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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 04, 2007 19:43

Ok, so I headed back to work today after being out due to the surgery. And I can't go into the details of why returning is so stressful but I'm proud of myself for not letting them cause me to shed a tear. I'm trying to practice what I've learned with the The Secret CD's or as people know it as the law of attraction and I'm fading fast. My ankle is almost as good as it was before the accident and you would think I would be worried about that, but it's the people I can't really get away from (at this moment) that is causing me issues. I've prayed, I've asked people to pray for me and I've tried to say that I was having a good day. The day actually wasn't that bad except for the part were I've been placed in exile from everyone. And yes that's a blessing in disguised but at the same time who likes to be alienated? How do you stay positive and attract good things to you when there is so much sadness to clear out?


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 18, 2008 22:43

Hey nodrama, how are you? What's the status? Hope this finds you well.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Mar 10, 2008 21:08

Thank you Jayla, I haven't listened to the secret in awhile and I need to do so. One moment I'm good and the next I'm so sad. I'm also a little grumpy.


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Mar 09, 2008 00:31

Hi again. I've recently watch the secret and I'm learning daily how to put the law of attraction into effect. When I'm down or feeling "not like myself" I like to go to areas that help me feel like myself. For example I love reading. So I'm quick to run to a Borders or Waldens bookstore and surround myself with others that enjoy my passion! Hope that helps.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Dec 11, 2007 17:05

I dont know if you should try the diet or not. But if you do, make sure you are doing it for you, and not what society expects of you. Sometimes we put undo stress on ourselves worrying about what others think or what others would do. Do you baby, and you will be fine.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Nov 02, 2007 17:29

Re: Dirkdig write: How much for all the toes,,,MMMMMMMMM

Keep saving...WEG


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 29, 2007 18:58

Re: CoverGirl write: Wow! Hehehehehe Re: wyldechild write: Now I think that comment would be more fitting for the lingerie thread. But I know it's hard for some men to contain themselves. But here, think of it this way though: To find a gal to give you a handjob: $20 To find a gal to give you a b-job: $100 Being allowed to kiss just the big toe of my right foot: priceless Re: Dirkdig write: Wylde I would love to see you naked!!!!!!!!!!

I was feeling a bit ornery *wink* LOL


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Oct 27, 2007 12:57

Re: Dirkdig write: Wylde I would love to see you naked!!!!!!!!!!

Now I think that comment would be more fitting for the lingerie thread. But I know it's hard for some men to contain themselves. But here, think of it this way though: To find a gal to give you a handjob: $20 To find a gal to give you a b-job: $100 Being allowed to kiss just the big toe of my right foot: priceless


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Oct 11, 2007 07:03

Just think bumble bee.The so called aircraft "experts say that a Bumble Bee should not be able to fly because the wings do not produce enough lift to fly .Yet it has for eons.buzz buzz.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Oct 08, 2007 13:55

Saw this quote and thought of you. <3 I hope things are getting better for ya. P.S. I need a recpetionist, counter salesperson and AP clerk. Interested in re-locating? ;-) "Success is not to be measured by the position someone has reached in life, but the obstacles [she] has overcome while trying to succeed." Booker T. Washington


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Oct 06, 2007 10:18

jm1988 write: There once was a bunch of tiny frogs,... ... who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants... The race began... Honestly: No one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as: "Oh, WAY too difficult!!" "They will NEVER make it to the top." or: "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!" The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one... ... Except for those who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher... The crowd continued to yell "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!" More tiny frogs got tired and gave up... ...But ONE continued higher and higher and higher... This one wouldn't give up! At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who after a big effort was the only one who reached the top! THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it? A contestant asked the tiny frog how the one who succeeded had found the strength to reach the goal? It turned out... That the winner was DEAF!!!! The wisdom of this story is: Never listen to other people's tendencies to be negative or pessimistic... ...cause they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you. The ones you have in your heart! Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions! Therefore: ALWAYS be...

well said..I just read that negativity is contagious before my puter crashed :( hang in there!!!
jm1988 write: There once was a bunch of tiny frogs,... ... who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd had gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants... The race began... Honestly: No one in crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. You heard statements such as: "Oh, WAY too difficult!!" "They will NEVER make it to the top." or: "Not a chance that they will succeed. The tower is too high!" The tiny frogs began collapsing. One by one... ... Except for those who in a fresh tempo were climbing higher and higher... The crowd continued to yell "It is too difficult!!! No one will make it!" More tiny frogs got tired and gave up... ...But ONE continued higher and higher and higher... This one wouldn't give up! At the end everyone else had given up climbing the tower. Except for the one tiny frog who after a big effort was the only one who reached the top! THEN all of the other tiny frogs naturally wanted to know how this one frog managed to do it? A contestant asked the tiny frog how the one who succeeded had found the strength to reach the goal? It turned out... That the winner was DEAF!!!! The wisdom of this story is: Never listen to other people's tendencies to be negative or pessimistic... ...cause they take your most wonderful dreams and wishes away from you. The ones you have in your heart! Always think of the power words have. Because everything you hear and read will affect your actions! Therefore: ALWAYS be... POSITIVE! And above all: Be DEAF when people tell YOU that YOU can not fulfil YOUR dreams!well said..I just read that negativity is contagious before my puter crashed :( hang in there!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 25, 2007 20:36

Good luck Nodrama on the job prospects.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Sep 24, 2007 19:17

Re: nodramaaroundme write: It's been tough but I've posted for 2 jobs and have my eye on posting for another 2. I'm learning to laugh at their stupidity. Wylde it's a little scary to picture the ring leader w/o clothes but just the thought of doing it makes me laugh so it's helping. But between work and physical therapy, I've been so tired I can hardly stay awake to prepare for bed once I hit the door. I had a pretty good day today too. I had on a red shirt and my az slapping jeans. I got a few winks and waves. Thanks everyone for being there for me. Carmel, I hope your leg and new job (positive thinking) is going good for you.

Hello lady!!! Good to hear from you. We been missin' ya, all of us wondering how you've been doing. Yay for you on looking for a new job. Sometimes that's the wisest choice, just move on. Cause you know what? There's always something much better out there!!! I will do a "get a fabu new job quick" dance for you *wink*


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 21, 2007 19:28

It's been tough but I've posted for 2 jobs and have my eye on posting for another 2. I'm learning to laugh at their stupidity. Wylde it's a little scary to picture the ring leader w/o clothes but just the thought of doing it makes me laugh so it's helping. But between work and physical therapy, I've been so tired I can hardly stay awake to prepare for bed once I hit the door. I had a pretty good day today too. I had on a red shirt and my az slapping jeans. I got a few winks and waves. Thanks everyone for being there for me. Carmel, I hope your leg and new job (positive thinking) is going good for you.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 19, 2007 18:16

Its been a couple of weeks now Nodrama. Give us an update. Are things getting any better for you? You know we've got your back... :D


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Sep 18, 2007 11:12

Sis, I know it's not easy. Life isn't. But take a moment to be thankful for the little things. Even being alienated. Just think, they can't get on your nerves when they leave you alone! LOL! It is my prayer that things get better for you and they will, just keep believing that. You can't stay positive 24/7, no one can. Even Jesus had his moments! Smile whenever you can, that helps my mood. And also, be careful, not everyone you ask to pray for you should. Take care!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Sep 17, 2007 12:42

Trying to stay positive is what i am trying to do, i know i am big and sexy as hell but the pressures of society are surrounding me, suffocating me, i think i will be going on a diet starting tomorrow, i mean i know i am fine as hell, i am smart ,a good person and i have a sweet personality but damn every channel i turned to this morning was about how happy skinny people are, i have never ever been skinny but damn could being skinny make people that happy,should i try to find out? juicy


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Sep 16, 2007 08:20

I am glad that you made it through your first week. Sorry that it sucked. But then again, how many of us are in a work environment or position where it does not suck to go to work? Remember too, that it is not unusual that there is some buzz in the office about you,--good and bad,--since you were out for a while. That's just how people are. I always think that it is best to acknowledge your feelings when you are feeling angry, depressed or disappointed. That seems to help get some of the negative feelings out of your system. Then do what you need to do to make yourself feel better about being at work. Remember that working is something that you have to do in order to get some of the things that you need in life: shelter, food, internet access. Act as if things are how you want them to be. Demonstrate a positive attitude...outwardly, at least. And I agree with not letting them see you break down or show that they are getting to you. I hope that the next week is better and that all of those that follow are even better than the one before. See ya!!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Sep 15, 2007 18:30

Okay, this may sound dorky but imagine the people who give you stress naked. I've done it many times at work and believe me, the questioning looks I get from having a huge grin on my face, well, I can't tell you how immensely evil and happy I feel. The one thing to remember is that you are more important than they are and that there are people who know that. Like us!!! I am glad to hear you made it through your first week back though!! I think if you put the people that don't appreciate you off the list, see them as insignificant in a way, maybe it will help keep them in perspective. Trying too hard sometimes to focus on goals, dreams, etc. can sometimes be too difficult. And yes, it is way OK to admit when you are hurt and sad!!! I forget that myself quite often. Hugs to you!!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Sep 12, 2007 12:35

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