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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 13, 2006 12:33

well here is my situation i have benn on the dating scene for quite a few years and resently i THOUGHT i met the one, well him and i got married a few months ago and well. he is not the person i thought he was lets just put it this way he is serving 9 months in prison he wants me to stnd by him but how can i stand by someone who has lied about everything in his life up to this point after he was there for a few days i started to get phone call and meesages on his phone from other women and he ays that they are just friends or girls he talked to before we met but ????? how can i trust anything that comes out of his mouth, then i have had two men that were in my past just pop up and well both wanting something with me and both cliaming to love me and well one is very financially stable and well the other is quite hot but i am tired of all the games and lies and well my life was alot less complicate when i was alone. but i hate that alone feeling. i do love my husband in some wierd way i think i would not of marrried him if i didn't but i am so confused please if someone out there has some really good advice please help me


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Sep 26, 2008 12:23

Hello Jennifer, It is time to choose for yourself and become independent of this feeling of wanting to be commited to anyone. Embrase life, be free and with the idea 'I do not regret'....


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, May 23, 2006 07:46

Hey Jen, I know exactly what you are going through back in 1995 I married what i thought was the sweetest man on this planet. After barely 3 months of being married i found out he was a liar, cheater, he stole money from me. He did end up in jail and i tried to stand behind him. I got a new job and started feeling better about myself and realized i didnt need him or his crap. I divorced him while he was in jail. I just figured why should i be in a marriage with someone so wrong for me. I know people get married to be together forever but then its not our fault the person is not who they said they were. Dont feel bad do what u think is right. i am now engaged to a nice guy who is not a liar or a convicted felon. Have faith and if u need someone to chat with im here. hugs take care Lisa


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, May 22, 2006 20:43

Hi Jen - I've been a member for a couple weeks now and always read blogs but never replied to them - until now. I feel compelled to share my thoughts. I'm recently separated from a my husband of 3 years. He cheated on me a year and a half ago. I forgave him and tried to continue our relationship, but whenever he was late, or I found out he wasn't where he said he said he would be, I thought the worst. Once trust is broken it's hard to earn it back. It sounds like there are many factors in your situation and you should think long and hard about your relationship with your husband. Personally, I would suggest resolving those issues before pursuing anything serious with another man. You have to go with what you know is best for you. Deep down in your heart, you know what is best for you. Best wishes! Hugs! ~Heather


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, May 21, 2006 15:48

Hi Jen, I know exactly what you are going through. I know how it is to be lied to, cheated on, abused, etc. You name it, I have been through it. Staying with someone because you are afraid to be alone is the wrong reason. I stayed with someone for 12 years and finally woke up and realized that things never get better, they only get worse. I know that it is hard and that nobody understands why you stay, but believe me I do. Keep your head up, and decide what will make you happy.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, May 13, 2006 17:42

Sweetie, I understand how confused you must feel now, but when it comes down to it, only you can make the decision upon whom to choose. You will have to live with whatever choice you make. If it helps, write down each man's name and all the good and bad things you feel about them. Then do a lot of thinking about each one. After all that, imagine where you will be in five or ten years from now? Will you still be wondering if your husband is cheating on you? How about your feelings for the other guys? Who do you think you will be most happy and secure with? Only you can make that choice in the end. Follow your heart and mind and find the best choice for you. I wish you all the luck and love in the world. Laura


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, May 13, 2006 17:29

Hi Jen First,let me say thank you very much for returning the wink that I had sent you a few days ago. It sounds like you have a decision to make in the near future hun. Do you stay with and by your man knowing that he has lied and possibly cheated on you; or do you do the actual best thing and move on with your life. It is amazing how and what we will put up with because we care for someone, all the while we are being betrayed in the process. Unfortunately, there are no easy answers but I would like to chat with you if possible. You sound like a very caring person and d man in moval at ya oo is were you can find me. I hope that soon you can overcome that feeling of loneliness you talked about. Derek


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