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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 29, 2007 00:36

Re:bizzle49 write: the billowy tent might make you a slut so be careful with what you buy LOL

LOL - I say go for it Bele. You only live once!


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 29, 2007 00:34

Re:johnnywa write: " They " " House dresses " " Lawn chairs" !!!!!!I am in,,,where do I sign up.

Peircingly loud cracking noise as red kangaroo whip slices the air just above Johnny's head slightly knicking/notching his left ear. Eiiiiowwwww!!! that hurts he cries.


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 27, 2007 18:16

Domme/Dominatrix/Domina/Mistress/Goddess/Lady/etc., it's all good...and don't forget tops, service tops and sadists...mix and match!!! A good dominant will be comfortable with themselves, supportive, caring, patient, creative (an excellent quality), be able to teach as well as learn, explore, have the ability to effectively administer discipline and correction (if that is part of your life) without going overboard, attention to detail, understanding of body language, verbal clues and facial expressions, empathetic, be confident in their abilities but yet understand and accept that mistakes are made. They must understand their submissive more so than they ever would a normal, vanilla partner. The needs of a submissive are often very unique and are extremely important, as important as the needs of the dominant. Of course this is all on top of the normal package of human desires and emotions. Dominants have feelings, fears and emotions just like anyone. Lastly, trust and communication must be in place for any longer term D/s relationship to thrive. No matter how difficult it is to get there. Even short term play requires some level of trust and communication. Of course this doesn't apply to all. But for the vast majority, it does. I think many not familiar with the lifestyle aren't always aware of the intense emotions involved. Yes, often life is just life but they should have the capacity to delve deeper in order to satisfy their needs and the needs of their submissive. And it is about both. Why play with or have a submissive that isn't into what you desire? Or wants to learn of your desires? Yes, they have their kinks, you have yours but for any LTR, they must coincide. Also, there is negotiation, consent, a sharing of feelings and interests. I certainly won't head over to my friend's house and start randomly playing around, at least if it's going to be intense. There is a bit of negotiation that goes on. Often I do whatever I wish but he always knows to some degree what may be in store for him. They cannot be what it is you desire them to be without some knowledge or trust, or both. Your playground, your friend, your lover, your toy, whatever. Over time, as people become familiar with each other and begin pushing limits, negotiations change or come less often. It is very subjective. Me. I love leather. I own leather. I wear leather. But in general when I play, I like shorts and a tank top, I have to be able to breathe!!! Sexy clothing and lingerie is good, being naked rocks. It just all depends on what's in the cards...


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 27, 2007 16:29

the billowy tent might make you a slut so be careful with what you buy LOL


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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Jun 27, 2007 16:17

Re: honeybiscuit write: or in BDSM do they call it a violet wand? Run for your life Bizzle we are breaking out the heard stuff...wartenberg wheel anyone?

Insert the wartenburg wheel into the violet wand and you have a delightfully wicked toy. It is one of my favorite gadgets...*grin*


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jun 26, 2007 21:38

it's DOM for the male and DOMME for the female dominant in any case the submissive will do the dominant's bidding, within agreed parameters, and accept His/Her comfort, training and so forth


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jun 26, 2007 15:43

DOM - Take charge independent woman who knows what she wants and is clear on her expectations both in and out of the bedroom. Leader of the pack who decides the when, the where and the how.... and dictates to the partner. ( although I have to admit I "see" the typical pic of a woman in thigh high boots , wearing leather and brandishing some sort of whip/lashing strap)


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Jun 26, 2007 08:53

*sighs* yes for the most part the latex clad Domme replete with flogger and other sundry toys is usually found on film and the Aunt Bea image is probably more accurate. Wartenberg wheel? owies!!!


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 22:41

or in BDSM do they call it a violet wand? Run for your life Bizzle we are breaking out the hard stuff...wartenberg wheel anyone? Ok so we've taken on slut, and nympho...Since its come up what about Domme or Domina? Seems to me this term may not have unintentional negative conotations. Thoughts? Funny though I suspect that the mass perception of a Domme/Domina is a more of an characterture - the evil sadistic whip cracking woman in a sexy leather corset and thugh high boots than the real life version. A neighbor in the "lifestyle" told me the other day that he plays with housefrau Dommes - he gets naked and they put through his paces while they (yep more than one) sit in lawn chairs in their billowy tent like house dresses and plastic cups of iced tea telling him what to do and smacking him on the butt with yard sticks as he serves them. I recall he used the term Aunt Bea as in Andy Griffith as a descriptor. LOL. Whatever floats your boat. So what's your perception of the dominatrix character? If all this BDSM talk keeps up we may have to move a few threads over to the collarme website and spare the other good folk of LF. lol


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 19:33

You guys are having "way" too much fun. You're a riot - I can count on your posts to make me laugh and give me a few ideas. Insert evil laugh here! :)


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 18:45

Re: honeybiscuit write: With Johnny it would make you a Domme..hehehe.

But I WANNA be a bitch...I wanna, I wanna, I wanna... *sigh*, ok, Domina it is. Who am I to argue??? *wink* So, NOW I can go get the cattle prod and leash???


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 18:39

honeybiscuit write: He would like that cattle prod too much I think - might put a ring in his nose though with a leather leash to lead him with.... ssssh. do you hear that? that is the sound of all hell about to break loose....

he he he, you are quite right, cattle prod might just be too tame, eh? I have a better place for a leash...very, very WEG... All hell break loose, eh??? Well get out the wading pool, the jello and bring it on!!! Wait!!!! Might that be considered a jello salad?


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 13:44

Re: wyldechild write: Re: johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me. I'd do you...*wink*. And since I'm not a slut...that would make me a ???? WEG

With Johnny it would make you a Domme..hehehe.


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Veröffentlicht am Mon, Jun 25, 2007 13:43

Re: wyldechild write: Re: honeybiscuit write: HEY!!! What are you doing out of your cage!?!? Did you jump the fence? Get back in your self imposed exile right this minute! And we are not discussing the term bitch - that is a whole different can of worms. Re:johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me. Hurry, I'll get the cattle prod and you get the rope!!! Meet you 'round back!!! Sometimes I wonder if I'm going to go to h*ll?...hee hee hee

He would like that cattle prod too much I think - might put a ring in his nose though with a leather leash to lead him with.... ssssh. do you hear that? that is the sound of all hell about to break loose....


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 24, 2007 18:30

Re: honeybiscuit write: HEY!!! What are you doing out of your cage!?!? Did you jump the fence? Get back in your self imposed exile right this minute! And we are not discussing the term bitch - that is a whole different can of worms. Re:johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me.

Hurry, I'll get the cattle prod and you get the rope!!! Meet you 'round back!!! Sometimes I wonder if I'm going to go to h*ll?...hee hee hee


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 24, 2007 14:29

Re: johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me.

I'd do you...*wink*. And since I'm not a slut...that would make me a ???? WEG


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 24, 2007 14:28

Re: honeybiscuit write: HEY!!! What are you doing out of your cage!?!? Did you jump the fence? Get back in your self imposed exile right this minute! And we are not discussing the term bitch - that is a whole different can of worms. Re:johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me.

It is because we are so alluring and enchanting...no one can stay away!!! *wink*


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Veröffentlicht am Sun, Jun 24, 2007 00:55

Re:johnnywa write: A slut will do anybody. A bitch will do anybody but me.

HEY!!! What are you doing out of your cage!?!? Did you jump the fence? Get back in your self imposed exile right this minute! And we are not discussing the term bitch - that is a whole different can of worms.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 22, 2007 15:12

Re: So we need an male perjorative term from a greek island? no that won't work either. I think maybe I'll go with my earlier thought that the notion of slut/nympho etc is over and done with - a woman can be sexually powerful, confident and tuned in and turned on without negative conotations. So there. Ok now a term for a fellow who can't keep up with his girl? hummmm??? Oh, I got it - Single.

~~ Satyr ~~ 1. Greek Mythology: A woodland creature depicted as having the pointed ears, legs, and short horns of a goat and a fondness for unrestrained revelry. 2. A licentious man; a lecher. 3. A man who is affected by satyriasis. Satyriasis is excessive, abnormal, or uncontrollable sexual/romantic behavior, desire, and excitement in the male.


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Jun 22, 2007 15:03

Re: honeybiscuit write: Ok now a term for a fellow who can't keep up with his girl? hummmm??? Oh, I got it - Single.

Right On!!!! I cannot think of a better definition than that...ROFL!!!


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