Now.. I don't think it's so much size related as it is experience related. As ozredhead62 mentioned, Fluffy women have learned to turn their attention outwards. Now if it be from the need to be accepted for who and what they are or because they're all ready comfortable with who and what they are it all boils down to two major reasons... from my standpoint anyway. One: They KNOW from previous EXPERIENCE what it's like to be judged for appearance only. To be thought of as less then perfect just because their appearance doesn't fit with the normal 'I can slip through floor board cracks' definition of beauty. Bah! Two: Because of reason #1 (one) they are more receptive to OTHERS needs/wants/desires. They themselves have learned to look beyond the physical and into deeper and actually meaningful recesses of the human soul. I myself know I hate being discriminated against for whatever reason...(usually because I'm white living in a largely hispanic, spanish speaking population) So why would I want to subject someone else to that kind of hurt? Same applies here... They know what it's like being thought of in a negative form. Why would they do so to another person? To sum it up... Yes.. I too believe fluffy women are better in bed. But not for any physical aspects of ability and experience... But because of their usually elevated mental acuity and stronger moral compass gained from their own trials and tribulations.


Be That of strong will within a world that inspires weakness, for weakness breeds fear, and fear destroys all. - Self

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 31, 2009 20:27

Bill.¿ We weren't talking about mature women, even though I get your point... we were talking about the fact that some men say larger women are the best in bed.¿ Reality or urban legend or are they just trying to get in the pants of larger women. LOL



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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jan 31, 2009 17:34

well,to me there is nothing more erotic than a mature woman[or,mature for her age] who is confident in her sexuality,knows what she wants,isnt afraid to pursue it and communicate her desires .

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jan 29, 2009 05:18

I personally don't like to think that any one person or one type of person is and better or worse in bed than the next. For me, it can only be at its best when the chemistry is there - one partner can only be "good" if the other is responding/participating too. It takes two to tango, lol, regardless of build!


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jan 28, 2009 17:24

Given the limited data set that I have to work with that is a good question.(Sorry Don't have the morals of an alley cat) But myself as a guy I have to say I prefer A larger Woman. Not one of the wafer thin twiggy ribs sticking you in the face models one see's plastered on the cover of most so called fashion magazines . For me the reason I prefer a larger(Real) woman is that when you are close together the physcal warmth and feeling (just feels softer)that a larger woman has far exceeds the Hardness and lack of Physcal warmth a Svelte twiggy super model type has. Besides seeing all those ribs stareing me in the face makes me hungry for BBQ. which would blow my diet.lol


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jan 28, 2009 12:13

I too would have to say YES....if they are confident enough with their bodies.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jan 27, 2009 21:17

Actually Ozredhead I've given it some thought too and some of my conclusions draw from you input. In my case, I'm comfortable in my skin and don't feel the need to hide my body or my needs. Let's face it, if he finds me attractive all dressed, he will when I'm naked. It's not as if I gain 50 pounds when I undress. He knows I'm overweight. There will be no shock!!!! I've talked with friends about this and I've discovered that even though I'm not at all what the beauty cannons say I should be, I'm less self concious about my body then a lot of thin women are. I also think it has to do with the fact that my confidence is not at all in my physical appearance. I've spent my life feeling I wasn't attractive, so I based my attractiveness on other things, intelligence, style, charm, being nice. I'm not saying thin women are stupid or bitches, but I think their confidence is more into their appearance thus more pressure to have the perfect body. I know my body is not perfect, so I'm not afraid. The guy doesn't want to jump my bone because my body is perfect, he wants to because he likes my personality, my type of sex appeal, the way I can charm him. In a certain way, I feel free because he doesn't want me for my body. Now, feeling free to express my sexuality, to be passionate, from what I've heard, big turn on for guys. Finally, and I'm being brutally honest here, whether we like it or not, we don't attract men as much as thin women. We do enjoy it so much more when we do get one... If a guy tells me I'm beautiful he's getting a big reward, because it's a rare occurence. But even if I'm wrong on all this, I'm a larger women, I've been told that my prouesses in bed are memorable... and I say we are the best.


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