Zitiert von MISOZI:

I often thought that us big women are less desirable to men due to our physical appearance. Thats when i was younger. i now look at the person inside but much more. I still look for the traditional values in a man but there are a lot of hard working women nowadays, who are successful and as a result we no longer look for a man to take careof our every need, and become our provider, but can we just accept anyone fairly presentable? Can we actually respect a partner if things we value as desirable are lacking in them? Can we actually fall in love with someone who we are struggling to respect? is there a balance or compromise to this. am 41 and struggling to find a man i can genuinely fall for.

I often thought that us big women are less desirable to men due to our physical appearance. Thats when i was younger. i now look at the person inside but much more. I still look for the traditional values in a man but there are a lot of hard working women nowadays, who are successful and as a result we no longer look for a man to take careof our every need, and become our provider, but can we just accept anyone fairly presentable? Can we actually respect a partner if things we value as desirable are lacking in them? Can we actually fall in love with someone who we are struggling to respect? is there a balance or compromise to this. am 41 and struggling to find a man i can genuinely fall for.

Zitiert von Darkangel64:

Trust and respect is the core to any relationship, dont settle for less girl. No one should, will only end in disappointment for one of you. It has to be mutual.

Trust and respect is the core to any relationship, dont settle for less girl. No one should, will only end in disappointment for one of you. It has to be mutual.

Zitiert von MISOZI:

thank you flashgirl.

thank you flashgirl.

Zitiert von flashgirl:

You said it all, as a young girl i alway's wished that the popular people would really see the real me, they didn't which was their loss. But my taste has changed in the guys that i look at, I know now that i need a man who is as independent as i am but then again i am a girl who gets girly at times so patient shoulders and a wicked sence of humor is top knotch for me, plus i am looking for someone who is a bit more grounded then i am since i tend to live by the seat of my pants. good luck in your search for mr. right, i pray that have met mine... from this site. you are a very beautiful woman and you deserve the world.

You said it all, as a young girl i alway's wished that the popular people would really see the real me, they didn't which was their loss. But my taste has changed in the guys that i look at, I know now that i need a man who is as independent as i am but then again i am a girl who gets girly at times so patient shoulders and a wicked sence of humor is top knotch for me, plus i am looking for someone who is a bit more grounded then i am since i tend to live by the seat of my pants. good luck in your search for mr. right, i pray that have met mine... from this site. you are a very beautiful woman and you deserve the world.