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Posted on Jun 13, 2006 at 06:10 AM

I joined this sight because of its name LARGE friends, but the amount of women out there still look at me funny is staggering. In the big scheme of things I?m far from the biggest, and it would be nice to get someone who will look at me for the person I am inside, who is warm, loving, cracking sense of humor, and a lot of love to give! I don?t know it may be this is the same for you ladies?

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Posted on Aug 28, 2006 at 07:22 AM

Hey there mate, i would have to say that big men are very attractive. I suppose my biggest gripe with any man is whether they can hold a conversation and make me laugh. Big men seem to have the monopoly on a Good sense of Humour, Also I am yet to meet a skinny man who can cuddle and make me feel like he really enjoys the cuddles as much as I do.Anyway if you want a cyber cuddle and are not married then here it comes.....mmmmmm,,,,,,but if your married or involved shame on you, get back to your woman.....*S*

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Posted on Jun 22, 2006 at 05:56 AM

honey you are a john Goodman (rozanne show) and i think he's the cutest white guy in the world, just love those teddy bears keep looking for women like me, theyll find you

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Posted on Jun 21, 2006 at 11:05 AM

I definitely prefer big men. I think they are more manly than small men. You are definitely cute too bad so far away.

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Posted on Jun 21, 2006 at 07:19 AM

actually i think a lot of women like do like bigger men and it a good job really as lots men and women all seem to be getting bigger anyway lol i beleive they say there is some one for every and with northen charm im sure you will find some one soon

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Posted on Jun 21, 2006 at 04:15 AM

I truly think there are a LOT of women who prefer big guys, but I guess a lot of it is geography. Unfortunately, I live in an area (Metro New York City area) where being considered attractive is equated with "being fit". I am VERY athletic for someone my size, so to me, "fit", is just an expression. My problem is finding the right woman. I just got out of a 6 month relationship with a woman half my size who couldn't get enough of me, physically, but her own insecurities caused us to argue and fight literally every 2 weeks! Enough was enough. My previous girlfriend was a BBW who thought I was "all that", until she lost 150 lbs and suddenly... "OMG, I'm dating a fat guy!", and she dumped me. I don't care what anyone says....big women have it MUCH easier than big guys.... but I'd like to meet the woman who will prove me wrong.. ;)

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Posted on Jun 16, 2006 at 04:50 PM

Johnyg, yes, I for one love to be held by a big ole strapping man than a skinny bean pole guy. I feel that being big is just more to love/ care about. Keep your chin up, you will find someone.

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Posted on Jun 15, 2006 at 06:42 PM

Yes! Yes! Yes! Big men are definately my choice, not that I'd shun a man if he was small, but there's nothing like being snuggled by a teddy bear. I just love bigger men. As others have said here, you are VERY attractive! Seems you'd do well if you moved to the states, we all want you! :)

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Posted on Jun 15, 2006 at 05:46 PM

We absolutely do Johnyg. A big man is completely irresistible. Too bad your sooooo far away, your very handsome..***smile***

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Posted on Jun 15, 2006 at 04:03 PM

I like BHM's or larger men. For a fairly simple reason...lol. I don't like feeling like I'm going to break a man in half if things get a little wild. Plain speaking I guess, but, the truth.

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Posted on Jun 15, 2006 at 03:20 PM

Yes!I love big men!

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Posted on Jun 15, 2006 at 03:14 PM

I think a big guy is very attractive, especially if he is well groomed and carries himself with confidence. I once dated a man who was over 400 lbs and next to my current honey, he was the most romantic, beautiful, and adorable man that I have ever met. And he was one of the few big guys that ever showed that he was attracted to me. Just be confident that you are a big, handsome man, --(which you are, by the way)-- and a woman that is worthy of you will come along. You just have to let her know through polite body language that you are interested.

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Posted on Jun 14, 2006 at 10:54 PM

I look at all types of men. What gets me first is the smile and the eye contact. You can tell by a man by his personailty whether he is worth pursuing or not. Warmth, kindness, and yet assertivness is what I look for. And by the way, you are good looking, so hang in there.

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Posted on Jun 14, 2006 at 03:35 PM

Personally, I like a guy with some meat on his bones. I am really attracted to bigger men. My last couple of dates were with a guy who was at least 350-400 pounds. You're not alone though....as a BBW I am constantly given the "look." I'm not sure yet if it is sympathy or disgust, either way though....some people just need to mind their business!!

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Posted on Jun 14, 2006 at 12:01 PM

Be assured Johnyg. You big guys are the ones I notice.A lot of us notice actually. I've always been attracted to big self confident men. So sexy.

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Posted on Jun 13, 2006 at 09:45 PM

There are a lot of nice women here who make great friends and, I'm sure, that some woman might "take a shine" to you. Jusat participate in the discussions and you'll make friends.

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Posted on Jun 13, 2006 at 08:09 PM

I can tell you from experience that it's EXACTLY the same for us. Although I don't get funny looks, I don't get any looks at ALL...it's like I don't even exist! I love all men no matter what their size as long as they're attractive on the inside.

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Posted on Jun 13, 2006 at 06:06 PM

I prefer large guys. You are simply gorgeous!!!!!! Wish you lived near Tennessee~!

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