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Veröffentlicht am Thu, Apr 13, 2006 19:27

I'm nearing 24 and have yet to be in a serious relationship. I've come to realize that this is because I have a lot working against me. First of all, of course, I'm overweight. I know there are guys out there who like women like me, I just don't KNOW any of them. That's why I joined a site like this, I'm tired of guys who want underfed Maxim-esque "beauties" who look like they come from third world countries. I was immediately disappointed when the first profile I viewed was a rather hefty guy looking for "slim" "petite" "athletic" and "average" figured girls. The next one was better, though, so I decided to stay. 2) I'm shy. Ridiculously shy. Borderline anti-social I'd say. I don't "get out there" to meet people. I'm not the go-out-to-bars type. I'm the stay-at-home-and-read type. I know the best thing a plump girl has going for her is her personality, and it's not that I don't have one, it's just that I tend to hide it from other people until I trust them, which usually isn't conducive to making friends or forging any relationships. And finally... I'm celibate. It's not really a religious thing (though I am Christian, just not really serious about it). It's more of a romantic thing, one I can't easily explain. I just happen to believe sex is the most important thing you can give another person, and I would like to save that for the one RIGHT person. Naturally, this doesn't win me any favors with the male population, who all seem determined to get in my pants. To top it off, I would like to meet a guy who's also saved himself for the right woman... Which, with the pressure on guys to "get laid" as soon as possible after puberty, has become fairly well impossible. It doesn't help either that I'm so picky about intellect. Not that a guy has to be a genius (though it does help!), but I'd at least like a man I don't have to stop and explain words to. All in all, I've begun to lump myself in the "going-to-be-alone-forever" category.


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Veröffentlicht am Sat, Apr 15, 2006 03:56

I have two friends whose very first long term relationship was after they were well into their thirtys. They to thought it would never happen for them. I'm happy to report that both found love, and are happily married with children. There is no "time limit"... so sit back and enjoy the ride, take in the scenery, grow as a person and learn to love who you are. He'll find you. *smile*


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