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hollaatyagurl
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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 22, 2011 07:12

I have come to a point in my life of acceptance of the possibility of remaining single. I realize that their is more than enough work to be done on myself. I have to learn to see people as who they really are and not just who I want them to be. I am looking for the friends without the benefits. If I am actually true to myself right now at this point in my life I need a detox. I have worked on cleansing myself of all the toxic people in my life. I just need a fresh start. Sometimes I look at certain women and I actually pity them. True, you have a man that shares the same house with you but not his whole heart with you. I am tired of settling for less than what I deserve so if I have to be single the rest of my life it is better than taking crap from some guy who is incapable of loving anyone because he does not love himself. I promise from this day forward that I will love me and never let anyone else abuse me again. Some signs are there and you already know how this man is. You can not conceal the truth for so long until it slaps you right dead in your face. So ladies no man is better than a piece of man. How do you all feel about this? Ladies and gentlemen please respond.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Aug 06, 2011 00:41

no woman should have to settle for a sorry man

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Veröffentlicht am Sat, May 28, 2011 10:22

95.5% OF MEN ARE TAKERS.WHY DO FEMALES THINK THEY MATTER?IN A MAN,S EYES ,YOU DONT MATTER.THERE IS AT LEAST 7 WOMEN TO 1 MAN TODAY.AND GUESS WHAT? MEN NO THIS.ITS A BIG OLE WORLD THAT MEN CAN JUST F--K UP IN,AND HAVE A DIFFERENT PIECE OF A-- EVERYDAY OF THE WEEK.LOVE THY SELF.


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 29, 2011 22:55

@ Weedy: I am very proud of you. I know that it was a huge adjustment. I am admire your courage and strength. The best is yet to come. I know that special man will be blessed to have you as his lady. @Butterbll: Great advice as always. You can not love anyone until you truly love yourself. A lot of people mistake co-dependency on love. That is simply not true. I have learned through the school of Hard Knocks. I hope to go back through the same things that I went through. I am dusting myself off and taking everything that I felt was a mistake as being a lesson learned. Thanks as always hun for your wisdom. @langue: Hi! Welcome to the blogs!!! @Pink: Thanks hun! I am not settling for anything anymore. Just tired Their comes a point in everyone's life when they just get tired. Thanks, I try. LOL! Very cute pic girlie...


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Veröffentlicht am Fri, Mar 18, 2011 16:13

hiya, i hope your doing well in life! i applaud u for not settling anymore , u deserve better girl! like ya told me your really workin that pic!

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 08, 2011 02:18

Bonjour à toutes. This is a most considerate French mature gentleman speaking. How I wish I were on that tiny speck of an island with one of the gorgeous buxom dames whose most grievous complaints I have been reading here and there. Too far away in France (Lyon) to even dream thereof, woe unto me ! Passez une bonne journée! Au revoir.

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Mar 03, 2011 14:07

I feel A Woman (or man) Should only try to have a relationship only when (s)he is confident of their abilities and their self worth. Because if they enter in to a relationship and they have have a poor sense of their self worth and abilities there will be a trainwreck in their future. Because If one does not know whom the are, those around you may lead you to your ruination. If You know whom you are it gives You the power to choose . It is only when one knows the warning sign that their partner gives them unconsiously.If they heed them , and take steps to solve the problem will one not be a victim.It took me a many years of going to "The School of Hard Knocks for me to learn this. I quess what I am trying to say is "LOVE YOUR SELF FIRST!" Then and only then will you be truely sucessful at love.


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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Mar 03, 2011 14:07

holla-I have had pieces of men and choose NOT to partake again too. I have chosen to be single and am very comfortable with that. PEACE of mind, not PIECE of mind works for me. I encourage your desire for a fresh start. AMEN GIRL! I ended a 19 year relationship a few years ago and I've completed the adjustment (Thank God). I'm just now considering another relationship and as you have made a promise, so do I. The best is yet to come...

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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Mar 02, 2011 09:38

@butterbll: U are always on target. I like that about you. Ladies need to learn their worth. Men too... @Ladilola: Thanks hun! Some people will put up with anything just to say that they have a significant other. I have learned that if it is not right and all that you want and need it to be just let it go. It never amazes me. We do all deserve to have happiness. **Sending a hug back to you honey*** @friday: Thanks hun! I will never give up on love but I promise to love myself more than I love anyone else. Wow! That was a really crazy experience but God brought you out of the situation before you invested a lot of time. I know that God will send you the person who he has in store for you. Thanks hun! I need great people in my corner. Be wishes to u. @tdizzy: Thanks hun! I realize that if you do not love and respect yourself no one else will. You choose to accept how a person treats you are not. The reason why maybe because the person maybe seeing what they want to see. If you do not have self love you will accept anything. Thanks hun! There is nothing to it but to do it. @ozredhead:Thanks hun! I try to give everyone a piece of my heart and soul in everything i say and do. You are so right. You can change no one but yourself. I had to look inside of myself and see that I was worthy as a child of God to be treated like the Queen I am and nothing less. I experienced a situation that put life into perspective for me. It was something very small that happened but it was an eye opener. I appauld you also detoxing and looking internally. I have seen that more quality people are approaching me since I have all of the toxins out of system. Thanks honey!


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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Mar 01, 2011 08:31

Thank you for writing this for in it you show us your heart. I totally agree with you and applaud you for taking the time to look inwardly and to learn to love the most important person you know. I do believe that no man is better than just part of one. Having a man does not make you happy. You make yourself happy. Know that as you build from withing that this will radiate your beauty out and you will find that man that is worthy of you. Having had more broken relationships than I care to count, I had to look inside and saw that I was attracting to me that which was toxic inside of me. It was hard to confront at first, but I had to concede that I would not have accepted those men in my life if there was not some inate need for me to have them there. Detox as you say can do wonders and you will see how doing this will bring you better quality men into your life. Well done and dont let anything stop you from achieving your goals. :)


Life is only as wonderful as you think it is.

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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Feb 24, 2011 02:29

That sounds like a breath of fresh air. I have seen just what you describe in my own familiy and friends. I always wonder why? I just have to say Congratulations! on your new attitude.  



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Veröffentlicht am Wed, Feb 23, 2011 08:27

You are speaking truth, Dear! Great post.....It never seems to surpise me what women (and men) are willing to put themselves through, just to have a relationship. I'm proud of you, and I hope that you continue on your path of inner and outer peace. We all deserve to have that! ***HUGS***


You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be. And whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. ---Max Ehrmann

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Veröffentlicht am Tue, Feb 22, 2011 22:03

AMEN! Ladies Love your self! Dont put up with Abusive Crap from your partner.


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