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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Jul 26, 2007 15:26

I was reading a blog and got this thought, are some men only looking for someone to protect,save,take care of and feel macho about? Are some women interested only in a man that will be a savior? Do we each misinterpret the signs? Do we fall into the social issues that the cave men used, hit her on the head and drag her away. OOOO come and take me away you big hunk !!! I wonder how much each of us has inside that yearns for a knight to come along on a huge horse to whisk her away. I also wonder how many men feel we women really want that deep down and just never say it? We are not helpless - men can clean the bathroom and do their own wash. Women can use tools to fix things, change light bulbs and clear a clogged drain. BUT - I sure would like some arms around me while I jump to the sound of thunder. I love a thunder storm but some loving arms will be welcome. What are the gender roles that we all want? I'm curious again.. Natalie 32132


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 13, 2007 17:26

Lady Wow, that describes many I've met also !!! Nat Re: ladyhawke1 write: Every time I think I've found my knight in shining armor, its just another loser wrapped up in aluminum foil. Enough said!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 13, 2007 16:16

Re: butterbll write: What does a dragon call a night in shining Armour ? Lunch, if the dragon is Lucky!

Ha Ha!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 13, 2007 16:15

Re: bigtom77 write: I came across this thread late but want to revive it so to speak. I can see where y'all are coming from. Most of you want the Knight but you want him to include you in his Dragon killing. You want to be desired and wanted but at the same time you want to be the equal to him. I think I got this right anyway, and see nothing wrong with that. The only problem with this is where is the line and how should we know when we cross it? Maybe bizzle has more of a point then he thinks, Knight in tarnished armor- sweeps you off your feet then lets you take the lead till needed again.

Wow!! Very insightful. The line varies from lady to lady so it is hard to tell where it may lie. The only thing you can do is get to know her and communicate. If she's any good at that she'll tell you where the line is.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 13, 2007 11:01

What does a dragon call a night in shining Armour ? Lunch, if the dragon is Lucky!


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Dec 13, 2007 10:57

Hey I Am too busy jousting at Dragons and or windmills


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 12, 2007 05:27

Every time I think I've found my knight in shining armor, its just another loser wrapped up in aluminum foil. Enough said!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Dec 12, 2007 01:41

I came across this thread late but want to revive it so to speak. I can see where y'all are coming from. Most of you want the Knight but you want him to include you in his Dragon killing. You want to be desired and wanted but at the same time you want to be the equal to him. I think I got this right anyway, and see nothing wrong with that. The only problem with this is where is the line and how should we know when we cross it? Maybe bizzle has more of a point then he thinks, Knight in tarnished armor- sweeps you off your feet then lets you take the lead till needed again.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Aug 11, 2007 14:10

I am just looking for that someone that is honest trusting and good communication with no mind games

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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Aug 05, 2007 20:19

Re: johnnywa write: It is all too common for women in general to want the knight. Makes it hard for us good guys that are not type A personality's to make inroads with this type of woman. Really narrows the field.

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jul 31, 2007 10:45

I think its all about balance. I want someone who will be there for me and make me feel safe when I feel weak, but I'm definitely a person who will do the same when the tables have turned. I will admit that I can be kind of a girl girl, overly sensitive, prone to worry, and I do like the presence of a strong male figure to reassure me. But I think asking for a relationship of mutual support and security is not necessarily opening the door to traditional and structured gender roles. I've made myself into a pretty independent person and I never want to lose that independence so I would definitely not want a guy to come in the picture and change me. I would not like to be with a controlling man, but I'd also not like to be with a man who is going nowhere.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jul 30, 2007 20:10

sorry, but my armour is slightly tarnished muah ha haaaa


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jul 29, 2007 20:34

Re: Thunderheart44 write: Oh Wylde who are you kidding your just begging to be taken and dominated,manhandled by strong and experienced hands.I think more women than not have that fantasy of being swept off their feet by a big strong knight on his gallant steed,bringing out the woman deep inside of them that longs to be devoured !!

ROFLMAO!!!!!!! Maybe just once but only if they do it exactly how I tell them to...he he he. The knight in shining armour saving a women has been propagated mostly by, bet you'll never guess...MEN!!! Women are taught to be the soft ones, the weak ones, blah, blah, blah. What a crock. Used to be when the world was in it's right mind, women were at the pinnacle of society.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 23:34

Oh Wylde who are you kidding your just begging to be taken and dominated,manhandled by strong and experienced hands.I think more women than not have that fantasy of being swept off their feet by a big strong knight on his gallant steed,bringing out the woman deep inside of them that longs to be devoured !!


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 21:04

Re: Nisi32132 write: Wyldchild, YES I totally agree - I would like a knight in shining Armour to sweep me off my feet from time to time,never full time taking me away from life. That's what my dad did - he protected me from life because he was a dad of a "baby girl". It made it difficult later in life to learn how life really works. Daddy didn't realize it, he just loved me and wanted to "protect me". Thanks for the compliment on the blog topics. I am inspired by what I read here. Many of your's and Honey's and Jiggi - just so many bloggers here are fabulous !! Natalie 32132

My dad was pretty much the opposite. I had free reign to explore the world in many ways. Of course not as a free radical mind you, but intellectually, spiritually, socially, etc. Being a free radical I had to develop for myself...he he he Yuppers, bits and pieces of interesting info certainly does flit among these pages...*wink*...LOL


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 15:07

I must admit, I love having my knight, I love having a man that spoils me. I love that we each have things to do for the other. I love spoiling him, because he returns it. I love knowing that I have him in my corner during the storms, during whatever rough times come up. I don't depend on him so much as I depend on God to put the right people in my life during the bad spots. I am in love with a wonderful man that enjoys being my protector and I enjoy him in that role. He is a sexy cross between Michael Clark Duncan and Will Downing - just a sexy piece of chocolate. He is a great cook, can take care of himself and others and he had to while I was ill for the past few years (bad leg and unable to walk on it much). I am now getting back to me, active and moving and I am enjoying being there to cook and take care of him now. My believe is sometimes one of you in a relationship has to carry the bigger of the load, but in a good relationship it always balances itself out. I am blessed that I have parents that raised me to be strong and to know what a healthy relationship is, give and take. No one taking all the time, but each doing a share and my boyfriends parents did the same for him, so for us it works.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 10:32

Why thankyou! You have started some fun topics! I am thrilled that so many folks are chiming in, having fun, starting threads etc...brings more life to the blogs and makes it even more fun. I love it when the guys get brave and put a thread out there too...we may need to coax them a bit...


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 06:37

the problem with nights in shining armor: they're always looking for someone to save... and they always fall for the one that won't love them back.


In your rocking-chair, by your window dreaming, shall you long, alone. In your rocking-chair, by your window, shall you dream such happiness as you may never feel. –Theodore Dreiser

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Jul 28, 2007 06:08

Wyldchild, YES I totally agree - I would like a knight in shining Armour to sweep me off my feet from time to time,never full time taking me away from life. That's what my dad did - he protected me from life because he was a dad of a "baby girl". It made it difficult later in life to learn how life really works. Daddy didn't realize it, he just loved me and wanted to "protect me". Thanks for the compliment on the blog topics. I am inspired by what I read here. Many of your's and Honey's and Jiggi - just so many bloggers here are fabulous !! Natalie 32132 Re: wyldechild write: You have some great blog topics, I am enjoying reading them. I am of many minds. In all of my significant relationships I was the one that almost always handled the finances, social events, the household, the kids, etc. I wholly believe in men serving women, be it at home, within their sex life or in all walks of life and most of my relationships have been of the nature to some degree or another. I also love romance and being swept off my feet. Even being "rescued" when life gets me down or stressed. But not rescued from life though...LOL. A knight in shining armour...I love the thought...but for some reason I get the feeling I'd be the one slaying dragons...LOL. He would be there to kiss my wounds...


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jul 27, 2007 22:21

You have some great blog topics, I am enjoying reading them. I am of many minds. In all of my significant relationships I was the one that almost always handled the finances, social events, the household, the kids, etc. I wholly believe in men serving women, be it at home, within their sex life or in all walks of life and most of my relationships have been of the nature to some degree or another. I also love romance and being swept off my feet. Even being "rescued" when life gets me down or stressed. But not rescued from life though...LOL. A knight in shining armour...I love the thought...but for some reason I get the feeling I'd be the one slaying dragons...LOL. He would be there to kiss my wounds...


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