Hey just thought I would share, Dr Phil website has some interesting stuff posted under message boards about the whole online dating thing and things to look out for etc. Just thought I would pass it on to anyone interested in checking it out! Ciao
What is love...................
Love is loyal.
Love is wanting the best for the other person.
Love is compromising and working things out in a way that you both can win.
Love is finding common ground.
Love is trying to come together in a way that makes the world a better place.
Love is selfless.
Love is caring about the other person?s emotional needs and feelings.
What is lust................
Lust is self-gratification.
Lust can be obsessive.
Lust is usually tied to sexual gratification.
Lust is selfish.
Lust doesn?t consider the other persons wants and needs.
Lust doesn?t care about how the other person?s day went.
When someone?s in lust they aren?t interested in meeting family or friends.
Lust is wanting something to the point that you don?t care who gets hurt.
Lust manipulates, destroys and controls.
Lust often involves raging.
People who lusts may think they are in love, but the fire burns out quickly when they get the person or thing they lust for.
Lust doesn?t last, but love does
I say women and I know, I know a lot of you reading this are saying no way but think about it. When your ear itches like crazy and you stick your finger inside to scratch, afterward which feels better your ear or your finger? HA point made! (All tongue and cheek humor I promise) Ciao
The Dr. Phil show is looking for people who have fallen victim to online love scams. Have you lost money and or your heart to a dating con artist? Do you find yourself afraid to date again? Do you have a family member or friend who thinks they are in love with someone they met online but you think they are being taken advantage of? If you have been or are currently a victim of an online dating scam and you want some help from Dr. Phil, please email us your story. Please only send email if you are willing to appear on the show.
Just thought I would put that out there for anyone who may have been had by one of those bozos. Ciao
Just a random question, who is the movie star, music artist, or whoever that you would just ride off into the sunset with and never look back? Mine is Sam Elliot he just makes me melt every time I see him or a picture of him especially the western shots mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm what a hottie! So, who's your hottie?
Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.
Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.
Instead, they sometimes take the apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy to get. The apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.
Now Men.... Men are like a fine wine. They begin as grapes,
and it's up to women to stomp the crap out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
(I thought it was pretty good)
Here is a sample one for you to get an idea...........
I, __________________________, being of sound mind and body, do
not wish to be kept alive indefinitely by artificial means.
Under no circumstances should my fate be put in the hands of
pinhead politicians who couldn't pass ninth-grade biology if their lives depended on it. Nor in the hands of lawyers/doctors who are interested simply in running up the bills.
If a reasonable amount of time passes and I fail to ask for at
least one of the following:
Bloody Mary,Margarita, Scotch and soda, Martini, Vodka and Tonic, steak, lobster or crab legs, the remote control, bowl of ice cream,
chocolate,and most importantly SEX ...it should be presumed that I won't ever get better.
When such a determination is reached, I hereby instruct my
appointed person and attending physicians to pull the plug, reel in the tubes and
call it a day.
At this point, it is time to call a New Orleans Jazz Funeral
Band to come do their thing at my funeral, and ask all of my friends to raise their glasses to toast the good times we have had.
Saw this on a website and thought it was kida cool.........
What a Woman Wants
Some want a man she Loves
Some want a man that Loves her
A content woman is expecting both
A few want it all
But most want it small
Simple ... somewhat discrete
Exclusive ... but forever concrete
Yea, I'm pretty sure
She wants her love to be pure
After purity comes security
Room to expand her ability
Hmmm ... what she requests
Is a love without guest
And without bullet proof vests around her heart
Where she's seen as a 'Work of art'
Connected, yet apart
From the chaos and the work place
Where her soul is first place
Instead of living the worst case scenario
Like a play toy
A baby mother
Victim of a lady lover
Is what she wants not ...
By a thread holding on
Trampled by a rolling stone
She would rather be alone
She wants to heal and be healed
She wants to love and be loved
She wants good conversation
That gives confirmation
Of her desire to go higher
And her need to exceed.
What does one have to do the just meet up with someone who can just tell it like it is? I had been corresponding with someone from this site and we were supposed to meet this past weekend. We spoke on the phone a couple times he said he would call me and work out the details of when and where but never did. In the meantime I had my friends that I was going to visit on hold for plans on the weekend because this person said he wanted to meet. There is nothing wrong with changing your mind on that, that?s what the emails and phone calls are about is getting to know a person and deciding if you want to take that next step. My beef is that the jerk could not even be courteous or straight forward enough to tell me that he had for whatever reason changed his mind, so that I could make other plans for the day. Then yesterday I got to meet a nice man from a different site I am on. We had a great lunch talked about life and how wrong infidelity is etc etc. Well imagine this, today I get a call from his live in g/f stating he has been with her 4 years and to please not email him again. Cha like that is likely to happen now that I know what a lying cheating snake he is!!!!!!!!!!! Perhaps that?s what happened with the first fellow; maybe the little wifey poo had made plans for the weekend. I just get tired of game playing, I respect people who put it up front that they are married or just looking for a booty call (not saying it right) at least its not a waste of my time to only find that out later on. I had joined this to meet local people in an area I just moved to, not be a booty call for them. I also don?t want to get some romance going with some hot model guy in Nigeria who will profess his love after 4 or 5 emails if only I would send him the money to come and meet me. I am not so sure that meeting people through these sort of sights are a good idea, what do you think? Am I way off?
Hey all I feel lost on this whole game of dating. It's been a while since I have been in the game and feel a little lost on the whole process. I have learned that when a guy asks you how you like your eggs in the morning, the correct answer is not unfertilized (oops my bad)LOL. It's all trial and error I suppose and good sense of humor to get through it all. Ciao 4 now!